I had a very painful time in college, what should I do?

First of all, you must adjust your mentality, since you have chosen, don't waste your time, face the people around you, look at the environment around you, it's only a year and a half, and you know very well that you're a waste of time, so now the hard work is not over, study hard and don't come up for a while, no matter if you are not thinking, don't look, adjust your mentality, think about the efforts of your parents for your college, think about your hard work when you were in the third year of high school, who is worthy of this now, So come on.

The root cause of your pain is your lack of planning for your life. Time flies, your college life will soon come to an end, have you ever thought about your development in two years, is employment? Or continue to study in graduate school?

If you are going to graduate school, you have to start today, cut down on the Internet, slowly collect your mind, sit down, and go to a school that you don't think is rubbish, so that you can be worthy of your youth. If I am employed, I should also think about how my resume will attract employers in the future, and how I can use my current efforts to enrich my future resume.

There are not many words, but it is useful to listen to them. The whole society is very impetuous, and I believe that if you calm down, you will leave a space for your youth in the impetuous society.

In fact, you can't learn anything in college, do what you're interested in, think about the future, it's time to think about it, I'm also actively looking for a goal... Make friends with positive people You can't be so depraved all day long, you can find an excuse not to go out with them If you can't find a like-minded person, you can be independent, read more books, the library still has to make good use of it, at least you know that the current state is not good, don't go on like this. I really think college is boring School is not good, it is better to drop out than waste time, my boyfriend is like this, dropped out of school to learn programming on his own, and now he has found a good job.

Be brave ...

The so-called pain should be your psychological effect, when a person cares about something, the more focused he is, the more bad he will do! If you still care about this so-called junk school, get out! If you don't care about these cheap people, you can continue to study!

School is a small society, and there are all kinds of people. You have to try to adapt to the environment. Instead of the environment adapting to you.

If you are so miserable even in school, and when the time comes, you will be out of society and work in the company, and you will be intrigued everywhere, and you will not be even more miserable?

It's okay to hone your patience and coping skills first, and you won't be afraid to go out of society.

I've been on it for a year and a half. I don't think it matters who is around me. At the same time, I felt that there were so many things that I needed to learn that I didn't have enough time.

For example, how to do a good ppt, it is very important to work in the future, your bureau is very simple, but you will encounter many problems when you do it. ps, English... College is originally self-taught.

Don't just be bored online, listen to the open classes of famous schools.

I think I had the most enjoyable time in my college life. There is food and drink, and you don't have to make your own money. I've tried to make my own money, and that's really what it's called pain. It took ten hours to earn dozens of dollars. If you're bored now, when should life stop being boring?

The environment is secondary, if the mind is not quiet, no matter where you are, you will not be able to stay well. So cultivate yourself, self-cultivation, and self-cultivation.

Try to do something else, get to know some people who are not cheap, study hard and improve every day.

Do you dare to participate in some activities on your own? Clubs and the like,All day long in the dormitory Internet are found by yourself.,That's if you're lazy and don't like to move.,When you get out of the bedroom, you'll find out.,Ah,It turns out that it's so wonderful outside.。

Let's work hard to improve yourself, there are many people who garbage in local garbage schools and garbage, and the key is to look at your own ......

Let's go and study alone. Mathematics and English are so important that you will know what tool subjects are when you graduate from work!

Your own mentality, give yourself some better mental hints, okay.

There is no garbage in any school or person. It varies from person to person.

Learn to adapt and work hard... Otherwise, four years later, I will regret it very much

Why don't you find the reason from yourself who let you into this school.

I have the ability to go to Tsinghua University by myself.

Complaining. Even if you don't do well in school, you won't work hard.

What's wrong with the kids now?

You just have to find your purpose.

The most important thing is to see how you want to develop and do something meaningful for yourself.

Heaven helps self-help, and those who are clear are self-purifying.

The saddest thing in college will have different answers for different people. For me, it was the psychological torment and life change caused by the breakup.

At that time, my boyfriend and I were classmates and we had been together since our freshman year. We had a lot of fun together, we often went to the library to study, eat good food, and watch movies. We both lived in dorms when we were at school, and we would often stay up late chatting and then sleep together.

But in my sophomore year, we started to become estranged from each other because of something. I don't know if it was because I was starting to get a little depressed, or because he was busy with his studies and social life, and we gradually started to feel more and more strange.

I remember at that time whenever he called me **, I always felt that he was no longer as gentle as before. And I'm not as lively and cheerful as I used to be. I became sensitive and suspicious, always worried that he would change his mind.

Eventually, on an ordinary night, we had a heated argument and he told me that he couldn't stand the problems between us any longer and that he wanted to end our relationship. I felt exhausted, stayed up all night, and it felt as if the whole world had collapsed.

From that day on, I felt like my whole being was changed. I started to become more reticent and didn't laugh as much as I used to. I felt like I had lost him and I had lost myself.

Over the next few months, I experienced a lot of emotional swings. I tried to salvage our relationship, but he had found a new girlfriend. I thought about giving up my studies and running to his city to find him, but I didn't.

I knew I couldn't go on like this, I needed to find my way.

Gradually, I began to re-examine my life. I started to find my hobbies, participate in various club activities, and network with new people. I found that I could have lived just fine, even without him.

College is one of the best experiences a person can have. However, in the good years of college, I also had very sad moments. ......Specifically, I felt very sad in the first few days of school.

The reason why this is so is because I am not comfortable with the school, I am not familiar with the school and the new city, and I don't know my classmates.

1. I feel very sad because I don't feel comfortable living on campus.

Before I went to university, I was a day student, and I didn't live on campus at all. ......After going to university, I had to live on campus, which I had never experienced before. ......It is precisely because I feel very uncomfortable that I feel very sad.

This situation is most serious in the first few days of school.

2. I am not familiar with the school and the new city, and I feel very sad.

Leaving the familiar high school and the familiar parents, I came to a strange city and entered a strange university. ......Everything here is unfamiliar, and I feel very uncomfortable and therefore very uncomfortable. ......Because of this, in the first few days after entering the school, I felt very homesick and thought about my former classmates.

3. I don't know each other with my classmates and rarely communicate, which makes me feel very sad.

After I went to university, my classmates came from all over the world, I didn't know each other, I didn't know them well, and I rarely communicated with each other. ......This state made me feel very uncomfortable, which in turn produced a very sad psychology. ......In the first few days after entering school, I was in a very bad mood and felt very sad.

Of course, all of this changed ...... as I gradually adapted to the new environmentI began to like school and classmates, and my mood became better and better. Since then, every day of my college days has been happy and full of sunshine.

The saddest moment I had in college was sending a girl off on the train on the day I graduated.

When I was in college, I always had a girl by my side. But at that time, I was too wooden and not good at expressing myself. In college, we can sit together in class, eat together, and library together.

I enjoyed her company by my side. But I just didn't open my mouth to say what I should have said. When I graduated, I watched her tearfully out of the train window from the platform.

My heart ached so much. But at that time, we were full of traditional thinking, but we never had the courage to take that step. At that time, communication was so closed.

Soon we were cut off. All I know is that she went to Qingdao and I went to Xiamen. To this day, whenever I am irritable and depressed, I always choose to be alone, and the girl full of gentle temperament will still appear in my mind...

I just hope she's okay.

The hardest thing is that there are many times, for example, I don't know anyone at the beginning of school, I am alone in military training, eating and attending classes, I don't want to please others, and others will not take the initiative to talk to me. There are many moments when I walk on campus, I feel that I am very tired, and I am about to be unable to hold on, open the QQ list, all of them are talking in groups, knowing that she can chat with you all night when I say a word to my friends, but I will still turn off my mobile phone and sleep with my head bored.

No matter how difficult it is, it will pass, think about why you want to come to university, think about the excellent teachers you have met, what you have learned that is completely different from junior high and high school, think about your own karma, and think about the place where you stand is a paradise for many seniors to study tirelessly. In fact, every time you endure it, your state of mind will be a little different, and the times that used to make you unbearable will become less uncomfortable.