Is it normal to not have a girlfriend at 21 years old?

Updated on society 2024-02-28
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There's nothing wrong with that, as long as you're happy. I have many classmates who are red when they see others having boyfriends and girlfriends, and they themselves shout to find one, asking them why they are looking for it, and they all say that they are empty and lonely. If this time is really lonely, you can find out what is suitable for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is actually quite normal, do you yearn for love or are you afraid that your personality will make you lose the chance to fall in love? You'd better try to open your heart and try to make more friends. Since you are confident in your appearance, there is no reason not to believe in your charm.

    Don't be afraid to communicate with others, I'm sure you'll find the right one for you. Maybe it's just that fate hasn't arrived.

    You have to believe in yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's normal.,It's normal for me to be hurt by people when I'm so beautiful.,What's not normal in this world.。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It couldn't be more normal......

    Is it good to show how many tens of thousands there are in your family? This has something to do with whether you can find a girlfriend, but it's not an absolute relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No way. So rich without a girlfriend ......If it's someone else, it's normal, but you're not normal......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take a look at Jiangsu Satellite TV - don't disturb if you're not sincere, it's best for men to find a girlfriend in 28-34. So you don't have to rush.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's still small, it's so normal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm 26 years old yet, what are you in a hurry?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's normal, many people can't find a partner, some are thirty years old, or even forty years old without a partner, but because of this, I think the sooner you find a partner, the better.

    I don't have time to fall in love, and when it's really time to get married, I realize that everything is not going well.

    Although you are only twenty years old, but marriage is not far away, if you don't read, you should pay attention, if there is a suitable opposite sex in life, you can hurry up, if not, you can also try marriage software, because young people like to use marriage and love software, but they can find people they like without leaving home, before seeing a partner marriage and love is like this, not only a large number of young single users on the network, but also designed a lot of functions, playing: small note function, listening to the name is confused, in fact, it is a note passed on when going to school, It is full of love words, especially young and romantic; Three ** books.

    Post the same news and show yourself.

    There are many more that I won't introduce, remember to plan ahead, youth is capital, and it is also the key to laying a good foundation for the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal. It's normal to have an object at the age of 20 and not have a partner, and if you don't have a partner, it's because you haven't met the right person, so why force yourself to get along with the wrong person. There will always be an object, it's just a matter of time, fate hasn't arrived yet, so I haven't met the right person for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's normal. At the age of 20, life is going uphill, you may not be available, or you may not be popular. There is no object to cause.

    But it's not too late, you will become knowledgeable, talented, rich, and good-looking in the next few years.

    Don't worry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm all 36, I tell you, normal! Slowly you will get used to it!

    But no does not mean that you are not positive, you should be active in meeting and dating girls now. Volatilize your hormones!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Normal, existence is reasonable. It may be that you haven't met the person who makes your heart flutter yet.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.There is no abnormality, you can feel that you don't owe it in your own heart.

    2.As a girl, you must have dreamed of Prince Charming, but one day he really comes to you.

    Can you really be his bride?

    3.Be yourself, have peace of mind, and be brave enough to grasp love when it comes.

    Never fall in love for the sake of being in love.

    That often hurts.

    Your crush is a hero of the world, and one day he will come to fetch you wearing golden armor and stepping on colorful auspicious clouds.

    I think it's a normal thing. Many girls don't have a suitable object when they are older, it's a normal thing, after all, the right person hasn't appeared in the fate of this kind of thing can't be forced, some girls feel that they are so abnormal, in fact, this kind of thinking is completely incorrect. In my opinion, this kind of thing should be gradual, not rushed, because in this society, it is really difficult to find someone who is suitable for you or loves you.

    Sometimes it's because I feel that I will be more free when I'm single, and I don't have to think about the troubles in love, and sometimes when I fall in love, I feel that the other party's mood can affect my mood very much, and I can't concentrate on working hard at work, so that I have a bad day long.

    Many times girls feel like a little girl, they should enjoy their lives in time and should not be trapped by love. Many girls will regret it after falling in love, because falling in love is too delayed, sometimes they want to go to a place, they don't want to be bound, but their other half forces themselves not to go, whenever this time feels how good it should be not to fall in love. In fact, being single has the benefits of being single, and falling in love also has the benefits of falling in love.

    Girls don't question themselves because they are 26 years old and have not been in a relationship. Enjoy your single life in time, and when you meet the right person, you will be able to enjoy the feeling of being in love. In fact, love is like a siege, those who go in want to get out, and those who haven't entered want to go in.

    When the right person appears, they will be deeply in love. What should come will always come, don't worry or care about other people's opinions, you must have your own ideas, and falling in love is also deliberate by yourself, and it is not something to talk about casually.

    I hope you meet the right person soon. I hope you can enjoy the sweetness of love soon.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal for 26-year-old girls to have no impression, and it's not too late to fall in love now, especially some college students, it's just right to fall in love at the age of 26, because 26-year-old is not a leftover girl, and it's also very suitable to fall in love now.

    I like a saying: it's better to have less than to overgrow. I also respect those who stick to the bottom line in the relationship, if the right person hasn't appeared yet, what does it matter if it's later.

    Love is so sacred, and it is a happy and wonderful thing to meet the person who is willing to start a relationship.

    The reason for the questioner's situation is that he is anxious. After the girl is 25 years old, when she sees her companions getting married one after another and her family members also begin to urge marriage in disguise, she begins to feel anxious about her feelings, and she will doubt her sexual orientation or her own psychological condition, which is a normal phenomenon at this stage. So you don't have to be in a hurry, you should relax and seriously analyze the reasons why you are still single.

    Dreams, the subconscious mind is demanding. Girls will weave a dream in their hearts, and they will have a dream lover of their own settings, and most girls will find their other half according to this setting, usually repeatedly hitting a wall, because the subconscious is too demanding. And dreams are always dreams.

    Misunderstanding from the outside world. Many girls are more casual in their communication methods or words and deeds, or have a strong personality, which will make outsiders misunderstand girls, so there will be many people who just stop and dare not move forward.

    The circle of life is small. There are some girls who don't accept people who are very familiar with them, and people who are not familiar with them have no time to meet and no chance to meet, so they have never had the opportunity to meet the right person earlier.

    It is recommended that the questioner go out to travel, choose a time when it is not the peak tourist season, go to see more scenery, feel the customs of other places, and you will find that you are actually living too small in your own world. Make yourself bigger, and you will see a different world and a different self.

    No matter what reason we are single now, but don't worry, keep our pride, because if the flowers bloom, happiness will come.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Normal, there is no absolute black and white right and wrong in this world. Especially in the matter of personal feelings, as long as you don't hurt others, how can it be abnormal. This is from the perspective of self-acceptance and recognition, and I hope you don't lose confidence and self-denial because of it.

    Second, listen to your inner voice.

    Life is short, and you should do what you want to do, instead of going with the flow. Do you want to listen to your own inner voice, do you crave love? If so, then actively look for it, first of all, you must first find your internal motivation to get off the single, not because you have to follow the trend because others are in love, it must be because you "want".

    Third, use the right approach.

    You mentioned that it is certainly advisable to find a consulting agency to consult, just like if we want to be in good shape, we must consult a professional fitness trainer, instead of thinking about it ourselves, wasting time and deepening self-denial.

    From your expression, I see two points that you need to pay attention to. First, homosexuality is normal, please don't have a discriminatory eye, and like heterosexuality, it deserves respect and understanding. Second, you said that there is no limit to men and women, but you still can't find the other half.

    Your social circle is too narrow, you haven't found the right way to socialize, you can't get to know a lot of high-quality people quickly, and you're just standing still. So, it's like a person who just thinks every day that I'm going to lose weight, I'm going to lose weight, it's useless, you have to take action, and do it in the right way.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's normal. However, if you want to be in a relationship, you have to do it. For example, participate in more offline activities, meet more male friends, and expand your life circle, so that you can find a suitable partner faster.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's normal, I'm 28 yet. Regardless of whether a man or a woman, don't choose to settle until you meet a suitable partner, because only people who respect each other can make a relationship last longer and be happier.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is very normal, many girls will not look for a partner until they are about 30 years old, so you are only 26 years old, it doesn't matter, there are still many years.

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