Do you get loner the older you get? The older you get, the more lonely you get, don t you?

There's a song title that's the same.

The more I grow up, the more I can feel the value of family affection.

Two days ago, I took a bus at night to a place where I worked. The journey takes two hours. In the car, I suddenly remembered a summer vacation when I drove out with my parents.

It was about eight o'clock that night, and it was dark before I returned. My dad drove, my mom sat in the co-pilot, and when it was almost eleven o'clock, my mom was so sleepy that she couldn't support it, and she offered to change places with me. So my mom lay down in the back seat of the car and slept, I sat in the passenger seat, and my dad continued to drive.

During this time, I had been chatting with my dad on and off, singing to him, telling jokes, and distracting himself from driving too much. At that time, I suddenly felt that my parents were getting old, and if before, my mother would never let me wake up and go to sleep by myself, I knew that she was really tired, and her body did not allow her to stay up late tired. At the same time, I also feel as if I have grown up all of a sudden, and the burden on my body is heavier, and I am no longer a child who will not wake up when I fall asleep in my parents' arms and get out of the car at night.

I'm going to have to take on more responsibilities in the future. Sitting next to my dad and driving with him on the night train, I feel quite happy, although I am really sleepy, but when I think that he is more tired than me, I will try to cheer up and accompany him. The moon was particularly beautiful that day.

We can't change the weather, but we can change our mood. In the same way, we can't change our lives, but the only thing we can change is ourselves. Although life is impermanent, life ups and downs, and life will be full of many unsatisfactory places, there are some things that can be completely grasped by ourselves, that is, our attitude towards work and life.

Some people say that there is an invisible magic weapon in everyone, one side of which says "positive attitude" and the other side of "negative mentality", a positive attitude can make you reach the peak of life, and a negative attitude can make you poor and unhappy all your life. Therefore, we must learn to work actively and live optimistically.

If a person has a good mentality, even if the current job is not ideal, he can be satisfied and calm. And this positive attitude will bring a good work attitude, its work effect will be good, and guide us to the road to success step by step. In fact, the mentality that we must have every day in our work is to be positive and optimistic.

You can't do a good job without these two states. However, this mentality will not only affect the work, but may also determine the fate of a person's life in the long run.

Originally, the more you grow up, the more lonely you are, and when you grow up, you will have fewer true friends, except for your own relatives, you are very lonely, and if the relationship is not smooth, it will be even more sad.

It is true that the older we get, the more lonely we may feel, because when we are young, simple things will make us happy, but when we grow up, we will have more things.

This is because it becomes difficult for us to trust someone wholeheartedly when we grow up, and social experience tells us that nothing can hurt us if we don't move our hearts.

Many people find themselves feeling more and more lonely, and when they were young, they had a lot of friends, but why do they grow up and have fewer and fewer friends. Isn't it true that when you grow up, you should see more people and have more opportunities to meet friends, why do you feel more lonely the more you grow up? In fact, the answer is simple, but we may not realize it.

Someone once said on the Internet that loneliness is hierarchical, eating hot pot alone, drinking alone, shopping alone, these don't sound like much, but how much sadness and tears are behind it. Some emotions come instantaneously, and perhaps this is a normal emotion.

It was once revealed on the Internet that a person sat on the side of the road late at night and cried bitterly. The loneliness of adults only emerges in the middle of the night. During the day, we have to play the role of adults, work hard and be positive.

And in the middle of the night, we have no friends, no partners, only endless darkness and loneliness.

It's not the friendship itself that has deteriorated, it's the degree of our psychological defenses that have changed. We used to hide in the campus and family greenhouse, out of the wings of the elders, into the society, we accept countless new relationships: love, friendship, work relationships, cooperative relations, and many of these relationships are interest-oriented, when we simply dig out our hearts and lungs, how much will be hurt.

And these injuries, actively or passively, increase the degree of our psychological defense, that is, gradually, build a psychological wall in the heart. We are inside the wall, everyone is outside the wall, we in the wall can't get out, and the people outside the wall want to get in, but they can't get in.

We crave warmth, hugs, understanding, and a tiring late night, when someone comforts to say, "Don't worry, don't worry, everything will be fine, no matter what, I'll support you." ”

We want to lower the psychological wall, even if we are injured, we have to exchange for the comfort of a bowl of hot soup, but we are always afraid, afraid that this person will not only not be able to comfort us, but will also make the damage deeper. This psychological wall, it protects us and keeps us away from all love.

The more we grow up, the more lonely we become, just because the older we get, we don't like to share our hearts with other people, so we feel more lonely.

When you are carefree, you can make a lot of friends, because everyone will not think too much when they are the same age, and they will have their own things to deal with when they grow up, so the more they grow up, the more lonely they become.

The more we grow up, the more lonely we become, because we are also mature in our thinking.

It is better to say that when I grow up and become lonely, I gradually have a clear understanding of the relationship between myself and the world. Growing up, our horizons have widened, the world has become bigger, but we are more and more afraid, we will make friends to see if they are the right person, and we will care about the eyes around us. We also began to know people's feelings and understand the world, understand those words to say, who to say, outside, to learn to disguise, learn to be restrained.

Therefore, when you grow up, the more you know and the more you fear, the easier it is to be lonely. Social status is naturally part of it, but not all.

The more you grow up, the more lonely you are, this is the inevitability of history, it can be said that when you are a child, everyone will have such and such playmates, very good friends, you grow up, your classmates have grown up, there are comrades-in-arms, colleagues, friends, relatives, and then the children are also older, your friends are gone, your children have grown up, there are fewer and fewer people around you, you will be more and more lonely, and when you die of old age, you must be alone.

The more you grow up, the more you lose your innocence and are suspicious of each other, so the more lonely you become.

Most people will have this experience, especially when they are alone, especially when they encounter sad things. You will feel that people are more troubled.

This shows that he has matured and stabilized, and the person who people rely on in this life will always be himself.

That's the case, because the more we get older, as we get older, we will understand a lot of things, and after understanding things, we will feel that we are very lonely in our hearts.

Sometimes when you grow up, you can appreciate the various states of life, and of course you will applaud more and more.

Sometimes people will have this kind of view and thought, thinking that the older they get, the more they think, on the contrary. There are fewer and fewer people who think they understand.

A junior high school for a group of people, a high school for a few people, a college for a few people, and so on.