How can you get rid of the idea of a thing

Thoughts cannot be eliminated. It's better to let it go with the flow and let it fade slowly over time.

It is recommended that you look at Morita **, everything cannot be eliminated. Only with them. Go to life. Go for practice.

If you want to let go of something, especially the one you care about is still more difficult, you need to find something new to replace it.

Or just wait for time to fade away.

Change your circle and environment.

It's hard, it's really hard. Sometimes you think you've changed the other person, but it's not. The other person may change on the surface, but some things are ingrained.

Even if you want to change, but at a critical juncture, at an important moment, you will continue to do what you think you are, nothing has changed, it's too difficult. It's more about accommodation, but if you don't coordinate it well, the accumulated anger that accommodates will explode sooner or later, and it will hurt your feelings. Because we don't know what you think is good for each other.

In fact, in the eyes of the other party, it is all wrong, so there is nothing that does not change, it is just accommodating each other.

It mainly depends on whether the idea you want to change will affect the things or practical interests that the other party insists on in their bones. Sometimes you will see that some people are reluctant to change their minds no matter what. Because he has "his own" scale in his heart, (you make him feel that there will be unnecessary sacrifices to change, or you forcibly violate the bottom line of other people's hearts, making him insecure, of course he will not change) and everyone has their own yardstick in their hearts.

Everyone is different, so there will be contradictions, there will be difficulties and easy changes, easy for oneself is not necessarily easy for others, but if it is about morality, it is a big problem of morality.

I think a person's way of doing things is completely related to his personality, and changing a person's attitude is equivalent to changing his character. If you want to change a person's personality, you must deeply understand the person's personality weaknesses, and then through communication with others, you can slowly change the wrong way of doing things, understand a more positive attitude towards getting along with people, and slowly change the way you get along with others.

Hard, very hard. Take myself as an example, if I want to change, then after listening to it, I will change, if I don't want to change, no matter what I show I can change, but unfortunately, in the end I still won't change, I can compromise, but my inner thoughts are still like that.

I think it's difficult, if two people force each other to accept their ideas in the case of inconsistency, it's better to let each other be an audience, and then express the opinions of the next two people, two people who are not parallel to each other will also have an intersection, maybe it will be more interesting than two chats with the same three views, the strong melon is not sweet, you don't need to think that my thoughts are good for you These ways are treated, most of them don't want to accept this way to change their minds, just like sometimes adults always tell you in this way You don't believe it, and after you suffer a loss, you will suddenly realize that this is really the case. Maybe I've experienced what adults say, but it's a new field to not have the same point of view, and I think it's hard to change a person's mind.

For someone who doesn't want to change, it's useless how much you spur him; For those who want to change, they don't have to spur themselves to change. Personally, I didn't want to change myself, and I didn't think there was anything wrong with me doing this. When I was in college, I felt that the people around me were hypocritical, so I didn't socialize with my college classmates very much, so much so that I almost got depressed and even wanted to take a leave of absence.

At that time, I didn't think that I couldn't change the environment, so I changed myself, because I didn't want to change. Now that I am slowly integrating into society, if I really don't change, it will not be good for life and work, I have personal experience, and after encountering some setbacks, I began to think about my own problems and change from them. Therefore, it is still more difficult to change others, mainly because you are conscious and want to change.

It's hard to change a person's mind. Especially adults who already have a fixed way of thinking. Everyone's experience is different, and so is the attitude towards things.

So why is there any argument? I think the purpose of the argument is to find the most reasonable and neutral way to resolve it. The idea has not changed that everyone gives in a little bit to get an outcome that is acceptable to both parties, or that one side makes a compromise.

But if one party can explain the matter in a scientific or real number or sentence, and the other party has not known the inside story before, it is easier for that person to change his mind.

The formation of three views and the world view is formed with their own growth over the years, and the environment and family education have a lot to do with the formation of a person's three views, for a problem, especially the principle of the problem is difficult to make a big change, if it is a familiar person in general, there will always be a result, but for the choice of principle issues may only make a small change, or even do not change, I think seeking common ground while reserving differences is still the most important, of course, if it is your dearest and beloved person, similar to a girlfriend may make changes.

We should look at everything from two aspects, look at the problem from a dialectical point of view, think about the problem with the idea of materialism, and think about the problem with the idea of dividing it into two.

Everyone has a different understanding of how things are viewed.

You can't expect everyone to think the same way.

Everyone has a different opinion on things, as long as you think it is right, why care about what others think?

Don't fight against this kind of thinking, or you'll be more confused. Try to quietly observe your thoughts, but don't deny them.

The solution is to try to go with the flow, focus your mind on learning, and don't think about what you don't think.

You can tell if the idea is not what you want to come about, or it's a good start to understand yourself.

In our life, what kind of mood you have, how you will look at the world, if you are very positive and optimistic, then when you see the world, you will think that it is very bright and sunny. But when you are very depressed, when you see the world, you will only think of some very bad sides, and you will naturally complain about the injustice of the world. I want to be able to face the world objectively and ensure that I see the world objectively.

You can start from the following aspects.

Maintain a good attitude, don't be extreme when you encounter difficulties, be patient with things, be rational, and don't let emotions be manipulated.

You need to have a positive mindset so that you can see things objectively.

Use a rational analytical method to look at the problem, don't be emotional, and analyze the causes and consequences and the stakes more.

Learn more, change your mindset more, and don't think from your own position when thinking about problems.

We should look at things from a dialectical point of view, and the same is true of right and wrong. Although people have different views on things due to their different positions, views, attitudes, psychological qualities, and cultural levels, there is only one truth, and if you can fully demonstrate that you are right, then he is right, but don't be stubborn, don't be stubborn. When judging, 1 is not illegal 2 does not violate morality, and the interests of others or public groups cannot be harmed by preserving one's own interests, and what is beneficial to oneself, others and society is good.

But when there is a conflict between individual interests and collective interests, collective interests take precedence, but it does not mean that individual interests should be ignored, appropriate personal interests should also be respected and maintained.

Do what you really think, and don't care what others think.

Don't bother, just adopt me.

The Buddha said, "Wrong, wrong, wrong, whose fault is it, and are you not wrong?"

Do not seek right or wrong, but ask for a clear conscience.

If you don't know how to do it, don't do it, be yourself, be true to yourself.

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