Why do unhappy marriages start in good times?

Because marriage is like a piece of exquisite porcelain, a dazzling vase filled with flowers, full of fragrance. But if you are not careful, you will be crushed, so careful care is very important.

When you are used to living a good life, it is easy not to take precautions. Time has been punishing people who don't manage their marriages well. Marriage is beautiful at first, collapse is instantaneous, and marriage failure is the accumulation of years.

As the saying goes: It's easy to fall in love, but it's too hard to stay together. When men and women get married, they want to live a good life, and the marriage is very good, and they feel that they are the happiest people in the world.

But why are there more and more families with unhappy marriages now, and the once beautiful ones have gone? Most of them are not doing well.

A family with a good beginning was harmonious at first, and the husband and wife respected each other like guests. Respect each other, be humble with each other, and discuss things together. But after a long period of life, too many couples do not pay attention to the attitude of husband and wife, thinking that it doesn't matter if they are together, they can talk as much as they want, and lose their temper when they want to lose their temper, often blowing their beards and glaring, scolding.

Frequent use of verbal violence can be a huge risk to marriage. Many couples often fail in this seemingly simple link, but in fact they need to be taken seriously.

Don't despise the small problems and small details in the marriage, many times, it is these trivial chatters, instinctive quarrels, and stubborn hypocrisy that make the small problems deduced into a big right and wrong. Men are desperately trying to earn money to support their families outside, but in real life, often men make money, but the marriage relationship breaks down, and the unhappy marriage starts with these details.

Marriage needs to be managed more, and a basic principle should be maintained: when the state is good, to manage the needs of the perfect marriage, to be enthusiastic about the marriage. When you are in a bad state, you should adjust yourself calmly and don't hurt each other.

If you want to live a good life, learn to respect your marriage and defend it, which is a must for everyone who is looking forward to a happy marriage.

Because this marriage is already very unfortunate, if it was not a good life at the beginning, the two people would never be together, they were all confused by the beginning of the good.

Because once you have spent that time of sharing joys and sorrows, both boys and girls will gradually become dissatisfied in the good days, and they will want more and more things, and naturally the distance between the two people will become farther and farther.

Because once two people have a good life, two people will not sympathize with each other as they did in bad days, and two people will find each other's shortcomings.

Every couple is full of yearning for marriage at the beginning, thinking that they are the happiest people in the world, but with the occurrence of various conflicts after marriage, everyone is becoming more and more disappointed in marriage, so many people choose to escape, rather than take the initiative to solve the problem, and finally lead to a more unfortunate ending.

Because when there is a good life in marriage, it is also a time when the family has money and good conditions, some men may become bad because they are rich, which causes a lot of conflicts with their wives, and the marriage becomes unhappy.

Because when a good life is lived, the husband will gradually forget what it was like to share joys and sorrows together. When the husband and wife worked together to earn some family business, the husband thought that his wife was old and decrepit, and chose to divorce to find a younger and more beautiful girl.

A good life is easy to paralyze, and when life is bad, the husband and wife still have goals to strive for, and now they only want to enjoy life when they live a good life, and the shortcomings of the two people will also be magnified.

What makes a good marriage?It is to live his own life.

The reason for everyone's unhappy marriage is a common problem, which is that they always think that unhappy marriage is a matter of two people. What is my husband who doesn't care about the family, messes with flowers, my wife is too strong, short-tempered, etc. What should I do?Cold salad, you don't care what he does, you just have to live by yourself.

The best couples don't live their own lives at all.

The most dangerous thing in this world is two things, one is called trust, and the other is called dependence, when you have absolute trust and dependence on a person, the probability of you being hurt will be greatly increased. You can have a desire to spend the rest of your life with him, but also be prepared that he will leave at any time.

A good state of love, it's not that if he is gone, you will collapse and die and come back to life. Good love is independent and intimate, and love and freedom. When they are together, they are invincible in the world, and after they are separated, they are also awesome.

At this point, we have to learn from Xiaolongnu, not Yang Guo. Xiaolongnu fell under the cliff, and Yang Guo looked for her for 17 years. Many people think that Yang Guo is good, and he is very persistent in love, but in fact, the real power is the little dragon girl.

When Yang Guo found the little dragon girl under the water of the pool, guess what happened to the little dragon girl, she forgot about Yang Guo, people have lived happily under the water of the pool for more than ten years, and the days are quite moisturizing, raising honey and practicing kung fu in it every day.

When Yang Guo saw Xiaolongnu, Yang Guo was excited to die, "Auntie, aunt", Xiaolongnu turned around and said, "Alas, who is this person?" Why is it so familiar, ah, pass, come, come, hurry, come and let my aunt see".

So, you found that Xiaolongnu has not lived so painfully in the past 17 years, and Bu Chang has not been heartbreaking, why? Because of the disadvantages of the stove, the little dragon girl grew up in the ancient tomb since she was a child, and her life was very independent and she did not have any dependence on others. If you are with me, I will go to the rivers and lakes with you, if you are not with me, I am also very happy to play alone.

There are also many people who discuss the problems of life, the four words "live a good life", live a selfish and hidden search, not to say that you want to hurt others for profit, but to know how to treat yourself.

When you taste the ruthlessness of reality, the pressure of economy, the unbearable marriage, and the sinister nature of human nature, you will eventually understand that letting go of wrong obsessions, being kind to yourself, studying and making money is the most important partner in your life, as for the rest, don't take it too seriously.

Kazuo Inamori said: Why do people get married, this is the best answer I have ever heard.

When you encounter something, you can have someone to discuss, and when you are bored, you can have someone to talk to.

Life is too long, there must always be someone who knows each other.

If you love the right thing, you know that marriage is a fun trip together.

Marriage is just a banquet is lively, and what supports your whole life is love.

It's when you think it's more interesting for two people to be together than for one person.

It's just when you feel like you're still going to have a lot of problems, but you can handle them well.

Marriage really can't rely on tolerance, grievances, understanding, running-in, this kind of uncomfortable-sounding words to get along and manage, so tired all day long that you lie down in a marriage or? Troublesome.

If one day you get married, I hope you will be happy from the bottom of your heart, rather than breathing a sigh of relief and feeling that you have completed a task.

In fact, the best marriage is not for you to earn money to support your family, I am responsible for being beautiful like a flower.

It's that we work together, you're very good, and I'm not bad.

I can understand your hard work, and you can also understand my hard work.

And the best marital state is:

Your heart is full of me, my eyes are full of children, you are my heaven and my children, and my children and I are your destination.

At home, there are fireworks in the kitchen, and there are worries and greetings outside.

There is communication and understanding in the spirit.

In life, there is dependence and tolerance.

Marriage is not 1+1=2, but.

After getting married, two people need to remove half of their personalities, and life will be more harmonious, don't always expect the perfect other party, know how to pay and tolerate is the best preservative for marriage!

Women can proudly say: Look, that's my man!

Men can also proudly say: Look, she is worthy of being my woman!

A good marriage, it is not to find fault with each other and dislike each other, but two people, care for each other and grow together, if in a marriage, each other is indifferent, do not care about each other's self-esteem at all, including the vanity of a small liquid, then this marriage is meaningless.

May you ride the wind and waves and find the true nature of happiness.

Hello, I don't think there is anything good about the wedding day, the happiness of the family depends on whether the two people can work together, otherwise there will be many wives separated on a good day. If the choice of marriage date can determine whether a marriage is happy or not, then the divorce rate in our country will definitely drop sharply or even zero! Because in our country, most people will choose a day to get married, but not all those who choose a good day to get married can grow old happily!

Whether the marriage of two people can be happy and long-lasting should still depend on the two people themselves, rather than on external conditions such as choosing a date or whether the coupons are compatible!

I think a good day is definitely important for marriage, because only a good day will everyone be happy, and the family will be better managed.

I think a good day is very important, because the Chinese tradition is to choose a good day to get married.

It is important, because in a marriage, it is inseparable from the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and a "good life" will make people satisfied.