I really want to forget him, but I can t do it, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm just like you, I hurt myself, I wanted to end my pain by ending my life, but unfortunately I was saved, and I also made trouble with my parents, hating them for giving birth to a cowardly me.

    Now, my body and mind are exhausted, my parents' body and mind are even more tired, and I am like a walking corpse every day, sometimes I have no thoughts, no will, and I don't know what I was born for.

    And he is still him, without losing anything.

    There are some things that can't be explained, and they can't be forgotten, life should be like this, and there is no escape, the only thing is to pray in the heart, pray that time will pass quickly, and let your spring come soon, only these, there is no other way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you know that he is not worthy of your love, that's good. He was simply a person with personality problems. If you linger on him like this, you will be hurt even more.

    There is no need for us to deliberately forget a person painfully, the more we deliberately want to forget him, the more we can't forget him. Just let it be, time will make you forget him naturally.

    One day soon, you will forget him, really forget him, and you don't need to make any effort. One day, you come out of the bathroom and listen to your favorite **. You suddenly remember that you once loved someone.

    It turns out that the person you have loved seems to be a very distant thing, and you don't feel it at all. That's forgetting. One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember.

    That's forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't, then what's the point of the years we've lost?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can't forget him, but there are things we have to force ourselves to do. You should force yourself to forget about him now. Only then will you not get hurt more and more!

    Let time help you!

    But the most important thing is that you have the perseverance to persevere.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can see that you have feelings for him, but he ...

    It doesn't seem to love you with all my heart.

    You care about him, but he doesn't care about you and doesn't understand you. He may have liked another woman.

    Since he doesn't give you any promises and is not responsible for you, such a person is not worthy of your love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's only one way, stop contacting him, hold back, do something else, call with friends, and go shopping.

    Learn to be strong, face reality, know how to give up, this kind of man is not worth it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Throw yourself completely into other things, and don't think about the things that make you sad. Don't have any illusions about him, it's yourself who gets hurt in the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The hot is fast and the cold is fast, which means that this person is a flower heart, even if they are together now, they will be in trouble, don't sacrifice their years.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is not a pleasure between two people

    It's a lose-lose situation. , and you guess it's the latter.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Take your attitude out and see what he says about this paragraph, the big pain is better than the small pain.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Such people are not worth missing, time will heal your wounds.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, why are people animals trapped by love?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    To forget about a person.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute feelings.

    Or. Find someone worthy of your love again.

    will forget the previous thia.

    Time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy your favorite clothes, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, and then make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find a person worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You'll be able to forget about each other.

    Using a new relationship to forget the pain of a past love is the best solution. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you.

    For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't deliberately force yourself to forget, and don't deliberately remember. In fact, there is this memory of separation.

    Why do you force yourself to forget?

    How nice it is to hide it in your heart.

    Maybe the other half of you are angry now, why is he so ruthless,,, take your time, enrich yourself in life, don't let yourself have too much free time to reverie, at that time you may find that it is not so difficult.

    And you'll thank you too.

    Past...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Everyone will not forget the first love, but you must face a new life, a new relationship, time will dilute your pain, take the first love as the cornerstone, work hard, and the new love will still belong to you

    Isn't failure the mother of success Yes is fate that belongs to you as long as you work hard, what doesn't belong to you is to think that it doesn't belong to you for a lifetime The road to the future is very long, don't spend your energy on things that have been lost

    If you cherish it, you can also try again to see if it still belongs to you, as long as you try again, you will die

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Instead of choosing to forget, choose not to forget.

    It's hard to fall in love with someone. It's harder to forget a person.

    How can it be so easy to forget?

    If I were you, I wouldn't choose to forget. I'll keep it in mind.

    Everything that has been. Let these times remind me all the time.

    Only in such an environment. I was able to continue without working hard.

    Although it has hurt once. It's going to make you unbearable. But you can think about it another way.

    In fact, those are only a small part of my life.

    It can also be regarded as a wonderful part.

    Because, that proves that once I loved.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A lot of things will be rich over time'

    The best way to forget something is not through the passage of time.

    It's the understanding of the heart

    Then you can really forget

    Let go of the baggage in your heart'

    Let go of the things you are attached to

    Start over' start over

    People say it's hard to forget someone.

    Because I can't forget it.

    If you love her, why forget her.

    Do you have to forget if you are hurt?

    I think about it a lot.

    It's impossible to forget her, so I'm going to hold her down deep with pleasure.

    Pressed to the bottom of my heart. Think about it when you're lonely.

    As a fond memory of herself and her.

    Reminiscing about the past, looking forward to the future.

    I don't think there's any need to forget about the people you like.

    You know. Loving and being loved are equally happy.

    Just depends on what you think.

    If you think.

    Like a person.

    It was painful not to get his words.

    Then you are wrong.

    Everyone can only manage their own feelings.

    You can only decide whether you like him or not.

    And you can't feel whether he likes you or not.

    You don't have to get it.

    As long as you treasure it in your heart.

    You'll definitely find it a good memory in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I hope you can understand that there are some things that you will not forget, only a little dilution, I have had a similar experience with you, in order to forget her I would rather leave the city we live with, but with little success. The so-called touching the scene gives birth to feelings, since people are emotional animals, it is impossible to avoid love. Adjust your mentality, enrich your life, reminisce about your good times, and slowly get out of the trough of your relationship!

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