What should he do if he is like this, and seriously make up for the prize with a high score

Boys may have psychological problems, such as low self-esteem, cowardice, etc., 7 years, what feelings have seen through, in my personal opinion, he may treat you as a spare tire, no one can get married in the future can find you, of course, just a personal point of view, as for your aspect, your thinking has been problematic, once you have a situation where you play the piano to the cow or feel that people have nothing to say, it proves that you have a rift in your heart and him, it is recommended that you properly observe the reliable people around you, of course, the focus is on suggestions, not recommendations, !

He should be a man, as a man, he has the idea of wanting to protect his beloved, if his girlfriend is better than himself, then he will have all kinds of uneasiness about whether he has the ability to compete with someone better than himself.

If you are very dependent on him, then he will have confidence in himself and his anxiety will be eliminated.

I guess you're better than him in terms of ability.

In front of him you have to show him your vulnerable side, so that he feels that you need him, and it should be effective.

You have to give him more opportunities to perform, so that he feels that he can hold up for you, then his anxiety will be completely eliminated.

Men are such vain creatures, and I will never allow my future girlfriend to surpass me, because I will feel insecure.

Good man, he wants to give you a rich life, but he doesn't have the ability to do so now.

Give up the comparison and spend less money, hehe.

2 possibilities.

One possibility is that he has low self-esteem, if yes, he wants your encouragement and comfort, I am afraid of the second type, with the third person, or he doesn't love you, combined with his usual situation, see for yourself which one he belongs to.

This kind of male unreliable ......

Try to give up.

I miss you very much, but I don't understand the problem you are talking about, and it's very messy. Add more details, I must you.

Leave him, if you are only one party paying, and the other party doesn't feel it, then this kind of love is not worth paying, maybe it's not love, it's just a happy cooperation or finding a sustenance in your heart, maybe you are not suitable for each other, and it's useless to drag it on. Let it go, it's good for each other and a relief.

Give up on him ruthlessly, don't be unwilling.

Maybe the two will be better off after they are separated.

Be decisive and break up. After a long time, two defeats were injured.

Looked at your business.

I want to say that the two of you going back and forth like this is a kind of torture for everyone, and I personally think it's better not to be with him.

If you feel like you can do it, you can also do it.

He's a more individualistic person, in the words you wrote.

The character is a bit repetitive.

To be honest, you always tell him whether it's a girlfriend or an emotional pillow, you have to use it when you need it, you don't need to say I'm tired or something like that and break up with you, don't you know what his feelings for you are?! Anyway, as an outsider, I don't see what he is good to you, he is good to you when he needs you, and he doesn't hesitate to give up on you when he doesn't need you, to be honest, it's not worth it for this kind of man.

I don't think he cares about your feelings.

I can't feel the affection he has for you from your words.

just my opinion

It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage.

Since you haven't made up your mind to leave, let's continue to run in.

If you think you still love each other, give each other a chance to have some time, think about whether I can support each other if I don't have each other, if not, please talk about it and talk about the shortcomings of the other party and can't stand it, so it will be better! That's how my husband and I resolve the conflict!

After all these things come out, he just wants to get back to the old feeling, is the old feeling still there?

Personally, I think he's not manly, he can't afford to take it and he can't put it down, it's extremely incompetent.

I think you're going to have to leave him ruthlessly.

Responsibility!!!

Creativity!!!

Feelings can get along.

You have to pay attention to the details of his interaction with you, do you think about himself or you first? For example, hung up**, eaten, what did you eat? This depends on your own observation, and others will never be able to say it completely.

The play is not charming, people are obsessed with the play, and the end of the song is scattered!

You've done your best in past relationships, and you can't regret it!

Don't lose information about yourself, this is a hurdle in your life, and it will be smooth when it passes!

Good luck!

See if he will be considerate and caring for you, such as beating your legs and pinching your shoulders or something, if he thinks that a man is ashamed to do this kind of thing, it proves that he puts his dignity more important than you.

Although a good person is a good person with a good heart, he should not be negligent on the outside.

Although it is said that the prodigal son does not change his money, I prefer to believe that good horses do not eat grass. A girl's natural sensitivity will help you make the right decisions, pay more attention to details, pay more attention to the way she looks at you, and his actions rather than his sweet words. Wishing you happiness!

Nobody knows how much advice you're giving is useless.

Leave the world behind. Go with the feeling. There aren't many good men left, so don't ruin your happiness (if you're attracted to each other) by dwelling on unnecessary little things.

If you want me to say, I'm bored, I'm broken, I don't want to do it all over again.

Feelings are a matter of both of you.

Why care about that youthful and frivolous past.

If he's being nice to you right now, and it's not as bad as a man says, what matters is how he feels, so why care about other people's gossip.

I believe that man b will tell you about the name change to prove that he didn't want to hide anything from you if there is no is no He should be such a straightforward character.

Depressed are not very good people, either go by feeling or don't choose.

Believe in yourself ...

Someone else's words are always just a reference ...

Only one's own feeling is the deepest ...

If you feel happy with b ... I believe b...

Even if the message A gives you is true. But.. If you like him, why care about his past...

Believe in yourself ... How you feel is most important ...

Contact him more, find his shortcomings, see if you can accept it, intuitively ask him the reason for the divorce, and then analyze whether it is consistent with the reality, contact his family more to see if there are problems in them, as the saying goes, the child is a mirror of the parents, and if you contact the parents more, you can also understand his shortcomings. Contact his friends, see how he treats his friends, you can also indirectly see his personality, and then contact him more, if the external conditions meet your needs, if necessary, carry out a trial marriage, so that you can see whether he has physical defects, you have to really understand his shortcomings, not just stay in romance and appreciation, open your eyes to find faults, in order to see if you can tolerate these shortcomings in the future, people's faults, you don't try to change him, some habitual bad problems you can't change it at all. Give yourself some time to get to know him, and if these are all right, you can rest assured that you can marry him.

Ask his ex-wife, it's up to you to use what method you use.

It's okay to have a feeling, what's the use of knowing this? The past is all gone, don't mention his past in front of him, as if he is afraid that he will not be able to forget it.

Ask his ex-wife, neighbors and colleagues, to sum it up, the answers of his ex-wife and himself are opposites, neighbors and colleagues are relatively objective, and then look at his attitude towards this marriage history, look at him from these aspects, but you still have to keep calm and evaluate yourself objectively first!

He didn't tell you the truth on key issues, so that you couldn't accept it emotionally, you can understand.

But you can't generalize. You also have to analyze his reasons, of course, no matter what the reason, it is absolutely not okay to deceive people.

When you ask him, you must be kind and gentle. You also have to ask him why he got divorced. I don't think it's okay for you to ask more at this point. Ask everything you want to ask, and you're all done. Then move on to the next relationship.

I think as long as he is honest with you, I would like to ask you to forgive him. After all, it's all in the past. Since you like him, you have to tolerate some of his past events. It's also a love house and a black house.

I don't think he meant to hide it from you. I'm afraid that I will lose you after you know it.

And the reason for the divorce is that the girl doesn't want children, and he can't help it, and he is stupid to get married to reproduce the next generation, right.

I think he should be a very good person, a person who can be trusted, with everything in terms of conditions and appearances, and no one is perfect, let the future come and let the past pass.

Just ask him directly, don't beat around the bush. Don't use a questioning tone.

His divorce is a thing of the past As long as you really love each other, why are you calling him divorced Don't be too careful He doesn't tell you that he has been divorced because he is afraid that you will think about it Afraid that you won't accept it Who doesn't have a scar in his heart As long as he truly loves you, it's fine.

Men who take the initiative to divorce women, don't do it!! I advise you to find another one...

Parents are secondary, mainly to look at the two of you.

Do you think about it, is he still worth looking back?

If you think about it, it's easy to do!

Love is decided by yourself, if you like it, you can be together, if you don't like it, you can be a good friend, don't be afraid of anything, because his mother should know how to be considerate of you, in short, the choice of love depends on yourself in the end.

If you like it, you can be together, if you don't like it, you can be friends, and it has nothing to do with your elders, but you can't be together, you can go to see his mother as a friend, this is very casual.

Since you're good friends, you should be able to tell her what you think in your heart.

In fact, it's a bit contradictory to think about things like this, and I don't know what to do, just like you.

But you can't force it, let it be.

For friendship, we should be cautious, but don't take it too seriously, don't think too much, otherwise it will be too tiring.

Everyone has been busy for a long time, and they are busy with their own things, if you are a man. Then maybe she also has her own boyfriend, maybe it's just that she doesn't know how to cherish the friendship between you, and she will only come when she has something to look for you, and many people are like this now! Nothing else, make a friend :

When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

What's the situation? You're interested in him, but she seems to be a little deliberate on you, what's the matter? I've never slept with you! Ignore her and find another one. If you just want to be friends, I'm sure you don't have so many worries.

I think sometimes it's ambiguous and misguided. You might as well have a sincere talk with her and see what she thinks, it's better than guessing on your own. If you still cherish this friendship.