Same sex confession to a straight man made me very confused

Alas, you are very brave...

Although this is a pluralistic society, homosexuality has been legalized in many developed countries. However, whether we admit it or not, the traditional concept is still deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Since you are in a minority or emotionally vulnerable, you should first learn to protect yourself.

So I think you're brave and impulsive. When you confess to someone something that may be most unacceptable, you must first make sure that person is worthy of your trust (of course, you may choose to trust unconditionally for emotional reasons), otherwise you will be hurt.

Getting to the point, according to your description, I don't think "he has been stupid" can't be established, even if it's possible, it's also pretended. But he can't be blamed, when such an incident happens to a straight man, he may choose to be silent and pretend that it is a subconscious choice. People in modern society are careful about paying and weighing gains and losses, I believe that if you really do a lot for him, after going beyond a certain boundary, he must know in his heart that you are not simply treating him as a friend.

He may be ambivalent and doesn't want to stay away from you, losing a friend (if you're selfish, maybe enjoying the feeling that someone is unconditionally good to him), and he can't get close to you to get you deeper or get himself into trouble. At this time, the best way is to choose when you don't know, although it is an ostrich, but it is also a way to protect yourself and not hurt you.

As for his reaction, I think it proves that he actually knows, otherwise he would be surprised by his calm and rationality. He may have chosen to react in this way for several reasons. The first is that he is too nervous and thinks it's not a big deal, it's just that someone likes him, no matter what gender.

The second is that in this relationship, you are in the river, he is on the shore, you are tripped by too many things, he can wave his hand to rip off, so your babbling is exchanged for a simple sentence. There is also a possibility that after he felt your feelings, he actually seriously thought about the situation of your confession in private, and prepared an answer for himself.

He is rational and does not discriminate against this, which shows that your vision is still very good, and the person you like is not willing to hurt you. But as the saying goes: hope the best, prepare for the worst.

His desire to keep the status quo may be an indirect rejection of your feelings and the protection of the two of you from being hurt by the outside world. If you think you'd rather just be friends than lose sight of him, then you can only stop the stalemate. It's not a good idea to ignore him if you don't really want to let go.

If he doesn't take the initiative to look for you, he may never be a stranger from now on.

Outsiders may not be able to help you much, and it's up to you to get through it. Although people who are in feelings can't be rational, they should not be cranky and be more rational.

Finally, may you protect yourself until someone emerges to protect you ...

You still care, but you don't care too much.

All you have to do now is see if he'll ignore you.

If he deliberately distances himself from you, he may not be able to accept it.

If the relationship is maintained, you can work hard to break him.

Now we can only wait and see what happens.

He doesn't really like you that much!

It can be seen from the fact that he doesn't value your confession.

But it's not easy to like someone.

What's more, it's still the same sex.

It's best to leave him.

It can be seen from your words that you are still a very childish person.

Before you like it deeply, let it go.

Then find a place where there are fewer people and cry

You have to be worthy"Male"This sex!