Gain calmly, lose indifferently, go with the flow, and fight for what it necessarily means

Get it calmly: get things to be upright and bright, worthy of others, not to harm others and benefit yourself.

Indifferent to loss: There must be gains and losses, don't dwell on the loss of things.

The above two can also be called "do not suffer from gains and losses", and we must have a normal mind about gains and losses, and reduce the desire to be too attached to external objects.

Fighting for the inevitable: It means that I can only insist on the necessity of reason, that is to say, the only thing that can make me argue and insist is the truth. Don't argue, don't argue unreasonably. People should be upright, uphold if they are reasonable, admit if they are unreasonable, and listen to the truth with an open mind.

Go with the flow: It means that everything has its own reason, and things in the world cannot be forced. As long as you do your best, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

For many experiences and results, we must face them with a clear mood and always have a normal heart.

In fact, these four sentences are all about how people should have inner cultivation and how to better adjust themselves in the face of the complex external world.

Send you a poem with a similar meaning:

There are flowers in spring, there are moons in autumn, cool breeze in summer, and snow in winter. If there is nothing to worry about, it is a good time in the world.

Tu Lei's classic quotations: Gain calmly and lose indifferently, strive for its inevitability, and go with the flow!

1) Gain calmly: face what you get calmly (guard against arrogance and rashness, and avoid exaggeration; Zhengda Guangming got something worthy of the heart).

2) Indifferent to loss: face what is lost indifferently (don't be entangled in your heart, deal with it calmly, and find peace of mind).

3) Go with the flow: For life or nature, as long as you should follow the law of his development (as the saying goes, don't go against the sky, that is, you must follow the law and do your best, something is in people, things are in heaven, as long as you do what you can do is perfect enough).

4) Strive for the inevitable: do your best to fight for what you can get with certainty (that is, do not leave regrets for yourself, and do your best to do what you can).

Generally speaking, the gain is calm, the loss is indifferent, the fight for its inevitability, and the natural embodiment of an open-minded attitude towards marriage and love.

Gain calmly, lose indifferently, go with the flow, and strive for its inevitability" respectively means:

Get it calmly: get things to be upright and bright, worthy of others, not to harm others and benefit yourself. That is, the potato is what I have obtained, and it is also a legitimate gain, with a clear conscience, so the mood is calm, and there are no ups and downs.

Indifferent to loss: There must be gains and losses, don't dwell on the loss of things.

Go with the flow: It means that everything has its own reason, and things in the world cannot be forced. As long as you are self-reliant, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

For many experiences and results, we must face them with a clear mood, and always have a normal heart.

"Fight for the inevitability": It means that I can only insist on the reason of necessity, that is to say, the only thing that can make me argue and insist is the truth. Don't argue, don't argue unreasonably. Shousan people should be upright, defend if reasonable, admit unreasonable, and listen to the truth with an open mind. <>

What does it mean to gain calmly and lose calmly, and to fight for it, it must go with the flow: when you get something, your mentality is calm, that is, it is rightfully obtained. Lost indifferently:

It's just that if you lose something, you lose it, don't always worry about it, but talk about what you lose. The inevitability of competition: that is, competition is a matter of course, everyone is fair, and there is no need for Min Cong to give up the opportunity to compete.

Go with the flow: that is, you don't care too much about what happens, just accept it.

Gain indifferently, lose calmly, fight for it, and inevitably go with the flow, this sentence is to teach us a kind of mentality that we should adopt when facing various things. Meaning: when you get something, you should be indifferent to it and don't pursue it too much; And when you lose it, you have to be calm and don't be too pessimistic.

At the same time, when striving for certain things, we should plan reasonably and try our best to fight for them, but we should also go with the flow and not force it. This mentality conveys an attitude of "to resent, to regret, to seek", that is, do not linger on what has been lost, do not regret the opportunities you have missed, and do not blindly pursue things that are beyond your ability.

Indifference and calmness are two completely different states of mind, indifference is a detached realm, peace of mind, not an innate trait, but a result of cultivation; Calmness is a kind of calmness and composure when dealing with difficulties, and it is the courage and confidence to face reality. The combination of these two mentalities can enable us to uphold a moderate mentality in the face of various changes in the world, an attitude of "happiness" in life, not to take "gain and loss" as the only criterion in life, and not to be depressed and compromise when we lose some material opportunities.

At the same time, this sentence also emphasizes a kind of "inevitability" and a kind of "naturalness". There are many things in life that exist objectively, some things that we can change and master, and some things that are beyond the scope of our ability and mastery. At this time, it is better to go with the flow and act according to the laws of the operation of things themselves than to forcibly strive for and change, so that the disturbance can get rid of the anxiety and worry caused by fighting.

In life, it can reduce the occurrence of loss and frustration, so as to avoid excessive pessimism and despair.

In short, "gain indifferently and lose calmly and fight for it will inevitably go with the flow", this sentence teaches us to be psychologically flat, not too greedy and entangled, but to understand that the world is changing, our own ability is limited, for objective things we must go with the flow, with a detached attitude to face suffering, embrace the "real and real" life. <>