How can I not feel inferior?

Looks like a girl, right?

I used to have the same experience, but in fact, when I actually walked over, I realized that it was my own psychological disorder. When entering the second year of high school, many things should be learned to prioritize. Have you done your job well?

Have you done what you can to do well? When you do what is most important to you, you will find that the problems of these classmates and teachers are very small, because it is no longer important, because it is no longer a problem. If you deny yourself before others deny you, do you think this is a bit self-inflicted?

Therefore, first learn to affirm yourself appropriately, and then subtly let others affirm you, so as to not only improve your ability but also increase your own value, do your own things well, you will naturally find that your potential is also very huge. You tell me?

Hehe, good grades don't necessarily mean good ability! Ability is better than opportunity! I wasn't good at studying at the time!

I only took a junior college, and they were admitted to the same class! 7 years have passed! I now have my own company and factory, but what about them?

Or work for someone else! As long as you are honest and low-key, careful and steady! In this way, I believe that in the near future, you can also be respected!

It's not that you don't study well, it means that you don't have anything.

To save low self-esteem, first of all, you need to find the cause of low self-esteem. For most people with low self-esteem, it is mainly due to material deprivation, childhood trauma and lack of love, appearance defects, lack of ability and other aspects. Physiognomy, family, and intelligence are a major part of the congenital causes, while the rest are mainly acquired.

Secondly, if you understand the reasons for low self-esteem, you need to solve it in a targeted manner, specifically in four aspects:

Raise material conditions. There is no doubt that money can make people more confident to a certain extent, generally speaking, society is material, material is the most recognized and accepted by the public, and it is also an important factor in maintaining a person's life and dignity. Can make money, make more money, can effectively ** material scarcity, such as:

When I was a child, I was financially scarce, and many things could only be seen and not bought when I was a child, but when I had the financial ability, after the desire to buy was satisfied, the psychological subconscious could make up for the lack of material, which was conducive to physical and mental health. In addition, it is possible to make certain adjustments to personal appearance defects to improve self-confidence.

**Love. No matter how rich or famous you are, you will still deeply feel the anxiety caused by inferiority in terms of emotion. Therefore, a person who lacks love in his heart is the root, only when he feels completely loved in his heart, can he love others better, it is recommended to find a warm lover, family or friend, give love, tolerance and encouragement.

Yao Yuan is the best example in the TV series "Far Away", although he has become the boss of the group, he will still face the inner conflict caused by the lack of love, and he will wander between his lovers.

Become an excellent person in a certain aspect or a certain field. For the lack of ability, having a certain outstanding ability often brings people an inner sense of pride, which makes people more confident, especially in their work, and excellent performance will win more recognition and respect from others. From the essence of society, the ability and status are measured by the creation of value, and vice versa.

It takes an excellent skill to make a person stand out from the crowd. Jobs was born because of Apple, he made Apple, and when it comes to Jobs, people will never forget the glorious history of the Apple empire he once created.

Independent personality building. Some people, timid in their hearts, afraid of making mistakes or being hurt, often avoid the eyes of everyone, and be restricted from an early age, especially girls who have been taught to be obedient and sensible since childhood, and it is easy to become well-behaved, assertive, and easy to feel inferior. Therefore, you can try some extreme sports, challenge yourself, bold attempts, and unbridled hard work will make people more confident and self-reliant step by step.

I once met an eldest sister, nearly 45 years old, but she still looks like a little girl, it is difficult to leave the protection of her parents and partners, many things are decided by her family, and the loss of independence always feels a little weak.

Therefore, "being able to make money and making more money" is an important foundation for a person's inferiority, but the method of a person's inferiority complex also needs to give warm love, tolerance and independence, as well as something that is extremely lacking in the depths of the heart, so as to make it a panacea for soothing the soul.

I remember when I graduated from junior high school, I wanted to study as a middle school teacher, but my mother wanted me to go to high school and go to university. At that time, I heard from a friend that high school was very stressful. I'm scared that I really don't want to go, mainly because I don't have any lofty goals!

I asked my mother to sign me up for a normal school, and she actually planned to let me go to an ordinary high school, and she said that after finishing high school, I could also take the normal exam, and then I would go to a new high school!

The nervous senior year of high school finally came, and at this time I turned eighteen years old, and I felt that I was an adult and wanted to be a mature person, but my behavior was still very naïve. Mood swings are great, always feel that they are not good enough, and especially cry. I have to cry when I run out of money, I have to cry when I'm sick, I have to cry when my best friend is in love, I'm always crying!

Then it's the third year of high school, non-stop exams, monthly exams, joint exams, research exams, mock exams, and various exams, which make us nervous, make us sad, make us excited, and let us look forward to it!

Just when the good days beckoned to me, my mother fell ill, a serious illness.

Later, I was admitted to the normal school as I wished, but I did not continue to go to school, for many years, this is a thorn in my heart, in my heart faintly painful, resulting in low self-esteem all the time, and then later, my mother also left, since then I have no mother in this world, no mother, so that my inferiority complex has deepened a lot!

Now, speaking of this, I no longer have low self-esteem, and I can face these painful memories head-on, and I think I am relieved.