I m struggling with what to do

Updated on educate 2024-02-09
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have such an idea, you have the idea of breaking up, right, you are so lucky, you are not married, you are too pessimistic, how can you not find a good one, you are too unconfident in yourself. If so, what should those divorced do? Life is not too miserable.

    You can't think like that, marriage is also fate, I wonder if you have been together for a long time. Choosing a person to marry is not a trivial matter, don't grieve yourself, especially in this case, before getting married is the best time to choose, face it bravely, don't be afraid.

    You should know what I mean, you have this kind of disagreement, you should make a choice, be decisive.

    Happiness is in your own hands, and you can't catch it if you don't work hard.

    Give up a crooked neck tree and get a big forest. I didn't believe it before, but now I believe it too much, because I am.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It can only be solved by communication. Calm down and talk to him well, the main points are: 1

    Think clearly about what you want to express in advance, and it is required to be organized, logical, reasonable, and realistic. Then I didn't hurry to talk to him. Let him thoroughly understand the intention of "leadership".

    2.After clarifying the reason, we must also move people with emotion. 3.Remember: if the communication is not very smooth, don't get angry, that will only add to the chaos, not solve the problem.

    Another important point is that marriage is two people joining hands to face the world together and walking on the road together, so they must work together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What kind of money, what kind of money, ah, hey

    In fact, it's just that the two of you don't trust each other, and it's no wonder that in this world, getting married and buying a house is not forced by anyone Really! It depends on complete self-awareness!

    If you say he hasn't grown, he might say that you only recognize money and not people.

    But if both take a step back, there may be no contradiction, or the hundreds of millions of people in the countryside who can't afford to buy houses will live the same people.

    Besides, you have to be willing to buy a house loan, and now you have to buy it, and it will also buy the hidden danger of a quarrel for two people in the future.

    I suggest that the landlord give himself a vacation.

    Maybe the landlord will know what to do after thinking about it for a while.

    In fact, everyone knows what to do in their hearts, but they can't bear it, good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think a woman should be rational and think about her future life, if he can't give you a warm home, is it interesting to be together? The long pain is better than the short pain, you talk to him about your thoughts, if he really doesn't plan to buy a house and marry you, then it's over.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He is still a child who has not grown up, some people will not grow up in their lives, and some people have experienced a marriage and only grown up after divorce.

    If you want to marry him, you have to learn to be his mother, and carefully experience the taste, which is unspeakably miserable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He needs to be motivated, motivated, and give him time!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The long pain is better than the short pain, you talk to him about your thoughts and make a choice.

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