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I don't have the right to make you give up, but I think the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, let alone an excuse for a negative life, giving up is a rational choice, a kind of cherishing, a kind of beauty, a deeper love. There is a saying that has not been said: sometimes the fate must be there, and the hit is not always forced.
Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice is lost. In life, we are always making choices, giving up, only by giving up, we can find the opportunity to truly belong to our own life, so that we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, in order to be painful and happy, in order to live happily. When we can't have or give him or her happiness, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly?
Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling. Only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, feel the pain, and have real happiness, which is by no means indulgent and avoidance, let alone forced to make joy and forced to forget. If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if you are destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go of each other and know how to cherish it.
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If you really can't impress him, it's better to let go as soon as possible, and don't make yourself more and more sad.
Be yourself and do what you want to do!
No one can change your decision!
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If he genuinely likes you. I should listen to your advice. But if he doesn't really like you. Then it's useless for you to say anything. It's better to choose to let go.
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As long as you have ever loved
There is no need to regret it
If you still love her, keep it up
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Hello, whether during a relationship or after marriage, it is normal for a girl to be angry, but to grasp a degree, the string will break when it is pulled.
If you like him, don't be angry, the feelings are mutual, being good to you before does not mean that you will always be good to you, once you are pried, you regret it.
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If you think about it from another perspective, at this time, there is a girl who takes the initiative to have an affair with you, will you accept the situation of hurting others again, in fact, if there is a time when a person is really good to us, you should not bear to hurt him.
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Lovers broke up a lot for a little thing. Sometimes we tend to be in the midst of blessings and don't know how to be blessed, and we worry about small things. I got it and I don't know how to cherish it.
And only when he loses it does he know his preciousness. Remember not to worry about small things. Everyone is not an immortal, they are mortals, and they will be at fault if they are mortals.
Learn to tolerate each other and tolerate each other. It doesn't matter who bows to whom and admits mistakes, because that in itself is a manifestation of love.
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When we were young, we didn't understand feelings, and we always did things according to our own moods, likes and dislikes, and it took a long time to realize that if I had been (not) ...... in the first placeThat would (and wouldn't) ......
You can ask this question now, it means that you still care about him, chase him if you like, don't care if you are a girl, who stipulates that only boys can chase girls? Do you have to worry about expressing love to the people you love? If you work hard, even if it is not the result you want in the end, at least you will not regret it.
Strive for half the chance, not fight for no chance at all.
If you are both waiting, watching each other's performance, so as to decide your attitude, then it also means that there is not so much "love" between you, "love" is such a pure word, often abused in daily life, how many people are really love?
After n years, you find that this is just an emotional experience in your life, he is just a passerby in life, and there is no sadness or joy when you think of him again. He has been with you for a while, whether you can go to the end, look at you, look at him, two people can work hard to walk hand in hand.
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When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. If you really want to break up, then just break up. This man used to be good to you, but now he is ambiguous with other women, and he is not good to you, then it means that he has empathized and said goodbye, you don't fantasize about going back, it's better to break up directly, and save yourself sadness and pain in the future.
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Excellent men can always attract other girls to chase after them! If a man is not focused enough, or deliberately angry with you, it may make it warm! In fact, two people get along with each other, relying on trust and sincerity, loyalty!
I won't find a new love because of a quarrel! So this man still observes!
Don't go too far, if he really likes you, he won't leave you so easily.
Life is just a few decades, alas, he can send you an email to explain two reasons, I am a man, from a man's point of view, one is that he just wants to play with you, and second, he cares about you very much, but he has an accident, there may be some physical problems, he is suffering, he doesn't want to say to anyone, if you care about him, go to him.
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