What should I do?

1. In fact, some things are coincidental, but some things are purposeful, I have never heard of it, and you have to go back after giving you a red envelope 2001, the strange thing is that their family is so poor? is so poor that he still needs to use the meeting gift money of his future daughter-in-law.

2. Your family insists on a deposit of 5w, even if it is given to you in the end, their family will have other reasons to go back, why bother? What does your boyfriend think, because he is a local, so he knows his local customs.

The relationship of the year,Just for the sake of the gift money, the two families began to contradict.,The days in the future are really not good.,Even if you marry in.,The same keeps digging things on you.。

4. Breaking up is not the key to solving the problem, but for your own good, you don't want to face such an insulted marriage, and breaking up is just the final result.

5. Does your boyfriend work in your local area? Or do they work locally from home? If you work in your area, it's easy to live with your parents, but if you also work in their area, you can only live with his family, because the conditions are not allowed.

Unless you have your own house or you share a house in your own unit, or rent a house by yourself, but this is generally not realistic. Know how to save money for your own future.

6. Does your boyfriend know the grievances in your heart? What does he think of his family's approach? If he stands in the perspective of his parents and these are the implementation of their family existence, then you can only love him like this, but if he is on the same position as his parents and does not want to spend money to marry a wife, then it depends on his own choice, whether this man is worth your life.

7. Talk to your boyfriend and his family, forget if you can't talk about it, after all, it will be you who will suffer in the future, and women must learn to be kind to themselves, and at the same time know how to be realistic, so as to make themselves easier.

If his parents don't support it, it's painful, and if you love him, you can choose not to live with his parents after you get married, so that friction can be avoided.

It's normal to disagree with the man's parents, and the man's family is estimated to be in poor condition, so it's really difficult for his parents. And parents with poor conditions generally don't take such a major event as marriage very seriously, and they hope to save some money. In the future, you won't pay much attention to it after you get married, so my personal suggestion is still divided, but considering that your boyfriend is very good, so you can consider renting a house for 2 people to live outside, and buy a set if you have the financial ability, but I think your good old boyfriend should be very filial, so he will think of his parents, and in the end it depends on how you choose.

Marriage is originally a fusion of two big families.

If you love him very much, feel that it is tolerable, and can run in, it is the best.

But if you really can't tolerate it.

He loves you and his family, and it should be painful to get married. It will also make it very difficult for him.

Think about it calmly.

best wish to you .

If you get married, the relationship between the parents still exists, and you have to think about it.

As parents, they will never have bad intentions towards their sons, and they will feel that their daughters-in-law are still estranged if they are outsiders My sister-in-law has done everything in my family for so many years, compared to my brother, who is wrong everywhere, but my parents still feel that their son has been wronged.

Most families are like this, it is recommended to communicate more, whether there is really no money or reluctance to solve problems together, it is a family Your boyfriend is good, but also pay attention to a point to have your own opinions, otherwise after marriage, you will prefer your mother-in-law and you will be wronged.

Persist for so long, don't give up easily, make more efforts to communicate, work hard, and you won't regret it later.

I don't think you really love him! Otherwise, you won't always feel like letting go will solve the problem!

That man wants to borrow money to get engaged to you for you, and you can see that he is sincere to you! But he is also a filial son, have you ever thought about your dislike of his parents, how painful and difficult it is for him to be caught between you......Instead, think, think. Maybe you will have a new perspective on your relationship!

In fact, you want to live with him, not with his parents! His parents are because of money, you just need to give them more money, and it's OK!

Is this obsessive-compulsive disorder, I suggest that you make your life to the fullest, let yourself be in a happy and happy state, allocate your time reasonably, and let yourself have no time to think about it.