A man loves you and won t look for you?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A man loves you, and he will not fail to look for you.

    Love is never just verbal, but it is reflected in every detail of real life. A man keeps saying that he loves you, but he doesn't look for you, this kind of love is not worth your possession, and it will not give you happiness.

    If you really love someone, you will want to stay with each other all the time. Whether it's my first love or my current love, I want to be with them all the time. I feel like I can't see her by my side, and I always feel a little bit of trepidation in my heart.

    Every time two people are separated, I look forward to seeing each other soon; Every time two people meet, I want to stare at each other's faces, and I can't get enough of them all the time.

    I think this is what it feels like to really like someone, to be hand in hand with each other, to be by each other's side, even if you don't do anything, just looking at her, your heart is satisfied.

    Love can always show clues in words and deeds, when two people love each other, getting tired of being together has actually become a common thing.

    If a man loves you, he can't stand not looking for you. Judging from the few relationships I have experienced, when a boy falls into a relationship, he actually has no reason at all, and he can't wait to integrate the person he loves into his body.

    If a guy doesn't look for you in life, it means that he definitely doesn't love you, at least not as much as you think. You are just a dispensable existence in his life, you think you are a treasure in his life, but in his eyes you may be just a grass.

    Although we can never describe love clearly in words, true love can never control the desire to find each other. Even if the two of them have broken up, he will stand quietly downstairs at your house and silently look at you for the last time.

    Love can be clearly felt in life, if a person loves you, you will feel that there is a dependence in your heart, and life will feel very sweet. But if there is a lover who never looks for you, your relationship may be fake.

    Take the initiative to find the person you love, this is the truest manifestation of loving someone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think so, a man who loves you will come to you, and he can't leave you all the time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A man who loves you will not fail to look for you, since he has feelings for you, he will definitely care about you, often brush his presence in front of you, and will show his feelings for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If a boy really loves you, he will definitely come to you, after all, love will make people lose their minds, as long as they think of the person they love, the boy wants to see her immediately.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A man who loves you will look for you, but a man who doesn't love you won't look for you. Loving someone must be full of thoughts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think so, if a man really loves you, he thinks all the time that he will go crazy if you don't see you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, a man loves you, he will definitely want to keep you by his side, how can he not look for you, now that communication is so developed, as long as he loves you, he will definitely look for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    One. Feelings need to be proactive.

    Two. Active love doesn't come cheap.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm going to ask him because there's a good chance of success.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will bury this love deep in my heart, and I will never take the initiative to find him, because the other party may not like me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Give up, he didn't say it, that is what he doesn't like, what he doesn't like is not to force him, so that he feels disgusted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When a man contacts you frequently, do you think that he must like you very much and must have you in his heart? Or he wouldn't do this to you.

    In fact, the relationship between men and women is often not as simple as it seems on the surface, maybe you think that he likes you by doing these things, but in fact it is not; Maybe you think he must not like you when he does this, but in fact he is doing it on purpose for your own good.

    Sometimes women are also confused, how can they tell whether they like me or not, and whether they have me in their hearts? However, there is no standard answer, and probably only by looking at his daily performance to judge whether he is true or false.

    And when a man still contacts you "frequently" without you in his heart, it is because of these 4 reasons!

    1. He wants to "play" with you during the window period

    The first possibility is that he is now single, in a window period, and in the face of an empty and lonely life, he also wants to change something, so when a woman appears next to him, even if he does not have you in his heart for the time being, he will contact you frequently.

    At this time, he doesn't necessarily really love you, at most he just likes it a little, and he still has the mentality of "having fun". "Anyway, I'm single now, so I'll go anywhere! Maybe that's his state of mind.

    2. He just ended a relationship and needs someone to solve it.

    He loved someone deeply in his heart, but he couldn't be with her, when this relationship ended, his heart was more empty than ever, and he didn't know what to use to dispel that suppressed emotion, at this time he needed someone to accompany him the most.

    He doesn't mind if this person is his liking, as long as you can accompany him through this darkest time, accompany him crazy, make trouble with him, comfort him and support him, it is enough.

    And when you ask him for an answer, he will often say "I'm sorry" to you, because he has always lived in his heart, and there is no place for you.

    3. He is very "flowery" and doesn't care about one more woman.

    There is a kind of man who is very scum, he is merciful everywhere, the standard "flowery man", in his heart, women are just the object he needs to conquer, one of his prey, he doesn't care about one more woman around him at all.

    In his heart, maybe everyone likes it a little, but in fact, what he loves most is only himself, such a man is very selfish, you can't say that he has no feelings, but his feelings are too cheap, divided into many parts for different women, and you may only get a small part.

    4. Use you as a spare tire in case of emergency.

    There is also a situation where he may use you as a spare tire, he may choose between you and another woman to see which one is more suitable for him, but he is reluctant to let go of one of them, for fear of missing out on it, so he can only use you as a spare tire in case of emergency.

    It is only when another woman explicitly rejects him that he is likely to fully throw himself into your arms, and until then, he will only see you as an object to choose from. The man who will give up on you at any time shows your place in his heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are not disconnected, he is naturally connected.

    A man often contacts a woman, either because he likes each other's sense of existence or because he loves each other's distance, or because of the relationship between the work world, or the interaction in real life, or the tacit understanding between friends or the chat between hearts.

    A man has sued for a kind of companionship, but it is not love, which shows that a woman is used to contact and is unwilling to break contact.

    Regardless of the sense of existence, a woman has the right to refuse or not to refuse, not to hate this constant contact anymore, and to continue to contact him to what she likes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    01.He is in the window period and wants to "have fun" with you, 2He just ended a relationship and needs someone to resolve it, 3He is very "flowery", he doesn't care about one more woman, 4, treat you as a spare tire, in case of emergency, there is a kind of man who is very scummy, he is merciful everywhere, the standard "flowery man".

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A man who obviously doesn't love you, but frequently contacts you, shows that he is a man with no sense of boundaries and wants to enjoy the feeling that you like him all the time; It's also very likely that he is bored and will treat you as an object of amusement.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Although such a man doesn't love you, he frequently contacts you just to pass the time through you, and he uses you as a spare tire when he is bored.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This man may just regard you as a good friend, often think of you when he is bored, or he may regard you as a confidante who is willing to confide in you, or he may just treat you as a spare tire.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shows that this man is also very lonely, and he wants to chat with himself frequently so that he will not feel so lonely, but this does not mean that he loves you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Men who don't love you, but still keep in touch with you, are nothing more than these three "thoughts".

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There are some men who don't take the initiative to contact you, that's on his mind, he wants to know if you have him in your heart, and whether you will contact him first! When she doesn't contact you, she will always quietly observe your messages, staring at the display screen stupidly, if you contact him first, it will reply to your message immediately, because she has been waiting for you for a long time, just waiting for you to be him! He loves you very much, he also wants you to love him deeply, and he wants to love you forever!

    Every man cares about face very much, he doesn't want to lose face, he doesn't want to make himself unable to get down the stairs, and he doesn't want you to feel very embarrassed! But he is worried about you in his heart, but he is afraid that you don't miss him, and he doesn't want to feel bored! So, man, out of face, is unwilling not to contact you, at this time, if ** contacts him, he will be very happy, and will continue to giggle!

    A man who loves you dearly will give you something to consider everywhere, and he doesn't want to embarrass you! Whenever he misses you, he is afraid to contact you, he is afraid that you have been busy, he is afraid that it will affect your normal work, he is afraid that you will mess up your work because of her, he doesn't want you to be sad, and he doesn't want to make himself guilty! He just wants to love you well and let you spend every day happily!

    Most men are born to express themselves, even if they love you, they are not easy to say too much love to themselves, it's not that he can't open his mouth, but he doesn't know how to say it! However, it will prove with practical actions that this person loves you, every time in his spare time, he will spend time by your side, cherish you, it will let you rely on his shoulders, he will also give you the warmest embrace, it will make you feel very secure!

    In reality, there are many ladies who can't understand men, and often complain that men don't accompany them, and often be unreasonable to men! In fact, a man also wants to be by your side, and he also wants to talk to you every once in a while, talk about his heart, and accompany you, but he is very busy, he spends all his time on his career, she is working day and night for you, he wants to make a lot of money, and then marry you home as soon as possible, he wants to make you the happiest woman!

    There is usually a reason why a man loves you but does not take the initiative to contact you, for a man who loves you deeply, you are the most critical, and you are irreplaceable by anyone, it will always love you and will always be by your side!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The first reason is personality, some people just don't like to take the initiative to contact others.

    The second reason may be shyness, some people will feel shy in front of the person they like, and they will be embarrassed to contact them too much.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Born wooden, I don't know how to take the initiative; There is no self-confidence, and he longs for you to give him confidence; He is tricking you and waiting for your initiative.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I want to hang you, I want you to admit my mistakes, and I also pay attention to you very much, and I don't want to disturb you. I don't want to disturb you too much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not sure if you're going to annoy him. So he will pay attention to you silently and not bother you, which may be a way to love someone.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Summary. Dear answer for you: A man who really loves you will not fail to contact you.

    But if he has a busy situation, such as a busy job, he may forget to contact you. These are all quite normal situations. That is, if he does not contact you for a very long time, it means that you are not important to him.

    If a man really loves you, will he not contact you?

    Dear answer for you: A man really loves you, and he will not contact you. But if he has a busy situation, such as a busy job, he may forget to contact you.

    These are all very fortunate situations. That is, if he does not contact you for a very long time, it means that you are not important to him.

    Dear, are you still **? The teacher has always been **, if you have any ideas about the banquet, you can communicate with the teacher at any time, this platform is very strict about the privacy protection of the questioner, except for you and me, it is impossible for anyone else to see the rough draft of your consultation record, so you can say what you have in mind!

    How long have you been with this guy?

    To what extent have the two of them developed?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because the man who really loves you, he is thinking about whether you are busy right now, or dealing with some work matters, but in fact, deep down they are very eager for you to reply to his messages.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's really like this, he will be very careful, and he will also be very concerned about your feelings, so he will not take the initiative to look for you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, I know it, because these men who love you will be very embarrassed if they think that if they often look for you and disturb your life.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Different people look at love in different ways, in most people's concepts, it seems that falling in love is for men to take the initiative, because most women are very shy compared to men, even if they like it in their hearts, they don't like to take the initiative to pursue boys. But not every boy will take the initiative in love, some men have their own principles and scruples in love, so even if they have feelings for you, they will not take the initiative to find you. Generally speaking, there are 3 reasons why a guy likes you but never looks for you.

    A man loves you very much in his heart, but he never asks you out, maybe because she is not clear about your emotions, and she is not sure that maybe you love him the same. No matter how extroverted a person is, he will become cowardly when dealing with the person he loves, because of love, so you become his weakness.

    He didn't dare to take the initiative to find you, because he was afraid that you would be rejected, that you would get tired of it, and that if everyone couldn't really be together, he would lose you because of these things. If you meet such a person, if you also have feelings for him in your heart, you can immediately say to him. In dealing with the people they love, sometimes women put aside their shyness and strive for it, and there is nothing wrong with it.

    When a person takes the initiative in front of love for a long time, he will also become tired. If it is in a relationship and the man has been invested, then this love will not go far. When a man takes ninety-nine steps against you, he must want you to take the last step.

    Women must understand that even if a man loves you again, he can't enjoy it as a matter of course, and often faces the boy he obviously likes with an unattainable attitude.

    In a relationship, if you can't get benefits for a long time, it will definitely make people more and more tired and tired, so no matter how much you love your man, he will want you to take the initiative and make him realize that you love her too. Love requires mutual understanding and understanding, and it should be moderately active.

    Women want to meet a boy who can coax them all the time and be on call at any time, but after all, it is to develop, no one will spoil you from beginning to end, even if the man who loves you again, he will hope that you can become mature and independent. A man loves you very much in his heart, but he never asks you out, maybe not because she doesn't love you deep enough, but because she wants you to have your own independent life and space, and will no longer blindly rely on each other.

    The love that such a person gives you is profound, and it is not limited to words, but prefers to express the love he gives you from his actions. Therefore, women should not always accuse men of never dating you, but should make it clear that such a person may not only give you this love, but also his expectations and freedom for you.

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