I feel very dependent on my good friend, and I see that she plays very well with her roommate every

Updated on psychology 2024-02-14
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's because you're wrong, you can take the initiative to apologize and show goodwill, if it's malicious to stay away from you, re-establish your circle of friends, make yourself happy, if it's a real friend, she shouldn't deliberately make you feel bad.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't play well with one person, it's someone else's problem, and if you don't play well with two, it's someone else's, and you can't play well with everyone, then reflect on yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you should think about whether there is something wrong and hurt them. Apologize to them. I think they'll forgive you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Either fight back or restart a relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Take the initiative to find him to solve the problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Speak first, take the initiative, and find the reason.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You'll have to ask her why. Maybe she hears something and deliberately distances herself from you. Or maybe you inadvertently her off

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You've done something that disgusts them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Did you do something that annoying the other person?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personal opinion: bai

    Accept it. Don't dwell on the past

    Since it is the predecessor, the dao represents the knot.

    Bundled specialized. Real men never look back, and neither should real womenNow that you have let go, you have to accept it calmly. It's good to gather and disperse

    The end of one relationship is the beginning of another. Dwelling on the past dragged the pace forward. Only by letting go of obsession can we relaxin order to give yourself a new lease on life.

    The space of the heart is limited, and the person you love the most can only be one, and if you don't put down the person who left, the others will never be able to enter.

    If there is sadness, the world has no color; IfIf you can let go, the world will still be beautiful, if not better。Life turns a page, and life begins a new journey.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your roommate is with your ex-boyfriend, what does it have to do with you? If you break up naturally, then your ex-boyfriend and you are two unrelated people, and everything he does has nothing to do with you. He didn't put his feet on two boats when you were in love, and that's fine!

    He's with your roommate, maybe he likes your roommate, and your roommate likes him? When people break up, they find out that your roommate is actually more suitable for you?

    I think after breaking up, everyone has the right to pursue happiness again, and I can't be with your roommate again just because I've been in love with you!

    Maybe you feel embarrassed, so just don't look at them, and walk away when your roommate is with your boyfriend. If you don't feel embarrassed, just stay and embarrass them! That's not unavoidable!

    If it's your roommate who caused you to break up, then you can choose to make trouble, but I don't think it's better, this will make the man think that he is very popular, and it will also make your girlfriend feel more accomplished and proud in front of you!

    You can find someone better than this one, or find your ex-boyfriend's brother as a boyfriend, so that these two people have the gas to block their hearts.

    Anyway, love is free! How happy you are, how can you come, life is so short, is a life that is not indulgent still called life?

    I don't think you need to take this matter to heart at all, after all, what people want to do is someone else's business! For someone like me who has been in love six or seven times, I saw that my ex-boyfriend had found a friend of mine, and I didn't say anything!

    What's this? What a fuss! Girls should be big-minded!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I believe that many people will feel a little embarrassed to meet again after a breakup.

    For roommates to behave like this, I think that first of all, if she chooses to date your boyfriend, her relationship with you should not be particularly good, even if it seems to be good, it is not sincere, and people who really care about you will not do something to meet you.

    Here are some of my recommendations.

    Suggestion 1: Now that you have broken up with your boyfriend, it is not within your jurisdiction who he is associating with. Since the roommate chooses to be with him, let's choose the blessing generously. After all, after a breakup, looking forward is the right thing to do.

    Moreover, good horses don't eat back grass, especially a grass that you don't want, your ex-boyfriend will be with whoever he loves to be with, it has nothing to do with you, just don't care about it.

    Suggestion 2: Act separately from your roommate as much as possible, if you were originally active together, it is recommended to change your partner, I personally feel that if this is the case, such a roommate is at least doing a very bad job in the world.

    Acting separately can make you less likely to meet your ex-boyfriend, so that awkward situations can be avoided as much as possible. I think it's quite right to break up and not get in touch, and it means that the goodwill is gone, and it's normal not to want to meet.

    Suggestion 3: Live your own life, let them show their affection if they want to, enrich their lives as much as possible, and make themselves better, so that they can meet better people in the future and be able to match them.

    Life is yourself, don't let the people around you affect your emotions at will, you should eat, you should drink. You, there will always be a better one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The man has nothing to do with you since the breakup, so it doesn't matter who he's with, even if it's your roommate.

    Even if it is a peaceful breakup, it is estimated that it will feel a little embarrassing, one is a roommate who looks down and doesn't look up, and the other is an ex-boyfriend, so try to avoid talking about it in the dormitory, if your roommate has a good character, she will also avoid suspicion, and then try her best to balance the relationship between you and her. At the same time, try not to appear on the occasion of their appearance, not to say that you want to avoid them, but for fear that you will be upset and out of sight, if your roommate dares to deliberately show affection to you in front of you, you will mock her to your heart's content.

    Adjust your mentality, don't think about the people and things that have passed, what you have to do is to make yourself better, not to say that you will regret your ex-boyfriend, at least to make your state more full and excellent than before, go with the flow and do your best, and meet the next good person who cherishes you, suits you, and can see you is the king.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My roommate and my ex-boyfriend walked together, what an embarrassing thing it is, first of all, I will feel that this girl is not thinking normally, not even the least roommate relationship, this girl's character is definitely not good, anyway, I look down on her.

    Such a phenomenon is also very common, we can only say that the quality of such a person is also very low, and the future will not deal with the sophistication of the world, let alone whether he can succeed, such men and women will not be looked down upon by others, let alone recognized by the majority of the people. Therefore, we have to be a person with moral sentiments, not to make conventional mistakes, and to make a decision that everyone agrees with.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, it is inevitable that this will happen to both boys and girls in college, because everyone's lifestyle and personality are different.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    College roommates should get along well, don't always think about other people's reasons, but also look at yourself; If you can't do it, just move out.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Try to fit in, and sometimes you need to be a little more outgoing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's just that there is no common hobby, which is normal.

    College roommates are artificially forced social circles, and it may be a student number or a surname. It's normal to meet a roommate who doesn't go the right way. Because roommates are not your chosen social circle.

    Roommates get along, there is no big problem with character and morality, just maintain a relationship that says it's not close and far away, and it doesn't have to be a friend or girlfriend. Everyone should have their own social circle.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are no absolutes in everything, both of you are actually at fault, but your mistakes are far greater than his, he shouldn't lose his temper with you, but you should think more about her feelings, don't play with the eldest lady's temper, he said that he annoys you and shows that you are often like this, so I want you two to have a good talk face-to-face and point out each other's faults.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Similar problems are going to arise again. Just break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's normal to watch a movie, maybe he thinks that you do this too often, it's time to take care of it, and it's not necessary to say this about you when you watch a movie once in a while.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think your boyfriend is right.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She blocked you, because she didn't want you to see her circle of friends anymore, that is to say, she has a gap with you, but you don't know how to offend her, I used to eat and chat together and felt that the relationship was very good, but people's hearts are like this, ten sentences can't make people, and one sentence will offend people! has the opportunity to make it clear to her that she should apologize and apologize, but it really doesn't work, so I can only say that you are not all the way! It's just that you must pay attention to what you say in the future, you must say good words and warm winters, and bad words hurt people and June is cold!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It shows that she has her own new life circle, and it may no longer be convenient to show you the circle of friends, and you don't need to be angry at all.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Something must have happened to block you, saying that the unintentional listener is intentional, and it is possible for others to sow discord! Otherwise, you pretend not to know and ask, why can't I see you posting on Moments lately?? Or so be it, you can block her too.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You feel that she is blocking you inexplicably, but in fact, she did it intentionally, maybe she offended her unintentionally without knowing it. Maybe it's some benefit that you get and don't have her share. Or maybe someone has stirred up the relationship between the two of you and said bad things about you to her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I can't accept this situation.

    Because if my roommate goes out with my boyfriend, I always think it's weird, but if I let them go out together, maybe I'll be okay with it, and this will be discussed on a case-by-case basis, and if it's a roommate who has a very good relationship with me, maybe I won't particularly care.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it were me, my first reaction would be that there was a relationship between the two of them, I would be very angry, I would go to my boyfriend first to find out what was going on, and then go and ask my roommate, if the two of them are really related, then my boyfriend and I will break up, and my roommate will not be friends again, I feel that is a betrayal, so I will not forgive either of them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is a situation that I can understand, it may be that your boyfriend wants to surprise you, and your roommate knows you better, so he asked your roommate to help with the plan. I can't understand anything other than this, so when I don't know the real situation, I can secretly understand that I'm looking for a solution.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    College students are already adults, and they are allowed to fall in love, so what's wrong with going out? Do you have to fall in love on campus to be in love? I think when two people are in a relationship together, they need to go shopping, buy clothes, and watch movies to warm up, but there doesn't seem to be these entertainment activities in school.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If it were me, I would definitely ask them to understand the situation, if it was just to go out and play, I felt that it was inappropriate, I was the middleman, but I was missing myself, if they really had a relationship, I would break up and I would not continue to be friends with my roommates, and completely cut off the relationship with them.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    They must have a leg, otherwise why would your boyfriend go out with two people who are not very familiar with each other, and it is still without you, in this case, you should ask why, see how they can quibble, and get rid of it early.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let's see why the two of them went out, right? Is there anyone else present besides the two of them, if it's because of something, then you can consider it at your discretion, but if it's going out together, then the three of you have to talk about it, what kind of situation do they mean.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm definitely going to understand why, and I'm definitely not going to fool around until I understand the cause and effect of things. If there is really anything between them, then it is better to get together and disperse, this kind of man is not worthy of me to cry for him, I will definitely find a better home than him.

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