My boyfriend and my cousin are okay, how should I deal with it

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't want this kind of man

    Judging from the fact that your cousin's parents do not agree, this man is not a person with particularly good conditions or character

    If you are such a bad person, why should you be nostalgic?

    There will be better ones in the future, don't worry.

    As for blessings, I don't think you should say anything well, if your cousin asks you if you bless them or if you hate them.

    You can say this to her:

    How can I hate you, I really want you to be happy, but I will not persuade you to part or bless you, because if I say that he is not good at persuading you to break up, you will think that I am destroying you and jealous of you.

    But if I bless you, if you don't have a good day, you will blame me again, saying that I know he is not good and still matches the two of you.

    See for yourself

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no right or wrong thing about feelings. Sometimes love comes to you and you can't avoid him. How can this be understood as a flower heart?

    Don't think in the first person when you think about the problem, please think about it from a different perspective, if this happens to you. If you're that guy. What will you do?

    Loss.. Emotional matters are super complicated. Only by going with the flow and avoiding it will only make the problem more problematic, let's face it

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be that kind of man, it's a big turnip, your cousin too, I know it's my sister's boyfriend and still seduce, I really want to, let them go, anyway, the family doesn't agree with them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's okay, it's just a cousin, and we don't see each other every day. For such a boyfriend, you should act as if nothing happened in front of him and find a better man than him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It seems that you don't care enough about him, you may really not be suitable, they are suitable, bless them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    LZ is so pitiful, how could I meet such a boyfriend and cousin, the rabbit still doesn't eat the grass next to the nest, how to deal with it in the future, disgusting.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Face it bravely, it will be better to find a new boyfriend, don't be too persistent.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At the beginning of them, if you are generous, it may be another result, no matter how you choose, don't regret it, don't lose it until you know it's important, there is no regret medicine.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Face it as you please.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Judging from your description, they seem to be a little ambiguous. You should ask him so that he will not be rough and can be intimate with her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The boyfriend and his cousin have a close relationship, and if it's his mother's old mill, he can be cautious.

    They may be half-siblings or close relatives.

    You don't have to worry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just like you suspected, growing up as a childhood sweetheart, aunts and cousins like each other, and there is a bit of an ambiguous relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Their relationship is that of a cousin and a cousin, and other things can only say that they have a very good relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Who knows what's going on! What you said is not particularly specific, there are many cousins in the jujube Qiaoyan because of their lenient trouble, and there are too many very good stools! I don't dare to speculate on this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You think too much, and you definitely don't think about it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He lied to you, not a cousin at all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's not talk about whether your boyfriend has anything to do with that cousin, this boyfriend doesn't give you a sense of security, or can't give you a sense of security. I also have a very good brother with Dao, we even slept together, and he gave me a lot of pocket money. But after he has a girlfriend, I won't see him, hug him and hold him, knowing how to avoid suspicion is a necessary rule for a good sister and a good brother.

    It doesn't matter what sister controls sister and brother control, your girlfriend must be taken care of by yourself, otherwise there are many helpful boys in the world.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sometimes men and women may have different opinions. Women are sometimes narrow-minded. If a person's boyfriend is just communicating normally with other women or needs to be contacted. Usually he keeps his distance from his female friends. As a woman, don't make a fuss.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I said copy

    A true thing, my mother told me, it turned out that my family lived in a compound, and I was two or three years old at the time, and my neighbors were all parents and colleagues, and the child was one year younger than me. The neighbor's uncle had two younger sisters, and then these two sisters always bullied the neighbor's aunt. The quarrel is "I grew up with my brother since I was a child, we are so close, what kind of thing are you?!"

    How many years have you only been here? Don't stir up our brother and sister relationship here! The neighbor's aunt didn't refute, and the uncle didn't help, just watching his sister scold his wife, maybe he also felt that his newly married wife was not as good as his sister who grew up together.

    Then when I was looking for a boyfriend, my mother always said that I wanted to find an only child, at least I couldn't have sisters, and the sister-in-law was terrible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My stinky family is a jealous master. I chatted with the female Bai classmate, she knew and wanted to say it, I chatted with the female student, she knew that she wanted to say it, I played with my sister and she knew that she wanted to talk about it, I hugged my grandfather and took a photo, she saw it and wanted to say it, and even my dog's leg was on my lap**, and her first reaction was to ask me if this dog was a male and female ......But I just love her, and I can't love her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    About jealousy. Definitely jealous.

    Yes. Speaking of which, I'm a person who even eats my boyfriend's hemp vinegar. Girls are like this, they know it's nothing, but they just mind a little.

    But don't take it seriously. Well, the best thing to do is to put yourself and your boyfriend on the same side. Treat my sister as someone who worries about herself.,Take it for your own use.。

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Maybe there's something between them, but then they can't get married either. What's so jealous. Maybe his cousin is good at everything, but there is one thing she is always jealous of, that is. You have a chance to marry him, and she doesn't. His cousin is pitiful, a love that can't be obtained!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Dear, you can only tell your boyfriend about this, if your boyfriend doesn't want to, maybe you can only accept it.

    My boyfriend's cousin and boyfriend have a good relationship I can't accept it.

    Dear, you can only tell your boyfriend about this, if your boyfriend doesn't want to, maybe you can only accept it.

    After all, it's a cousin-sister relationship.

    But can you tell Mr. Xiaohu about how their relationship is good?

    He and his cousin grew up together from Bi Oak Elementary The relationship should be very good His cousin bought a couple towel and asked her boyfriend which color she wanted What does the stool mean Zheng Ma is very regretful and strange.

    The relationship is really weird, and it's a couple towel after all. I can't accept it if it's me.

    Have you talked to your boyfriend about that?

    After all, his cousin is also old, can he keep his distance appropriately?

    They always talk together I can't even speak, and I walk and guess very quickly, and her cousin will call me sister-in-law, but sometimes it feels like they're too close, although they don't have limbs.

    Then you can only get used to it slowly.

    You can talk to your boyfriend individually.

    I don't know if it's because I'm thinking too much or if they're northerners.

    If he refuses, there is no way.

    I'm also southern, so I can't quite understand it either.

    But I think you can talk to your boyfriend about what you think, and he should listen to you.

    He listened, but his cousin was still like that, and I was disgusted.

    It's true that when I talk to my boyfriend, his cousin will interject, and I feel disgusted, and I feel that if I have a fight in the future, no one will be on my side, and it will be scary to think about.

    Yes, and you're supposed to live with them from the South, right?

    So sometimes it's really helpless to marry far away, and my mother's family can't help it, and my mother-in-law's family can't point to it.

    Then you try not to participate in his game with his cousin on purpose, do you think it will be better?

    Deliberately don't want to make his cousin feel uncomfortable with you.

    You didn't say anything anyway.

    But his cousin is watching TV, I don't like He Shi to watch, I can only lie down and play with my phone, my boyfriend is eating with my cousin outside, filming and watching movies, because I come to my aunt, I don't feel comfortable in cherry clothes, so I can't eat.

    Does his cousin often come to your place?

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