Why adults can t talk about money all the time, and what is social reality ?

Society is developing, and various problems will inevitably arise in the process of development. In the material society, people pay more and more attention to the importance of 'money', and the gap between the rich and the poor is too large, the rich part may not care so much, but the poor part will yearn for the rich part, will become more and more materialistic, desperate to obtain, this is one of the harms of showing off wealth.

Now it is a money society, and everything is measured by money.

If you don't have money, your parents look down on you, but if you have money, your seven aunts and eight aunts have come out.

Because man is inherently evil in the first place.

In this society, whoever is rich is the elder brother, and whoever is super good. I'm afraid that except for your mother, the old man and the people who are close to you are all settlers.

The spiritual world is still based on the material world.

Wherever you have money, you have a pass, and you have a green light everywhere.

What do you feel you can do without money?

Yes, so to speak. Money is not omnipotent, but you can't do anything without it, when you encounter difficulties, you need human and material help, when others are in trouble, you need money to help him, in short, you need it to do everything

In today's society, it is indeed difficult to move an inch without taking money. Food, clothing, housing and transportation can only run perfectly by money. But there are also things that money can't buy, that is, family, friendship, and love.

The feelings between people still have to be paid sincerely in exchange, and the power of money is slightly weakened in the face of true feelings.

The current society is like this, not to mention the people on the street, even relatives and friends are like this, if you have money, you will stutter, and if you don't have money, you will stay away. Why is there such a sentence that poor couples mourn everything, couples who have no money in love will also complain to each other, and their feelings will be exhausted after a long time. Only when you have money can you talk about filial piety, love, and dignity.

That shows why you care so much about other people's eyes, I'm different from you, you are distracted, you can't go is to know ordinary people, meet politely and say hello, and don't eat his family to live, whatever.

This is the other side of society, not only with good intentions, but also with bad intentions.

Reality creates all kinds of people, learn to omit! You're in for a treat!

Now it is a socialist market economy, and no matter what doctrine it is, as long as it is a market economy, there will be competition, and as long as there is competition, some people will be defeated, and this is an inevitable law. Rational and standardized competition can promote the healthy development of the economy, and can also prompt people to work hard and strive for the upper reaches. However, if there is unreasonable competition, it will make the social atmosphere worse.

When people have no ideals and only recognize money, people have a sense of crisis and their mood becomes impatient.

That's what society is.

You can bring benefits to others.

All around you. You are poor, and you are far away.

Those who stay are friends.

Nowadays, people are led by this social atmosphere.

It's like getting married now! Whoever gives more money thinks that they are rich or generous!

No money! No matter how good you are! The woman's parents may not necessarily marry their daughter to you!

If you don't have money! Don't talk about others, even relatives and friends will look down on you.

This is the current society, it is very realistic, only when you encounter difficulties do you know that those people are your real friends, you can see a little, just be yourself, after all, the current society is not what you want to become.

The real society is like this, and we strive to improve ourselves, but people should not forget their roots.

Society is like this, everything is centered on interests, it's good to know some things yourself, you have to cherish those who still help you at the trough of your life, those are nobles. Those who are close to you when you have money will be good on face, and there is no need to dig out more hearts and lungs, so as not to get hurt.

It's all like this, you have no money and no status. Talk to people when you fart.

It's so realistic, if you have money, you are the master, and everyone has to support it. If you don't have money, you're a grandson, and everyone wants to come and step on you.

Human beings are inherently profit-seeking animals, and they will instinctively seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

However, many people may be unintentional, because of different environments, different relationships, and different mentalities, sometimes it is difficult to have a common topic and the same cognition. There is a saying that words are not speculative, and more than half a sentence is this truth.

Therefore, it is okay to work hard to cultivate oneself, work and live, and do oneself, the more you care about others, the more you will ignore yourself, no matter whether you have money or not, you can't give yourself a peaceful mind.

Because having money means that you are capable, and not having money means that you are incompetent.

This society is like this, so everyone has to work hard to develop themselves, so that you are not worse than others, so that others will not look down on you, and will treat you as the same as others, otherwise others will easily look down on you.

The one is better, you.

Relatives, friends, classmates, strangers, all can't escape these, if you meet strangers like this to you, it will not make people feel cold, some families encounter parents who are partial to rich children, then you feel more realistic.

What should I do if I feel like I have a phobia?

People have desires, money is the product of value exchange, everyone who has money can buy what they want is inseparable from money, and without money they can't exchange items, so in order to get too many things, they are such people who forget their righteousness.

This is how this society is now, since the moment money was born, the world has been fighting for money, and this is a rule that cannot be changed.

In fact, it is very easy to explain, for example, if you are a college student looking for a job, one is a full honors grade, and the other is a score that is all hovering at the passing line, these two people compete, who do you say the interviewer will choose? Don't say that ability is the most important, the reality is that ability cannot be reflected in a short period of time (at least in the few minutes of the interview), and grades are the last word, people with very bad grades have at least one of the following two problems:1

Poor learning attitude 2Good attitude, but not enough IQ, no matter what kind of employer you want.

If you are still in middle school, then I can tell you the most realistic place to take the entrance examination of a good university, some good companies will not look for non-985 211 students at all, these companies will not even participate in the school's double selection meeting, the first threshold will cut you down, no matter how strong your ability is, what's the use? These companies also have their own explanations: we do not deny that there are also students with strong work ability in non-985 211 schools, but we have thousands of resumes for one position, and it takes a higher cost to prove that ordinary university students are stronger than prestigious universities, so we have to make a screening first.

Because our parents want us to have a place in society, maybe their practices are not good enough, but they are all for our sake, we can try to communicate with them well, maybe there will be new breakthroughs.