What if my girlfriend has a better friend and ignores me, and she doesn t listen to me

What should you do if your best friend has a better friend and ignores you, and he doesn't listen to what you say? Personally, I think that if your best friend has a friend of the opposite sex, then this phenomenon is actually very normal, everyone will fall in love, and they will live with this person after they enter the marriage hall in the future. Will you feel even more lost then?

In fact, this kind of emotional loss can make people feel difficult to let go. It's because I haven't met someone who can focus on love. At this time, it is actually better to try to find your own love.

Because he will make you discover that you can have better intimate partners besides girlfriends. If your girlfriend is a same-sex acquaintance and alienates you. Personally, I don't think there is any point in continuing to have a relationship with such a girlfriend.

Don't be a girlfriend like this, those who will leave are just passers-by, and there are so many people in the world, you don't have to hang yourself from a tree, she cares about you, you take care of him, he doesn't care about you, you don't have to pay attention to him.

Fate has arrived. Do what you have to do.

Leave it alone. You're not anybody. It's the self-improvement that matters.

You're talking about the same thing as falling out of love.

Doesn't she like it better, and if you do better, she doesn't like it?

And then there is this kind of friend who can abandon you for better things, and you can also get to know her better, and then there is, except for parents and lovers, no one can accompany you to go far, and many of these roads are walked by ourselves, so don't care too much, do something to make yourself happy.

In fact, girlfriends sometimes say yes because they can talk to you about everything. But sometimes it's not good, such as in a situation like hers, I think the problem of two people is better solved by two people, and it is still inappropriate for you to persuade her to break up.

Because many times it is inevitable for couples to quarrel, and couples quarreling does not mean that they no longer love each other, it is likely to be just some relatively small things, and you can reconcile after sleeping in the hole, so you, as a best friend, can guide her to think in a good place, and you can accompany her by your side, but it is best not to interfere, only the parties can understand the feeling of love.

I think she may feel that since she doesn't listen to your advice and uses her own judgment, she is still with her boyfriend, but after being with her boyfriend, there will still be frequent quarrels, but at this time she should not dare to come to you again.

Because once she comes to you, you will definitely continue to persuade her to break up, which is not what she wants, and she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend, so she will gradually stop looking for you to complain and tell her own thoughts.

I don't know if you understand my words, I think there is a misunderstanding between two people, there must be someone to resolve it, in fact, love will bring happiness to people, but also bring pain to people, you also have to understand your best friend more, if you have a chance to be with her next time, then don't persuade her to break up or something.

I wonder if there's anything wrong with you being a good friend of your best friend? What does it mean?

If your best friend is estranged from you, first calm down. After all, girls' minds are more delicate and not as coarse as boys, so it is normal to have some contradictions because of some misunderstandings. But it's not the most critical thing, it's up to you how you solve and deal with it.

Today we are going to talk about what to do if you are alienated by your girlfriends?

First of all, you must first find your best friend and communicate with her. If it's really because of some contradictions, then you have to explain it well, or see who the problem is. If it's not because of the conflict, but because you're simply depressed, you don't seem to be so active, you don't need to panic too much.

Comfort your best friend, maybe her mood will become better and her impression of you will be much better.

Second, you don't get too nervous. Sometimes people will be in a low mood, if your best friend is just in a bad mood, but you suspect that he is alienated from you because of something else. First of all, you misunderstood, your best friend didn't say it, it also caused a lot of psychological pressure on yourself, and you also wondered if you had done something wrong.

Excessive guessing will make both people feel very uncomfortable.

Finally, it is necessary to connect more with friends. If you and your girlfriend don't see each other for a long time, there may be some estrangement. In fact, people are like this, heh, those friends who often deal with each other may have a lot of fun, but it will be a little rusty to communicate with those friends who have not seen each other for a long time.

If you have friends who are unfamiliar with you, you can also think about whether you have been too busy with work lately and have neglected them.

In short, when encountering these problems, you must calm down and think about what the reason is. First of all, don't blame yourself, and then don't think about it. Be sure to use communication to solve the problem, don't be overly anxious because of the estrangement of friends, and maintain a good attitude is the key to solving the problem.

Everyone needs different friends at different times, which is normal, and you can also get to know other people.

This look is really sad, if the relationship is iron enough, you can say it directly, after all, it is a girlfriend.

Try to take the initiative to contact your girlfriend more, maybe she is not alienated from you.

It's normal, isn't life just for him to come, and you go? Remember, the only one who accompanies you in the end is yourself.

Just talk to your girlfriend about what you think, see what she says, and then make a decision.

It shows that your relationship is not strong enough, just talk to him more.

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My girlfriend has a good relationship with others, and I don't pay much attention to me, what should I do.

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Hello. Good evening, happy to answer your questions, you may treat her as a best friend, and she will treat you as a hail friend. Take a look, some people in Songsen can go very far, some people can only accompany you for a while, and few people can accompany you all the time.

If she just treats you as a friend, then you don't have to be angry, it will appear that you are small-minded, just get along as friends.

Girlfriends don't pay much attention to you if they have a good relationship with others, just keep the status quo in such a situation, and there is no need to deliberately please you. There is no need to be annoying in daily life, because if she is not with you, it means that he has found his better friend. People will meet new friends, but it is unrealistic to forget old friends, and many people will slowly forget their old friends when they meet new friends.

So just go with the flow, and if you have a new friend, you don't pay much attention to you, which means that she doesn't think of you as a girlfriend.

Summary. Hello, dear, at this time you can tentatively ask her, for example, I feel that I don't have a few good friends now, see how she replies to you, if she replies, she doesn't have few, or reply, I'm not your good friend, in this case, you are already best friends, and the definition of a good friend can also be a best friend.

I'm just good friends with her, but I want to be best friends with her, but I'm afraid that she will have a best friend, what should I do at this time.

Hello, dear, at this time you can tentatively ask her, for example, I feel that I don't have a few good friends now, see how she replies to you, if she replies, she doesn't have few, or reply, I'm not your good friend, in this case, you are already best friends, and the definition of a good friend can also be a best friend.

Kiss, and there is not only one girlfriend, there can also be two or three, if she has a girlfriend, you can try to integrate them together, the friendship of the three people can also be very strong.

We used to have three girlfriends like this, but I always felt that I couldn't tolerate them, and I had a lot of unpleasant things with her before.

You can tentatively ask her if she has a girlfriend.

Maybe you're her best friend, but I don't think you need to care too much about how many girlfriends your good friends have, you can share your preferences, fun, go shopping together, and play together.

Don't worry too much about how much you weigh in other people's hearts.