Should we spank the kids?Should I spank a child?

If you should fight, you will fight, and if you should not fight, you will stop.

I was beaten by my parents since I was a child (and now they don't beat me), but I'm also annoyed. Now that I think about it, they are also very ironclad and helpless!

But they always beat up and beat everything wrong, and I'm really numb now.

You can fight.

After all, you're my son, and if you beat me, that's what I think now.

After the fight, I want to do what I want to do or how to do it, it seems to be a kind of revenge, I didn't do this when I was a child, and I knew how to change ...... when I was young

I don't know if you parents can understand your children?

It really doesn't matter if you play too much.

The fight should be beaten, and it must be beaten hard, so ruthless that he will remember it for the rest of his life. But only if the child makes a serious mistake and the time comes to teach him a lesson, then you don't have to hit the child for the next three years. If you make a small mistake, use enlightenment.

The child can't hit more, he will be numb if he beats too much, and don't hit him in front of outsiders, if you want to beat, close the door and beat, and don't hit the child's face, face is a person's dignity, you hit his face, he will be shameless in the future!

Although I am a 21-year-old boy, I think that whether to beat the child or not, it depends on the situation, you know, it is not that you should not be beaten, it is not that you should not be beaten, it depends on the situation, it should be said that this problem is a common problem of Chinese parents!

Think about what to do when you get old and then hit your child.

How to effectively punish the child if it is not appropriate?

First, do not use harsh punishments such as corporal punishment.

Many parents equate punishment with corporal punishment of children, and the physical punishment of children is only one way to punish children, and parents should try to avoid using corporal punishment in the process of educating children, and cannot hit children. Maybe when the mood is calm, parents will feel that they will definitely not hit their children, but whenever parents are provoked by their children, they often cannot rationally restrain their behavior, in such an atmosphere and environment, parents are easy to lose control to beat and scold their children.

Although some parents do not hit their children, they sometimes shake their children, which is actually a means of corporal punishment, which will cause harm to the child's body. Of course, slapping a child is never okay, and many news reports have mentioned that the child is permanently deaf because he was slapped by his parents.

Therefore, even if you want to punish your children, even if you want to educate them harshly, you can't beat and scold them, if parents feel that their children have no way to restrain them except for beating and scolding, then parents should first reflect on themselves and not on their children.

Second, pay attention to the timing of punishment.

Many children always start doing bad things when their parents are busiest, because they know that at this time their parents don't have time to punish them, so they are more at ease and bold, and this is true, and we often do such things when we are young.

When mom and dad don't have time, they just say "wait to come back and clean you up", and then leave, but in fact, when the parents come back, they completely forget what the child did wrong, and sometimes even if they remember, they just lightly reprimand the child, which has no effect of punishment at all. Therefore, in order for punishment to be effective for children, it is necessary to punish the behavior at the time of occurrence or immediately after it happens, so that the child can remember it more deeply and effectively prevent the same thing from happening again.

Third, pay attention to the consistency of punishment.

For example, if the child did not eat today and ate a snack, the parents reprimanded them, but on the second day, the child did it again, and the parents felt that it was okay for the child to eat a little, so they let him eat a snack. Obviously, the child was criticized by his mother for fighting with a child the day before, but today he was let go because his mother was in a good mood. Such inconsistent punishment will make the child feel that the seriousness of the matter will also make the child feel that the parent is a person who does not count.

The children are as follows:

Children should not be hit in the first place. Generally, when children do something wrong, most of them are not principled, and they do not hurt other people or other things, so parents do not need to hit their children at this time.

But if the child's measures are already related to a person's quality, such as stealing parents' money, and deliberately bullying other children with other classmates, at this time, parents can not be merciful, must criticize the child harshly, and also lightly let the child be beaten, give the child a lesson, so that he will not do this next time.

Introduction:

Education is also a kind of thinking teaching, and people because of their own ideology, and have a different thinking trend, therefore, education should be the most objective, the most fair consciousness of the mind to educate people, so that people's thinking will not be too deviant, and because of the richness of thinking and gradually mature, rational, and thus to the most rational self and have the most correct thinking cognition, this is the foundation of education.

Education is also a process of teaching and nurturing people, teaching others the most objective understanding, and then attaching to their own perceived values in their own life experiences. Education is a kind of practical activity to improve people's overall quality.

The worst beating I ever received when I was a kid was my mother, because I came back late, waited until I got home in the middle of the night, and let me stand on the wall and sweep the floor, and kept hitting my legs. Parents' love for their children is serious and serious, they want their children to be good, and they all hate iron and steel, girls are outside, if they come back late, they are not as worry-free as boys, and girls go out If they fool around with some indiscriminate people, it will be girls who will suffer in the future, so it is normal for parents to be strict with girls, but it is normal to take into account the child's self-esteem.

Another time, my mother also beat me hard, so that I remember it vividly, he even used a belt to whip me, I never dared to go home very late from now on, and even as long as I came back at a certain time, I would never delay, this is also a lesson, at that time I was still a little hateful in my heart, but later I grew up to understand my mother's love, girls come home too late parents will be very worried, boys are actually the same.

So no matter how much we were beaten and scolded by our parents when we were a little Xunchen, if it weren't for the kind of domestic violence Chi Changchun's abuse came from our parents' hearts and we were serious and serious tutors, as long as we wanted to. Let's be better, they just don't want us to suffer, they just want us not to take a detour, so don't resent them and.