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It's not that bad to feel dead, it's like falling asleep. There is no need to think about anything, there is nothing worse in life than death, but only in life, but in the midst of troubles and pains, it is a complete liberation, and it is also the final end for everyone. Birth, growth, aging, death, ......But there is no desire to have ghosts, because people who really want to escape their troubles will not want to have them.
But think about it, there are still a lot of things to do, or the loneliness on Huangquan Road, anyway, you are not the only one who wants to die, why bother to find a handsome guy and a beautiful woman together. Suicide is a contradiction between killing and being killed, but there are many reasons for it. In short, normal people don't want to commit suicide.
It's not that people who like to get excited by watching themselves bleed, they're not normal either. Everyone who wants to commit suicide has a different way of disposing of their body, destroying or disposing of their organs. Those who want to find a way to die without pain are a bit difficult, but there have already been several ways to die without pain, official and unofficial.
In fact, some of them don't have to die, and some of them can live well after being helped.
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It can be said that I am tired of this world; Despair of this society; I no longer have attachment to the people around me; I have completely lost confidence in myself!!
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First of all, you think about the parts of your life, then you think about your family, or your girlfriend, and then you think about whether it's worth it, who will grieve for you if you do, and then you will regret it.
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There are two kinds, one is liberation and the other is despair.
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Think of death as hope. In addition, it must be known that there will be no gods at the end of death.
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It's not despair, it's just a reason to give yourself a reason to choose freedom.
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There is nothing to fear.
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I didn't know if I really wanted to try it, the sleeping pills were ready
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A mood of indifference, not caring about anything, not minding,
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Save someone's life, and win the seventh-level floating slaughter.
Accompany him more, persuade him more, chat and walk with him, care about him often, let him feel the beauty of this world, the love between people, maybe his negative thoughts will slowly disappear.
Second, when a person commits suicide, he must have a lot of grievances in his heart, we see this situation, don't shout, but stabilize, use the strategy of delaying the army, you can persuade him to write something to leave to his relatives, and then in the process of his writing, the mood slowly stabilizes, and the thing is finished, maybe the plan to commit suicide has been given up.
Third, if you find a suicide person, if you don't know how to persuade you, the first thing you should think of is to ask experts in this area to come to help, do psychological counseling for him, help him get out of his own small vision, and let him consciously dispel the idea of suicide is correct, as long as this kind of thinking exists, he will definitely make extreme measures in the future.
Fourth, if you find a person who wants to commit suicide, if you can, it is best to choose to call the police for help, in addition, you can notify its family and friends, let them come and persuade, the most important point is to calm the other party down, do not provoke him with words, otherwise good intentions will become a bad thing, if it is convenient, save him first.
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.Warm care and inquiry
If you do notice that someone around you is not quite emotionally right, try asking what problems they have been experiencing recently. Or ask the other person more directly, have you been unhappy lately? Feeling suicidal?
On the one hand, we can try to listen to the other person's dilemma, and on the other hand, you can find ways to help him solve the problem.
There are also some people who find it difficult to describe the difficulties they encounter to others, at this time, as close friends, all we can do is to silently accompany and care.
Cook a hot dinner, or watch a movie quietly with him, and silently accompany his friends to make him feel your warmth.
Of course, in case of emergency, you can also ask ** for help, so that they can stop their friends from wanting to commit suicide in time.
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Hello answer, happy to answer your questions. If a person wants to commit suicide, then you tell him that it is better to die than to live, you are not even afraid of death, and you still have something to overcome. Find a way to untie the knot in her heart and tell her that no matter what, you have to figure it out and see it.
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Try to accompany him, chat with him more, comfort will not play a big role, try to accompany him to a relaxed environment, close to life, close to nature, listen more to let him relax and understand her pain.
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When someone close to you wants to commit suicide, you act as a good friend to him. You have to be there to enlighten him, protect him, and help him out of his trouble.
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If you have a problem in your heart, bring it to psychological counseling in time.
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If he didn't think about it on the spur of the moment, but committed suicide after a long time, I would choose to respect him, because you can never save someone who really wants to die.
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Suffice it to say that talking about suicide or always telling someone that they want to kill means that he is on the verge of collapse, but he is not willing to die like this. His subconscious.
He also longs to be redeemed. He has seen many tragic events: people always don't pay enough attention to the event before it, and only regret and lament when the event actually happens.
When he tried all the ways and couldn't get salvation, he really despaired. When he really made up his mind to die and never waver, he really wouldn't tell anyone, because he was afraid that others would stop him, and he didn't want to talk anymore.
So, when a person talks to you about suicide, you have to take it seriously. Surely people who talk about suicide don't commit suicide? That's what you think, because you haven't experienced the feeling of wanting to die, you haven't put yourself in his shoes, you can't judge randomly.
Can you guarantee that you can tell if he really wants to commit suicide or if he is fake? I do not deny that some people (and very few people) use suicide to scare others and threaten others in order to achieve a goal, but in fact, 80% of suicides will give a warning before committing suicide, but unfortunately it is not taken seriously or considered hypocritical.
Just like me, I often hear "If you really want to die, you won't tell others" and "If you have the ability, you can die, it's better to die now", fortunately, I'm still a little rational, I won't be so angry that I really end my life because of a few words from some people. I'm not so stupid to punish myself for other people's mistakes, even sacrificing my life. But if it were someone else, it might be really hard to say.
I want to ask, what do you want to do when you say such things, what is your purpose? Are you trying to encourage him? You will only add to his pain.
Suffice it to say that there is only one life, and no one can joke about him.
There is a lot of beauty in this world, but there are also too many cruel places. You're not him, how do you know what's going on in his mind. You don't understand, but please don't hurt.
I'm going to "pull" myself again, I can say desperate, but I'm not completely desperate, so I can still ask for help. When I talk to anyone about "wanting to die" or "despair", I always add the word "almost", and the most common thing I say is "almost utterly hopeless", which others may be able to perceive. I can say to my parents (and of course I love them, no one can deny that) that sometimes it is the people who think they know you best who don't understand you the most.
Why? Because he thinks he knows you best, he automatically replaces your thoughts with his thoughts, and then you have a hard time communicating with him, and he doesn't understand what you say......So I'm always talking to outsiders.
Therefore, I hope that everyone will pay attention to these things, care more about helping people around you or strangers, it is very likely that your companionship and not giving up, even a little care and greetings, can save a life! I also ask you to stop accusing them of hypocrisy. Because you only live once!
That's my point of view as a first-hand experiencer.
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If a person wants to commit suicide, he must have wanted to commit suicide after a certain psychological process beforehand, and some people can't let go of something in their hearts, so they have to leave something, such as a suicide letter, **, text message or something, and some people have suicidal thoughts after encountering a sudden blow, without any consideration, so they left this world without leaving anything; Or pain and despair, and the world in their eyes is all darkness.
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I think it must be very, very desperate, to the point where it is unbearable and unable to control my thoughts, so I can do such an act as suicide.
A person's suicide cannot be called an accident, because an accident is an accident, and to a certain extent, a person's suicide must be an event, because it is his subjectivity.
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