My girlfriend who has only been dating for a month is going to break up, how can I get it back

Updated on psychology 2024-02-15
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This girl is wise, you have no future together.

    Although you are sincere and sincere, the truth is that you have no future.

    You said that you are rushing to get married, you are still a student, and even your future is unknown.

    How can you promise a future to a girl.

    You're both young now, just passers-by in each other's lives.

    Even if she promises you now, to be with you.

    They will also break up in the future for various reasons.

    Years later, when you look back on this relationship, you will be filled with emotion.

    I was still an ignorant teenager back then.

    After the baptism of this relationship, you will learn a lot, you will grow up and mature.

    But when looking at the relationship from a girl's point of view.

    You'll find that she doesn't need that.

    Although you have been happy, such intimacy will soon become a thing of the past.

    What the girl needs is someone who can give her a real future, not these.

    So if you really like her, let her go.

    At a time when you are not yet able to afford your own future.

    You are not qualified to promise someone a future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really want to live with him for a lifetime, you have to have a place in his heart, and slowly take possession of her, if you don't enter his heart, she just has affection for you, not love, you get married in the future, together, not only will you suffer, but also hurt others, she will not be happy, love him into her heart, if you really can't enter his heart, just give it up, don't become your future pain Love is not one person's, but two people's.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are some things that don't have to be forced. It's good to have a good time. Save? You think about how to redeem it now, but have you ever considered whether it is worth it for you to redeem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's separate, it's not suitable, why don't you have a wife.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's a saying that you're not the dish she wants.

    Not her style.

    Is it necessary to be reluctant? I don't think you can activate the tendon that she wants to fall in love with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She promised you, only on the spur of the moment, and besides, she has someone in her heart, if you don't believe it, you can observe it carefully.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Child! Now what matters is whether she loves you or not! Let's get this out first! Let's talk about reunion!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she also loves you, you must make up for it If you don't love it, you should let it go as soon as possible, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Reasoning can be said to enrich all aspects of human relations, and only by being sensible can everything run well and ensure harmonious coexistence. However, this should be the norm of opening up to the outside world, and looking at one's own lovers, there is no need to explain everything clearly. In addition to being objective, girlfriends also have a lot of mentality, their emotions are very meticulous, and they are very vulnerable to some things in food, clothing, housing and transportation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Two months is a bit long to break up, at this time it is possible that your girlfriend has a new relationship, so the first thing you should do is to immediately tell your girlfriend that you regret it, of course, before this, you must have analyzed the reasons for your breakup, and also clarified the direction of your efforts, then go to prove it to your girlfriend, tell your girlfriend, your remorse, your sincerity to reunite, the first time to move her, if he really loves you, I believe that he still has feelings for you, then it is easy to get back together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should now go to his house with the gifts, apologize to him in person, and ask to get back together.

    Then take him to a place where there are more people, kneel before him, and earnestly ask him to be reunited, and let all the crowd bless you, so that he will agree to be with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you have to figure out why she wants to break up with you, whether she really wants to break up with you or fake a breakup.

    If she just broke up because you cared less about her and ignored her, it was fake, she just wanted you to spend more time with her, pay more attention and care, and for this kind of you just need to coax her more and come back.

    But if she asks you out to a café or something like that in a formal tone, then you have to be careful, she may have thought it through and is really going to break up with you, and stalking will not work.

    Although stalking has a certain effect on fake breakups, they are all palliative, not the root cause, and the more times she changes, she will change from fake to true, so when she proposes to break up, she still has to pay attention to the problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can't let go of her, you can try to find her and see what she thinks of you. If he still likes you in his heart, he is naturally willing to continue to be with you. If he doesn't like you anymore, it means that he won't give you any chance, because he doesn't want to waste his time on you, he wants to find his own happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The best way to get your girlfriend back is to communicate and see if he has any ideas. Then solve the problem according to the problem, and then it may come back. But if he already likes someone else, this situation you should let go. After all, feelings are mutual, and it is useless to force them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Only if you have truly changed yourself can you redeem it.

    Your girlfriend breaking up with you must be unable to accept some of your bad behaviors or shortcomings.

    As long as you work hard to improve yourself, make yourself better, and then change some of your bad shortcomings.

    In this way, you can win back your ex-girlfriend, which is easy to succeed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to get your girlfriend back after two months of breakup, then I think the most important thing you should do is to impress her heart and let him see the changes you can make for him, which is the most important thing. Let him see a new you, a different you, and impress him with your sincerity, so that you can have a chance to bring him back.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you still have the other party in your heart, I believe that you will change yourself for the other party and make yourself excellent, only if you become excellent, your chances of redeeming the other party will be great.

    After all, girls like excellent boys, and he also hopes that you can change yourself and make yourself excellent, otherwise he won't break up with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first thing to do is to determine if your girlfriend still has you in her heart. If he has you, just socialize with ordinary friends and don't force him. During this time, you are good to him, feel good, and it will naturally be redeemed.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you have broken up with your girlfriend for two months and still want to get your girlfriend back, you must take the initiative to chat with your girlfriend. Say what you think when you're chatting. If your girlfriend gives you a chance, you must cherish it and pursue it hard.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to recover after breaking up with your girlfriend, you have to deal with things in a variety of ways. The first thing you have to do is to send a message to the other party or say some sweet words to the other party, for example: dear, the two of us have gone through so many things, and finally come to this day, although the previous thing is that I did not do it right, I express great regret and apologize to you, but this is already a thing of the past, and we will face more problems in the future, but the previous incident just gave us a lesson, so that we know how to solve the problem reasonably in the future.

    At the same time, you have to take real action and buy small gifts to coax the other person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Two months after the breakup, if you want to redeem it, you first have to tell him that you love him, and when you broke up, you made the wrong choice, and then you have to tell him that you can change, and finally tell her that you also know that she loves you and hopes to give you another chance.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, you should be clear about what caused the two of you to break up, and only solving these problems is the most important thing. If the breakup is caused by a trivial quarrel, you can apologize to him and say that you will not do it in the future and will devote yourself to him, then you are likely to get back together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You've only broken up for two months, so there's a high probability that you can get it back, you have to coax your girlfriend first, and your girlfriend won't be angry, and then have a deep exchange. It's best to take all the blame on yourself and let the girl see your sincerity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to get your girlfriend back, then first you have to contact the other person and ask the other person to give you a chance to explain and apologize.

    If you win back the other party, then you must take good care of the other person in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you want to get your girlfriend back after two months of breakup, then I think you should take the initiative to contact your girlfriend, if your girlfriend is still willing to respond to you, then at least it means that she still has you in her heart, and there is still a possibility that you meet. But if you already have a new boyfriend and start a new life, then I think you should also die before you can and stop wasting any more time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    So in two months, if you still think about him very much in your heart, then at this time, you can first understand some of his current situation. If he doesn't let go, he also cares about you at this time, you can take the initiative to contact him to understand his current thoughts.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You first need to slowly understand the situation of your girlfriend, if he is not married, you can find a chance to get back together with him, if she is married, then you can only find someone else.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Two months is enough, each other calmed down, and now the man regrets it first and wants to get his girlfriend back, so take the initiative to communicate with him, preferably face to face, and then tell him what he still thinks about him, hoping to get his approval, so that they can be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In the world of feelings, only the word sincerity is the most important, so what you need to do is to give your sincerity, so that the other party really feels that you are working hard for him, changing for him, and really wants him to return to you, if he still cares about you, you can come together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When it has only been two months since the breakup, it should still be easier to save his girlfriend, because she definitely does not have a new boyfriend at this time, so at this time she should care more about her, and first admit the mistake of breaking up to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you want to get back your girlfriend, you can give her some gifts, or take the initiative to find a place where there are fewer people, and hope that the other party will confess and propose again, and I believe the other party will gladly accept it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you want to get your girlfriend back at this time, I think the best way is to go directly to your girlfriend to confess, or be very nice to your girlfriend, so that your girlfriend has a good impression of you, only then can you get your girlfriend back.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you want to get a girl back after two months of breakup, you must first know whether the girl still has a good impression of you, and then you can get close to the girl, create opportunities, and give the girl some unexpected surprises, so that there may be room for redemption.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After being separated for so long, I haven't forgotten that the other party has invested too much in this relationship, so I can't let go of the other party, I suggest that you take the initiative to redeem it, if the other party also loves you, you will definitely agree to the order, the other party does not agree, it means that you have given up, there is no need to continue to insist.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You can try to reach out to your girlfriend, and you need to deal with the relationship as much as possible.

    For many young people, young people especially like to break up easily because of emotional problems, and at the same time, they will also use the breakup as a means to blackmail the other party. If the two of you are genuinely in love, you need to deal with the problems that arise in the relationship. If you have already broken up, you need to properly assess whether the two people are suitable to remain together, and it is best not to develop the bad habit of habitual breakup.

    1. You can try to reach out to your girlfriend.

    After a breakup, some people may be particularly face-saving, and at the same time, they also think that they should not be the one who actively contacts the other person. In a way, if you really like the other person, you don't have to worry about face. You can try to reach out to your girlfriend, preferably in person, so that you can further communicate with your previous relationship.

    Second, you have to evaluate whether two people are suitable for being together.

    Not all people who truly love each other are suitable for being together, and you need to consider not only your own emotional factors, but also the various realities of the two of you together. If the two of you are not suitable for being together at all, or if there is already an irreconcilable conflict between the two of you, you don't really need to contact your ex-girlfriend, and you also need to start a new life. <>

    Three, the two of you need to learn to solve problems.

    Some young people are very impulsive, and when a problem occurs, they will always solve it in a very impulsive way. Even if two people truly love each other, there will be various contradictions and frictions between the two people. You need to solve the problem in the right way as much as possible, and you also need to be as tolerant of each other's shortcomings as possible, so that the relationship between the two of you can be more stable.

    If the other person still cares about you, the two of you need to further reflect on your own problems and cherish each other's feelings at the same time. <>

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