My husband wants to AA with me, what should I do?

Isn't it normal for women to manage money now? Your husband definitely doesn't love you as much as he used to, he is married, what kind of AA system do you have to do, is there too much TV series, you just ask him what you want to do, if you don't want to go over, forget it, scare him to see what kind of behavior he has, I believe he will definitely hand over the money to you to manage.

Now the AA system has been on fire, especially in order to show the equality of men and women, women say that they want the AA system when they spend money, and even keep the AA life status after the husband and wife get married. So, how should you deal with a husband who wants to be very AA?

You tell him that whoever earns the money is joint property. It's all a family, and they have to share so much with each other. Unless he still thinks you're not really family!

The AA system is not popular in China now, men are also men, they used to spend your money, and now they are still AA systems, you tell him, let him learn Venus to change sexuality.!!

The best thing to do is to pull him in front of his parents and then let his parents call the shots, it will work well!

Give him some dignity.

Let him a while.

A man likes to be relied on, and relying on others will make him feel inferior.

It's a good thing not to worry about it.

However, the money is billed.

If he wants to AA with you, you won't let him touch you, if not, 88

Okay, then AA, what else do you expect from this kind of man?

To be honest, I can't stand AA after getting married, if it's like this before marriage, then it's a little better to think about it. Because at that time, although you said that you were in love, even if the relationship was very sweet, but after all, it was unstable, and it was impossible to say if you broke up one day, so I didn't want to spend too much money on each other, I can understand it, but it still makes people feel that the man is a little stingy, but it's not a big problem.

One of the main reasons is because it is not easy for everyone to make money, if this person is your future wife, then it doesn't matter if you spend a little money on him, but if not, then you may feel a little distressed. But the problem is that if you continue to ask for AA after getting married, then I think it is very unfair, because there is no way to be absolutely fair in marriage. After getting married, I need to conceive a baby, I need to have a baby, breastfeeding.

Wait, then in this process, I have no way to go to work, and I have no way to make money.

So how should I AA at this time? Could it be that you are only responsible for half of the milk powder money and half of the living expenses, and the rest is the same, do you want me to pay? Do I have to bear the hardships of my children and the time when I can't go to work when I'm pregnant with my children?

The child is not mine alone, and this family is not mine alone, so why should it be like this? So there is no way for such a thing to be absolutely AA, and if your husband loves you, it is impossible for him to put forward such a condition.

If he just asks you to rate some big events, then I can still understand a little, but if every little thing has to be divided with you very carefully, then I don't think there is a need for such a husband. Because if you are with such a person, you may really be angry to death, and he only cares about himself in everything, and he doesn't let himself suffer at all.

Can't ask for it, why don't you make this kind of thing clear before you get married, isn't this equivalent to lying to you that the fox's tail is exposed after you get married, this kind of behavior is too disgusting.

I don't think there's any need for such a husband, because he is very selfish and has no idea of living with you.

I think you can throw away such a husband early, and you will definitely not be able to stand it in the future, the AA system is actually very hurtful in the relationship.

1. After marriage, the vast majority of women cannot accept AA2. One is willing to fight, and the other is willing to sufferThis kind of thing is completely determined according to everyone's different choices and opinions, and there is nothing reasonable or unreasonable to say. Everything in the world, if you think it exists reasonable, it is reasonable, and vice versa is not reasonable.

It is unreasonable, and the AA system after marriage is obviously not to treat the other party as a family, and the law also stipulates that the property is shared after marriage, which is obviously unwilling to pay for the other half and the family.

After getting married, it is unreasonable for the husband to ask for an AA system of life: if there is no point in getting married if you ask for an AA system of life, the man is the main person who supports the family, and the woman is the housekeeper, taking care of the family, taking care of children, and is there a difference between AA life and not getting married? If this kind of life can make men empathize and let them have children to try, so they can't accept the AA system life after marriage.

I think this is very unreasonable, after getting married, the two of them should be a family, and they are still thinking about it like this, such a man is really excessive.

This is actually unreasonable, if it is in a relationship to ask for AA, it is okay, but after getting married, it is not realistic.

Unreasonable, whether before or after marriage, lovers need the most basic trust and tolerance for each other. An AA marriage is like a class reunion.

I don't think that makes sense. Although AA is also quite normal. But it's strange for you to bring it up like that! It's just that you pay part of it, and I pay part of it.

Plausible. Whether it is AA system or not, as long as both of you are willing to accept it, it is conducive to the happiness of family life.

This does not seem to suit China's national conditions. But today's society has undergone a full transformation. Things that everyone felt unreasonable in the past, or things that were not close to people, will change one by one, will happen, and will be subverted.

This is the state of the country today. The AA system is not news, the new system, and fashion, but the Chinese people still have a process of acceptance. That's the status quo.

The AA system is a very normal method of communication in Western countries. With the rapid development of China's economy and the reality of the downward trend of economic development. Each of us should focus on the overall situation of the country and know that the future development of all walks of life will be difficult.

On the basis of self-confidence, respect for the law and respect for reality. Therefore, the adoption of the AA system by the family is also the free choice of thousands of families.

Unreasonable, it is still understandable not to get married AA system, what are you doing when you get married, is it not good to be alone, you have to pay for everything, you have to do housework, and you want to find a free nanny.

Then you can get a divorce, AA can't live.

After getting married, if my husband asks for an AA system, I think this kind of marriage is very inappropriate, because the marriage of two people means that the two are one, if it is said that they are so careful in terms of money, then the relationship between husband and wife is also destined to be detached. Not only that, but I think that those men and women who notarize their property before marriage do not regard this love as important enough, and in their hearts they think that material things are often stronger than emotions, so I can't accept such behavior.

Therefore, when we choose a man, we must see his character clearly, that is to say, after marriage, the husband asks for such a model of AA system, in fact, when he is in love, he should also be such a man, they are too stingy, so such a man is not worth relying on for a lifetime. Don't use money to measure the feelings around you, in my opinion, love is often the most importantUsing money to measure love seems to lose the flavor of the essence of love.

So it can only prove that when I was in love, I didn't see the essence of this person clearly, and I got married hastily, which is not happy. In the process of love, it should not be in the way of male and female AA system, usually the two are dating, and the man has to take the initiative to pay, which is the least, if the man even has such a little broad-mindedness, he must be a small belly in other things.

There is such a male friend around me, he is very picky in the circle of friends, everyone uses the iron rooster to describe it, has never seen him, takes the initiative to invite friends to dinner, money is more important in his heart than anything, so such a man and no woman wants to be with him, he is in his 30s and has not recognized his flaws,If they don't correct their shortcomings, they are destined to be single for the rest of their lives.

Some people will have this kind of request, but I think it is very unreasonable, I always feel that this is not enough love, I and my wife after marriage all the money is in the wife's hands, but before buying anything will ask my opinion, I think this is the best way to get along with husband and wife.

I have also seen the AA system between husband and wife, but I have not heard of it in real life. I think the AA system between husband and wife is unreasonable, and the man who wants to live with the AA system between husband and wife must be a man who loves to care, and this is also a home, the same as living together.

Girlfriends and husbands are AA system, to put it bluntly, they are empty shells without a little emotion! So far, the AA system has been four years, and there is no feeling between my girlfriend and my husband, I don't care about each other, but I ask, my husband's relatives and friends don't ask, and my girlfriend's relatives and friends don't want his husband to participate! However, there is still no divorce, maybe divorce is a matter of time, but, my girlfriend said that in the past few years, the children have not yet gone to college, and my girlfriend does not plan to divorce!

Maybe when the child goes to college, he will get divorced!

First of all, I don't agree with AA after marriage, but for those who are just temporarily married and think that they can divorce at any time, they can do so. The first is that it is better not to have children, and it is necessary to spend personal expenses in life, and to spend half of one person together. Housework can be done according to the odd and even number for one person a day, or the division of labor and cooperation the next day to do the other party's work the day before.

If you buy things for your parents, you can take care of your own parents separately or together, but you have to count the number of days.

Everything requires AAIf you want to get married, how to protect your interests from being calculated by the other party, especially after pregnancy, lactation and later with children should be agreed in advance, so as not to make you a yellow-faced woman for the family, affect your career development, and people still think that you are eating white rice and getting cheap.

After getting married, the AA system, after I got married, I asked me to collect rent, and I refused to take out the money for giving birth, and I also used the money I saved, and asked me to collect rent.

I am not materialistic, I don't ask the man to have a house and a car, I can buy a house and a car with him, but I refuse to live after marriage, I don't need a selfish man who lives with a partner. Money is the greatest benefit, in fact, it can detect people's hearts, and a man who is willing to spend money for himself shows that he really loves himself and does not treat himself as an outsider, so he is worth marrying.

The core of AA is that they don't owe each other, the economy is different, the calculation is so clear, what kind of marriage, after all, doing housework is a labor he won't count, giving birth, lactating women's income is greatly reduced or even not, he can't count, he won't count, he won't count the lot of energy and time spent with children, and he won't even count if he has to take care of his in-laws. It's just that he blindly gets all kinds of contributions from you, but the man who holds his money bag tightly, what is he doing when he marries him, is extremely selfish.

Tell him that when you give birth to a child, you can't get pregnant for 10 months alone, and he has to share 5 months, as long as you can agree to this request, the AA system is reasonable.

I don't care, because my salary is enough to support myself and my whole family, so it doesn't matter to me whether it's right or not, the important thing is that you have to make me like you, otherwise I can't afford to spend a penny more.

Of course, it's unreasonable, although there is a common emotional foundation, but there is no common economic foundation, AA is very convenient when you get divorced, because the two do not have common savings or the like, so it is really convenient when you get divorced. The two of us have been on the verge of divorce many times, and it stems from AA that we can break up at any time.

If he asks for a divorce, let it be divorced. If you don't pay your payroll on the day of your wedding, you will take a break. Otherwise, there will be bitterness, crying, and quarrels in the future.

If a family, two people are all together, they will not feel that this is yours and that is mine, there is only one family. The money we earn is family, but if AA is a, then there is no concept of family, so it is unreasonable.

There is no AA between husband and wife, because there are many trivial things that cannot be distinguished at all, if even the money has to be divided so clearly, there is no need to go down together, which means that this man is a person who is not responsible for the family.

If two people live together everywhere, don't you worry, and you can't tell the difference between living together, so it's unreasonable.

The money they earn is good, ask the man, how to aa about the responsibility, such as giving birth to children, raising children, going to the New Year, serving in-laws, children's naming rights, housework, various expenses, etc. Since AA, we have to count everything we can think of so that we don't suffer from each other.