I have low self esteem. How can I be more confident. Female is not pretty. Not high.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Try to do something you want to do, but don't dare to do, even if you fail, it doesn't matter, just exercise your courage, do more, there will always be success, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that you are already very good and confident. I'm doing it myself, trying things I might not have been able to do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you feel that you can't compare to others on the outside, then you have to strengthen your heart and substance! Shape your own temperament. Many girls will have this experience, and changing their mindset is the most important thing! Come on! You have to believe in yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then read more books, and have poetry and books in your belly. Learn a talent or something.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think more about your own merits, a person can't have no merits There is such a sentence We all know that God will leave you a window when he closes the door for you, and there must be a shining point in your body that you have not found.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The heart is strong, in fact, you can have plastic surgery, just a slight plastic surgery, what's the use of being so beautiful, it's not safe to go by yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm not pretty, I'm not tall, but there are a lot of people who like to be with me. Because of kindness. Don't spray me.

    It's true.. You can too... It's good to have someone to love, but no one loves it doesn't mean it's not good enough, there will always be someone who will give everything for you, sooner or later...

    Good luck.. (##

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Read more books, humanities, philosophy, human nature.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Remember, there are people who appreciate you, respect you, need you, and be confident for them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is gold that always shines, and I am born to be useful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Believe in yourself, no one can make you feel inferior, but only you can make yourself confident.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find a boyfriend you like and you will find confidence.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are unique, and you don't live for others to see, for yourself.

    If the external conditions are good, there are not necessarily no troubles, and brainless beauties are more terrible than ordinary-looking girls.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Remember the saying that how big your heart is, how big your world is.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You care too much about what others think of you, now live yourself. When you are tired and rest, you laugh when you are happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Believe that you can, you still have your parents and people who love you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't feel inferior, think about happy events.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't feel inferior! I'm not tall or pretty! But my husband loves me very much! Take me everywhere and never spend the night out! The ugly duckling also has spring.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually you're great, believe in yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm tall, make friends with me.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Confidence and good height have nothing to do with it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    is married to a wife, not a model, beautiful and can't be seen as a flower.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The most people in the world are ordinary people, why don't they have self-confidence, they still can't think about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Makeup, makeup, dress up, dress up well, it's no problem, this girl will be confident.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If short girls want to make themselves more confident, they must read more books, enrich themselves with knowledge, make themselves more cultivated, more connotative, and can also dress themselves up through clothing, so that they can become more decent and generous, look more comfortable, softer, and after slow changes, they can make themselves more confident.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    1.Go and discover your strengths.

    Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, strengths and weaknesses. It's inevitable that no one is perfect, and there are more or less small gaps. We must know how to learn from each other's strengths, find our own strengths, and carry them forward.

    If the shortcomings can be changed, then work hard, if not, only settle down, seriously maximize the advantages, and let it become a powerful support in your life.

    2.Adjust your mindset and maintain a good mindset.

    You have low self-esteem because of your height and care what others think of you. In fact, it doesn't have to be like this, people who like you will like you, because you are you, and people who don't like you will also dislike you, which may be due to different views and personalities in some aspects.

    The attraction between people is not because of height, but because of the individual's own existence, supported by some internal things, such as personality, self-charm, three views, excellent quality, etc. It is recommended to maintain a good attitude in order to achieve more ambitious goals. "Self-confidence is the first step on the road to success, and lack of self-confidence is the main reason for failure. ”

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Actually short girl.

    It looks even more petite and cute.

    Sometimes the pretty girl is more pleasing to others.

    Therefore, short girls should first make themselves more confident.

    And then it's all about getting yourself.

    It becomes more lively and cute.

    Keep smiling every day and your confidence will be boosted.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Short girls should first choose clothes that are too fat or too long in terms of clothing, so that they can not show their own advantages, and at the same time keep a shorter hairstyle, which looks more clean and neat, so as to become more confident.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Short girls can make people feel that you are a person with content by enriching their knowledge, so that you are very confident. In addition, you can also make yourself confident by dressing up, being clean, tidy, and showing sunshine outside. Short girls should also have self-confidence, don't feel inferior because they are short, give full play to their strengths, give full play to their inner sunny side, they will always be sunny and confident.

    Just be confident in yourself. I don't feel inferior because I'm short.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    1. If the problem of stature causes some anxiety, then the reason for the anxiety is mainly the psychological contradiction caused by the escape from reality.

    2. Proper clothing, neat and appropriate hairstyle, and polite manners will make your temperament change greatly, which is incomparable to your innate height and appearance.

    4. Sense of humor and self-deprecation, if a flaw is impossible to talk about, then it will be the source of your eternal pain, but if you can face it optimistically, or even use some humor to resolve it, it is only a part of you.

    So you may find that the way to improve self-confidence is not to regard it as a shortcoming in the eyes of everyone, but to see it as a "feature" of yours, not to be tall to be confident, all self-confidence ** is a person's overall self-feeling, it has nothing to do with the outside, but its own internal satisfaction and balance.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    ActuallyHeight doesn't directly determine whether you're confident or not, and a man's self-confidence shouldn't be based on height.

    And the girl's attitude will also be affected by you, when you don't care too much about this thing, the other party will not take it seriously, on the contrary, you care very much, and the other party will also take this point as your "shortcoming".

    The essence of self-confidence is the state of mind, if we can't change something we can't change, then at least we can change the way we look at things. In fact, the most effective way to truly overcome this inferiority complex is self-acceptance. When I was younger, I hated being called short.

    Later, when I grew up, I understood: as long as others don't mean to insult me and say that I'm short, I basically don't care too much. You know, people are just telling a fact.

    If someone really makes fun of you because of your height, don't worry, his face will definitely be more ugly than yours at that time. Now I sometimes joke about my height. When you don't care too much about yourself, others don't care too much.

    You see, the so-called lack of self-confidence is just the shackles you put on yourself. If you look at us as a third-class cripple through the eyes of a game. We have been tuned into a difficult mode by God.

    It is enough to work hard to overcome and solve these difficulties. And isn't this kind of life more interesting? And you have to know that the final outcome of the game is no different from everyone else's.

    Isn't it much better to think about it this way?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Make eye contact with others:Don't always keep your head down when you speak, not only do you feel that the other party is not confident, but even you feel weak. Bravely looking into each other's eyes is not only respect, but also self-confidence.

    Be brave enough to speak your mind:Shouldn't you express yourself in group activities such as seminars and club activities? How can a person who is always "slipping away" be confident?

    Don't worry that you will say the wrong thing, youth is capital, because you are young, the leader will understand and guide, and when the leader sees your progress, he will be surprised.

    Always be prepared:Whenever you have an important interview, perform or speak in public, you must prepare in advance and practice how to speak in front of your family and friends.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    So, if you have similar low self-esteem, you can also try the above methods to see if it can help you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Try to be good. Only excellent people deserve to have a better self, and only by becoming excellent can they not make themselves so inferior.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    To improve one's ability, as long as you can provide material and spiritual support to your beloved woman, this is also the so-called talented woman.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then you need to dig out the advantages of your body, and you also want your girlfriend to praise yourself more.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't live in the eyes of others, insist on your own ideas, and be yourself. Maybe there are some gossiping people around us, and there are some girls who just care too much about other people's opinions, so they live very restrained, and they don't know how to be themselves. If you live in the mouth of others, you will only make yourself less and less confident, and you will not even be able to find yourself at the beginning.

    So you have to firmly believe that you are the best, and ignore the gossip that others say about you.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I believe that the beauty of the soul is more beautiful, the good-looking skin is the same, and the interesting soul is one in a million.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Then work hard to improve your ability, as long as you have a special temperament and ability, you will be more confident.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Girls don't have beautiful faces, but they can become a more confident person by improving their cultivation and knowledge.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Girls do not have beautiful faces, they can create some achievements in their careers, and they are very outstanding in character and temperament, so that they can increase their self-confidence.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Beautiful looks are only temporary, girls should pay attention to their inner cultivation, read more books, exercise more, and improve their inner self.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Girls don't have beautiful faces, so we must continue to work hard to learn knowledge, make our connotation stronger, and having enough temperament will also make a girl more confident.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Then you must be talented, you must have a good conversation, and you must be educated to be more confident.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Improve your ability to make yourself strong in a certain area, and when your ability improves, you will be able to have self-confidence.

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