It turns out that whether it is friendship or love, it can t survive the seven year itch after all

When friends come into contact, everyone is more enthusiastic, and they are very sincere and good to each other. As time goes by, when you get along with your friends, you feel that your friends are excellent in everything they do. Sometimes I compare myself with my friends, and slowly a certain gap will form in my heart.

Then there will be a rift in this friendship, so the friendship also has a seven-year itch.

After spending a long time with friends, the shortcomings of the other party and their own shortcomings are all revealed. It is that if each other does not have a heart that tolerates each other, then the friendship will also be problematic. And friends get together every day, and if they don't tolerate each other, they will feel uncomfortable and have a bad impression.

Sometimes some friends will feel very ironic when they say a word, but they will alienate this friend. The boat of friendship is also said to be overturned, and friendship can't survive the seven-year itch. If there is a friendship around you that has survived the seven-year itch, you must cherish it.

Yes, but most of the 7-year itch is not a very difficult situation in friendship, as long as everyone opens up and finds new and more interesting fun, there will be no such problem.

Feelings have a seven-year itch, but friendship does not have a seven-year itch, for friendship, some time is relatively short, but some can be a lifetime of pure friendship.

I don't think there is a seven-year itch between friendships, they will only get better and better. This is my personal experience.

There should be, because to some extent, friendship and love are the same, both need to give each other wholeheartedly, so deep feelings are likely to encounter emotional obstacles. There is love, there is friendship, and it cannot be avoided.

I don't think there is such a thing as a seven-year itch in friendship, because husband and wife spend too much time together, after all, sharing the same bed every day will inevitably cause friction in their hearts, but friendship is not.

Friendship will also have a "seven-year itch", and if the friendship is not managed well for a long time, it will become rusty, and friends will gradually drift apart. As I grew up, my experience with my friends became more and more different, and the two people had fewer and fewer topics in common, resulting in friendship also experiencing a "seven-year itch".

I don't think there is a seven-year itch in friendship, generally the longer the time, the heavier the relationship, and you also know that there are very few friends who can have a seven-year relationship in real life.

Presumably, when I see the words "seven-year itch", most of the words that come to mind are words like love, but in fact, many things can't get over the seven-year hurdle, and those who have stuck to it for seven years are precious.

It is said that the chant in the human body will be renewed every seven years, and then a lot of love, family, friendship, and some small things are faintly moving. This time I want to talk about more than seven years of friendship.

Looking back on the past, I don't know how many people I passed by, and I don't know how many people I shared with the ups and downs of life. Friendships that last more than seven years are still more or less still present in everyone's life. Like thousands of children born in the countryside, there are always a few people who go to the river to catch fish, steal melons in the melon fields, and skate and slip in the lake.

It was the most ignorant and naïve years, and it was not shy to gag together in open crotch pants. It's rare to have three or five such friends in life, Wang Yingcha is still always playful after three or seven years together, no matter which is higher or lower, which is frequent and richer, when sitting at a table and talking, there is no social vulgarity that has been dyed in the past ten years.

So I experienced a period of nine years of voluntary teaching without the seven-year friend, and I had a very clear impression that I was contemptible and disgusting during the nine years, no matter where I walked on the campus, I was so out of place, and I was only surrounded by the existence of classmates, and the loneliness was especially prominent at that time.

As the trajectory of the years continued, I found a lot of friends for seven years in high school, or my personality changed, or I was not in that position, so I made a lot of friends, and I made a few iron-hearted friends. I look back at the nine years of loneliness, but I feel that it is not lonely, but too arrogant, too arrogant, too unexpected, fortunately people always change, in the nine years there are also a few fortunate sleepy friends and even to this day.

Also seen today: "What friends do you have for more than seven years?" Suddenly I had a feeling, looking back, I felt that my friend was quite strong, and I felt that the bond in the middle was quite stable.

In fact, it is also the result of heart-to-heart communication, like all emotions, after the routine is less, it seems to be cherished. Here, I only thank you for many years of companionship and chatter, and I also hope that everyone and their friends for many years. You can accompany you all the way to see the ups and downs of the mountains and rivers.

We are about to enter our 15th year, and we have gone through all kinds of difficulties along the way, and now we have become relatives who transcend each other's blood.

This long-term friendship has taught me that people must be tolerant enough to interact with each other, have the same three views, seek common ground while reserving differences, don't dictate other people's lives, and don't ignore the meaning of the other person's life in your life.

Friends are a stage of mutual companionship. It's beautiful to be able to have a friendship forever, but if you can't be with each other forever, it's not a beautiful scenery on the journey of life.

Some friends often flash by, like pedestrians on the road. Therefore, there is no need to worry about whether you have a friendship of more than seven years, because cherishing everyone at the moment is the guarantee that you will not regret this time when you think back on this time in the future.

Looking back at the past, the presence of good friends has witnessed many of our beautiful moments, and also filled in those painful and difficult moments. We have stepped through our youth together, and we will look forward to arguing with each other to step into the future.

Yu Qiuyu once said that true friendship does not depend on anything, does not rely on career, fortune and identity, does not rely on experience, orientation and situation, it is the mutual echo and confirmation between independent personalities, it makes people alone but not lonely, interprets the meaning of their existence with each other, and makes each other live warmer and more comfortable with each other. Perhaps this is the most comfortable state between friends.

What a seven-year-long friendship is like.

More than seven years of friendship, there is a phenomenon of special fun. You may not be in contact from time to time, but once you do, you will have a lot to say.

It's a tacit understanding between each other, when you're upset, he's always there when you need him, and when you don't have any appeals, you don't have to contact at all.

I believe that many people have such friendship around them, although it seems to be quite utilitarian, but this state is a state of complete relaxation and ease, and the feeling of reunion after a long absence will be much stronger than many people, not family is better than family.

As I said before, it is also a kind of sense of security, that is, no matter how you don't connect, you treat each other as real confidants and friends.

Although not everyone will become such a friend, I believe that the emergence of such a friendship must have been precipitated over the years, and it must have been created by some common experiences.

If it is just a meeting in the water, there is a common topic with each other, there is no experience together, and there are no unforgettable memories, so the maintenance of friendship requires more than just contact at any time.

Because many things will deteriorate over time, they can't withstand the pain of three years and the itch of seven years.

It has a lot to do with responsibility and money. Many scumbags have no sense of responsibility, and many scumbags only love money, and when they find that the other party has no money, they will abandon each other very ruthlessly.

Because the love between men and women has an expiration date, as little as three months and more than eighteen months, but usually after a year and a half, burnout will slowly appear.

Three years of pain, seven years of itching, I believe this sentence is often heard in daily life. The pain of three years means that there are not many people who can go through three years together and finally get married. The seven-year itch is that many couples will get tired of getting along for a long time, and there is no freshness, and the final result is to break up.

Love must go through three stages, the love period, the run-in period and the flat period, through these three stages, maybe two people can be together for life. I think every relationship is from love to flat, and the truest appearance of love is often bland. <>

Not all love is always vigorous, a love will have a vigorous stage, and finally it will change from vigorous to dull, I think this is unavoidable. Many people can't withstand the pain of three years and the itch of seven years, maybe because there is no freshness, they feel tired, and they are not interesting together. However, if you always break up because two people have been together for a long time and there is no novelty.

If you want to have a perfect love, you must survive this ordinary life, if you can't survive, you will only fall into the cycle of novelty forever. In this world, there are still many couples who have survived three years of pain and seven years of itching. They will also experience times when they are tired during this period, but they will not break up because of this, and I will choose to live a plain life.

Such a love will have a good result, and the two will not miss it because of it. All in all, the so-called three-year pain and seven-year itch are not so terrible. As long as you truly love each other, I believe that you will be able to get through it, and finally be able to get married and grow old together.

The above is just my personal opinion, what do you think?

Of course, there is more than 7 years of this friendship, more than 7 years of this friendship, so it is really difficult to be able to say clearly, because this kind of friendship, then it is beyond a relationship between friends, but it has almost reached the kind of relationship of brothers, two people's words, so each side of the day, there is no contact in daily life When you have a need, then say to each other, then the other party will go all out to support themselves, It can be said that it is so close to brothers, not so brothers are better than brothers.

The two ribs can be said to be more than 7 years of friendship is very thick of the existence of this feeling, although it is said that two people because of the reasons for work for a variety of reasons, resulting in two people each other, so when they need each other, then the other party is also obliged not to ask what the reason, this is more than 7 years of friendship to get a role, two models guess personal feelings can be said to be very deep, can only be understood can not be spoken.

Very deep can be said to be more than this year's friendship, then it is very deep, so many people can't understand this kind of friendship, because this kind of friendship is difficult to be able to say clearly, clearly, although two people usually have no contact, it can be said that it is similar to strangers, but when they need something, then the other party will stick a knife in their ribs, and when two people meet, then they will not say nothing, There are many, many of these words to have a conversation.

In general, this friendship of more than 7 years is really difficult to understand, basically it is not the kind of feeling that is better than a brother, so you can stick a knife in each other's ribs and give everything for this kind of feeling.

Xiaoyu emotion is called orange emotion, I was fooled by thousands, don't go, it doesn't work at all, a big push for advertising, it's not the same thing to sign up. Why didn't I expect that the teacher certificate I was given was not clear?

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, that spike dust is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as the Xun clan can only be in one with the people who love each other.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the most shiny, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

A good love enriches life.

Tried love is perfect.