My boyfriend is always thinking about his ex girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend shouldn't be able to come out of the shadow of his ex, and you can see that you love him very much, and you're not a girl with a small belly. So what should you do in this situation?

    First of all, be good to him, but love not be humble, and you can't be infinitely good to him because you want him to forget your ex-girlfriend, which will only backfire and make him feel numb, and he doesn't care about your love.

    Secondly, don't rely too much on him, behave independently in front of him, make him feel that you are not incapable of him, and occasionally give him a little sense of crisis, so that he will pay more attention to you than his ex-girlfriend, and the sense of crisis will remind him to cherish the person in front of him.

    Again, occasionally remind him that you know that he is still concerned about his ex-girlfriend, let him know that you are not a fool, but in a calm tone, let him wonder if you care about it, then he will be jealous, and he will be more nervous about you.

    Of course, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be sincere with each other, and if he really can't forget his ex-girlfriend, then you have to learn to give up in order to stop yourself from being hurt.

    Hope you are happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe. Just calm down and don't worry that the person who is not there will deepen the relationship with your boyfriend.

    After all, their relationship has reached the end, there will be no further development, there will be no increase in the relationship, and you will always have the upper hand.

    Now you're going to pick 1Breakup 2Go on.

    Then I'll help you pick 2

    I think as long as you don't argue, you're going to get better of your relationship than your ex.

    So, if you want to stop arguing, you have to calm your mind (of course, if you can't calm down, you can slap him twice) and warn him, "You are mine, you don't need any other woman in your heart", he loves you, and he will bear both slaps from you.

    Hehe, it's going to be very bitter like this, but it's hard to come without going through ups and downs of love, and you can cross it in two clicks.

    And then it's about giving him some time to take his time, and if he really can't stand it, break up

    Don't be in a hurry, I don't think you're just having fun.

    Later, you have already given a lot, and you are not afraid to give more, be kind to him more, forgive him more, love her more, I think if your boyfriend has a conscience, he will feel it (say better, love more, forgive him, never ask you to indulge him).

    When you do a good job, love a little bit, and forgive, you're going to start snubbing him, if you want him to be jealous, just hang out with other boys, at this time, I think he's going to be very nervous about you, if you're not nervous, break up directly (use with caution!) )

    That's kind of how it works, it's hard to do it quietly, but you can find something you like to do and slowly get used to it.

    There's an even better way to do it (and use it sparingly).

    It's just to break up, and now I'm pretending to be you.

    How many am I in your heart? ”

    Then let's break up."

    I love you very much, but I'm only the second in your heart."

    You value a love that doesn't exist more than I do."

    I'll give you some time."

    Think for yourself, I'm selfish! I don't want him to have a second woman in his heart".

    The general tone is just that if he really doesn't care, you can divide it, and there is no need to waste time with such a person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't take first love too seriously.

    Boys don't like girls, and it only takes a second for boys to like you girls.

    If he really has a crush on his ex, you don't have to think about him.

    If you have faith that you can put yourself in His heart the most, you need to help Him.

    If you don't have the ability.

    Separation is your best choice, rather than everyone being tired, it is better to put your heart into a quiet life.

    Maybe you won't know how good you are for him until he loses him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, if you can't get it, it's the best, this sentence is indeed very true! I'm invincible to admit it, but what I'm going to say next is that you're wrong, you know, only you can make your boyfriend think of your ex-girlfriend; And only you want your boyfriend to forget about your ex-girlfriend.

    What do you want? In fact, you already know what answer you want, but you don't know which one to choose, thank you.

    Help yourself, help him, forget about the past!!

    Previous, all, is, floating, cloud. You can't get the current him, she can't forget it for a day or two, and you can't stand it for a year or two. It may be ruthless, forgive me!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Alas! I've actually encountered this situation for you before... In fact, the only way is to wait slowly for time to dilute everything ...

    I believe that time is the best medicine ... Maybe when that day comes, he will suddenly find that you can take the place of that important position in his heart. Slowly, slowly, it will be okay ...

    I'm sure it'll be fine in three months at most、And don't quarrel over this now.。 Because when the time comes, you will regret it for arguing about this ... Finally, I wish you happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you're losing yourself a bit. Like you said "what you can never get is the best" and you're kind of losing yourself now and completely focusing on him, I think he's going to not take you seriously, really. I don't think you need to pay attention to what he used to be.

    You'll be yours. It's two people who are simply in love. A year and a half should have results, if he is sincere to you at that time, it will be fine, otherwise you say to him", ,,

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's already a memory.

    It will pass. All you have to do is love him well.

    Love Him with your heart.

    Time can change everything.

    in his heart. Your position will become more and more important.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell him what is in your heart, loosen yourself unties, tell him that if you still want to be with yourself, you will give you the whole him, break up if you don't love, tell him that you love him very much, but watching him sad for other girls is the most painful thing for you. Let him be more considerate of you.

    Don't be afraid to lose him, I believe you are a good girl, I see my shadow from you, sometimes men are really cheap, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, to be brave and bold to manage their own love, we want perfect love, not your blind accommodation and forbearance.

    He will understand you, and he will do it, tell him how you feel and let him share it with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. Everything depends on fate!! Sometimes it's fate!

    People are destined to be destined by heaven!! I wish you to forget as soon as possible and get out of the sad mind! Happy everyday!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your boyfriend hasn't forgotten about his ex-girlfriend.

    You now have 2 options.

    A: Break up (I don't think you will choose).

    B: Go on with your current life, time is good medicine, don't show too much concern for him, have a feeling of imminent separation, so that he will find out how important you are, and his first love is just a good memory. I believe that he will make a choice between fantasy and reality, and all it takes is time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do they all like the previous one? It's really unproductive!

    Feelings, if you want to give up, give up, don't be reluctant. No big deal.

    If you don't get along, you break up.

    When first love is separated, don't treat first love as a permanent memory.

    First love is just to learn experience, and only after experience can you find a better one.

    You just have to think so, and you're right. Don't be too nostalgic, it's not worth being nostalgic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Every man is like this, including me, I always have to think of the past from time to time, although I have a girlfriend now, but, I believe it's just nostalgia, what has passed is always in the past, and it can't be repeated, even if it is done again, the taste has changed, and it won't be the same as before, so you can rest assured that your boyfriend, love needs to be understood and tolerant

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's normal to think, people have feelings, as long as you believe in him and give him some space, I personally think it's better, the ex is the ex no matter what he says, if he really wants to be with her, he won't look for you. Don't think too much, come on, the above are all personal opinions, I don't know if you have seen any better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you've said that you're always thinking about his ex-girlfriend, and you're forcing people, isn't that hard for a strong man, just pursue the present, just be happy.

    Time will tell, trust me, that's right!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't mind, men are more likely to feel guilty than love for their ex-girlfriends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is nothing else to say.

    Break up with him, he is no longer worthy of your love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He thought that it was not that he still loved her before, but because he missed the old and valued his feelings.

    If he forgets the past when he's with you, don't you think about it too much?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't worry too much about it, give him some time.

    Remember, the point now is: you're his girlfriend.

    Have faith in yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Divided, if you really care about you, you will only love you alone, this kind of person, hypocrisy!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Tell him how you feel and see what he will do, and if he loves you, he will think for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I wouldn't have such a thing: because I'm only 12 Le! Not ...... thoughYou can behave better than his ex-girlfriend, for example: he comes back from playing ball and brings him a glass of water, he is tired and gives him a beating on the back, he is depressed and tells him a joke, he is busy helping him ......

    These are all classic tricks!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What is this kind of man still doing No self-confidence, no sense of responsibility, no understanding of accommodating others, so what about early separation and peace of mind You can still have the mind to pay attention to the better men around you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Cuckold him to get revenge on him.

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