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You can understand it, but it's not easy to talk after that, you should try to guide her and give her more ways and means. Give her more tolerance and understanding, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for them is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love well and maintain your relationship.
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To be honest, it's better not to have such a girlfriend, you can't just think about the things in front of you, you have to think about the future, if you are really married, how can you live like this? You'll have to look a little bit farther out.
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I'm here to tell you, the poorer you are, the faster you change. It's scary. I don't think people should be too rich, but if you are poor, you will also lose your taste. You can take your time.
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Girlfriend has to be self-reliant, if you rely on you to support you, you better blow it quickly.
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500 a month is still called poor.
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It's been two years, how is the relationship now.
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If you only care about yourself like this, and don't care about other people's feelings, you will be dumped by me.
Divide it, it's too late to regret it now.
There are so many women in the world that there is no need to hang themselves from a tree.
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If you like him, you have to tolerate everything about her, if you have your own car, a house, a deposit, and a lot of spare tires, then it's better to change a girlfriend. If not, then you cherish your current girlfriend.
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She cries poor because she wants you to spend money on her, so it depends on what you think at this time.
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Just because a girlfriend is poor doesn't mean she doesn't deserve to be loved and respected. It is important that we respect each other's differences and seek common solutions to improve each other's lives.
First, we need to recognize that poverty is not the only factor that determines a person's worth. Factors such as a person's character, ability, and family background can all affect the personal value and happiness of Ichino Xiaotang. Therefore, we should treat our girlfriend with equality, respect, and understanding, rather than judging her worth based on her wealth.
Secondly, we need to provide support and assistance to our girlfriends. Although the financial situation may be limiting in some aspects, it does not mean that girlfriends are not worth and valuable. We can help her achieve her dreams and goals by providing financial support, advice, and encouragement.
At the same time, we can also work together to find solutions to problems, such as increasing the level of income through work or starting a business.
Finally, we need to respect our girlfriend's personal privacy and choices. Everyone has their own lives and values, and we should respect each other's privacy and choices, including money, career, and lifestyle. We can reach a consensus through communication and understanding to create a better future together.
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Do you want to break up or notFirst of all, we must deal with the question of whether you choose the object or the family background, and we must make this question clear, who you choose, what kind of criteria you have, whether you go for people or for your family.
2.Secondly, how about the object, this is the most critical, whether it is worth entrusting, whether there is a sense of responsibility, if all aspects are very good, there is responsibility, there is a clear force, there is nothing wrong with marrying him, you can completely change your face in the future, live a happy life, it is no problem to marry such a person. On the contrary, the boyfriend is a wreck, not to blame the poor family, not to work hard, not to struggle, after hard work, the surrounding have changed their appearance and get rid of poverty, the target family is still not out of poverty, and the object is also lazy to do, then such a person can not choose, because he has no ability to support a family, no ambition, no enterprising.
3.Once you have these two things in hand, you can decide whether to let go or not. Because the moment is very realistic, love is of course very important, but also very important, only on a certain material basis love is more reliable and happier, otherwise there is no room, no cage on the ground, no money for salt, life is also very difficult, I don't feel it if I don't get married, everything will come after marriage.
Of course, there is a problem of struggle after marriage, or that sentence, whether a boyfriend can do it or not, a hundred people can't do it, and a person can't do it at all.
4.To be honest in the ordinary sense, in general, you have to let go. In this society, it is really difficult for the children of the poor to have a good life.
Polarization is also severe. In addition to being poor, I am also worried that the three views formed by your object because of poverty will be seriously inconsistent with you, or even conflict. The economic base determines the superstructure.
A poor family can really greatly affect a person's three views. For some things or ideas, what you may think is normal, your object feels very abnormal. A small thing before marriage, you may not be in the state of Tsaizhou, but after marriage, it may become a very major conflict and contradiction.
In addition, if you are from a poor family and are more capable and virtuous, I suggest you try it and not be in such a hurry to let go. In life, after all, we have to talk about some true feelings. The love of sharing joys and sorrows, I think it is a great and noble love, and it is also the most enviable love.
Then you can tell her, I can wait for you to graduate, and the most cruel way to treat your lover is not love and hate, not deception and betrayal, but love that gradually fades after extreme love. You can tell her this.
She said that you should make a spare tire for her, or a good share, no matter how good you are to her, she will feel that you are just her spare tire, are you like a spare tire for the rest of your life! You are a man, such a woman is not worthy of you to be really good to her, love is mutual. in order to have good results.
Long-distance relationship is a test of feelings, two people are not together for a long time, there is no common experience and topic, or it will not be long before the relationship will fade, and no matter what troubles she or you encounter, the other half can no longer be around to give care and love, there will be a very lost feeling, and the third party is easy to take advantage of the void. And you have too many practical problems, the opinions of the parents on both sides, work and anything have not been solved. She has actually chosen to give up on you now, the most intolerable thing for men and women to get along with is deception, she has clearly told you that she has no feelings for you, and she has already played friends with the game, it is a man who has a little backbone and decisively forgets her, to believe that a good man naturally does not worry about not finding a good wife, your fate is over, don't indulge in the past anymore.
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