I don t know how to deal with it. 20

What a work you are! Although maybe he's angry too! But you're not only hurting the one you're looking for, you're also hurting your betrothed!

If you want to redeem it, you can only pay a hundred times more sincerity to get reluctant recognition! But if you only have your man's approval! That's pretty much it at home!

Let's win over your boyfriend first, this kind of thing is generally difficult for boys to accept, especially if their parents still know.

There's no turning back, you say you didn't do anything, so who can prove it? No one can prove it, so who believes that nothing has been done? Just because of a quarrel, you are looking for a man outside, just because of this one thing, his parents will not agree to you being together, because two people will inevitably quarrel when they live together, do you go to a man every time?

What will happen to life after that, his parents will think about the child, no matter what you do or not, it is basically impossible for his parents to agree to you being together.

First apologize, you have to apologize, and then you have to be completely separated from another man. Ask them to believe in you, forgive you, and be as sincere as possible

It doesn't matter what the reason for the quarrel, right or wrong, it doesn't matter! First of all, you have to make it clear whether you really love him, one: if so, then you have to think that you really move him, and you have to see if he really loves you, otherwise I advise you to give up.

If you want to recover, you have to pay a lot, and there may be no results, you think about it. Two: If not, it's not worth it because the opportunity is not great.

Bottom line: Regardless of the outcome, don't do it in the future. Because the better the person, the more people who care about you, the less likely they are to accept it! Remember!!!

Admit your mistake to your boyfriend first, and if your boyfriend can forgive you, then it's easy to do.

Obediently, first of all, let your boyfriend forgive you first, believe you, he is the most critical person. Unless he is a blind and filial child, parents can't pass the child's level, believe me! The other thing is to live a good life in the future, and the relationship is not a little betrayal and deception

In the future, you must not do this kind of stupid thing, in the end, it will only be people who go to the empty building, and there is nothing, and in the end you can only be sad. You should admit your mistakes in time, if he loves you, he will forgive you.

Life, like a rushing river, is reluctant day and night, deducing the course of life. Everyone's different life experiences and feelings determine the different content and quality of life. Some people live a mediocre life, like an old running account, and some people live a colorful life, like a gorgeous picture.

In modern society, although people's food and clothing are satisfied, some people feel very stressed and overwhelmed by heavy burdens; Some people repeat the mechanical and monotonous days, and feel that life is boring; However, more people can easily navigate the boat of life and sail to the paradise of happiness. Is this a fateful arrangement? The answer is no.

I believe that the difference in quality of life is more important than the ability and opportunity factor, but the attitude towards life.

First of all, you should build confidence and be a strong person in life. No matter whether it is good or bad, we must face it calmly, not be surprised, and maintain a calm and calm attitude. To believe that the sun is new every day, you need to start from scratch, do everything well, and live each day well.

Second, cherish your time. Wasting time is equivalent to shortening life, and getting by is like chronic suicide. Hold on to the wheel of time and don't let it spin. In this way, the short life can be expanded and extended, and the joy of life can be truly enjoyed.

Also, an optimistic and humorous mood is indispensable, and it is necessary to maintain a childlike heart. A cheerful and broad-minded mind will forget the troubles and sorrows of life, and will be able to strategize and trample all difficulties and frustrations under your feet.

Furthermore, diligence is the driving force of life, and laziness is a stumbling block to success. At each stage of life, people have to set different goals and pursue them. Each goal is achieved, and a point of happiness and satisfaction increases.

We must also be kind and tolerant to life, friends and everything. Cherish every plant and tree in the world, and love all creatures in nature. Throw greed, selfishness, and cowardice out of the clouds.

In addition, be good at accepting and innovating, and be a fashionable person. In the face of the ever-changing world, we must keep our curious eyes open, and the desire to explore and learn cannot be extinguished. Ignorance and backwardness are bound to become cowards in life.

Keep this adage in mind: learning is a lifelong companion, and work is the dawn of progress. Reading is joyful, and working is beautiful. With a full mind, you will create a more fulfilling life, and you will be full of hope and hope for the future.

I think that if you have such an attitude towards life, you will definitely feel in your heart that the world is so beautiful and life is so beautiful.

When you encounter unsatisfactory things in your life, you can't solve it yourself, no one can tell you, your relatives can't understand, you feel abandoned by the world, do you think, what's the point of living in the world at this time, if you replace the torture of living with death, will everyone be freed, and no one will remember you anymore?

In fact, people live in the world, even though there are many things that do not go well, but I don't know if you have noticed that since you can remember, there are countless ties connecting you, making your life full of ups and downs, colorful, no matter which one has more flavor, this is your own life, which is the meaning of life.

Generally speaking, everyone's lifestyle and life pursuit are different, since you don't know what to live for, and you don't have the slightest goal for the future, then you need to find your own motivation to survive, of course, it's easier said than done, then I'll give you a little advice, I hope it resonates with you.

The first thing that should come to mind is your parents, they gave birth to you, whether they have taken care of you or not, giving birth to you is a kind of grace, making you feel the various states of the world, when you are in difficulty, really don't resent them for giving birth to you, because your own life needs to be created and perfected by yourself.

If they have tirelessly taken care of your food, clothing, housing and transportation, and taught you poetry and book etiquette, then it is even more necessary for you to be by their side when they need you, give them warmth, and not make them feel lonely, and you will be full of emotion and regret at that time.

Secondly, I think of your uncles, aunts, cousins, cousins, and cousins around you, who have all supported and helped you, and they have all gathered together for the holidays and laughed and laughed. Maybe there will be unpleasant things in it, but it is undeniable that they have left indelible memories in your life, maybe you think it is dispensable, but it is indeed a part of your memory, and it is also a part of your life.

Again, your usual good friends, teachers, classmates, some of them have accompanied you through the entire college career, if you lose them, you may lose a large part of your life, if you have their company in the future, life will only get better and better, because of them, the ups and downs, the bitter and the salty have been tasted by you.

In fact, as long as there is a goal to pursue in life, whether it is money, power, connections, feelings, dreams or what, it should not become a burden for you to live, they should be your driving force, since they have defeated you, then you have to defeat them back, you are the controller of your own life.

When you don't know how to live? What to do? We should look at the book and do what we have to do.

Believe in us for the future! We can find our own way of life in a different way and attitude, because many lifestyles, we don't follow me, maybe because I have too little work experience, maybe the work is not going well. It's normal to not know how to live your life from time to time.

When a person is working, he has no money, there is no way to go out and play. In the same way, he is because he knows how to live!

In the plateau where you feel there is a mind, for example, the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau. You can try to release your feelings, yourself, in a beautiful singleness, live like this, live like this, beautiful and interesting.

Change the way of thinking, go on vacation with a friend, maybe leave the footprints of life here, no matter in **, the mood is broadened. It's a good thing to be warm and happy, if you're still worried and you don't know how to live, treat your life with a calm heart, live every day, and do everything happily.

In the long river of time, everyone has a different way to live, waiting for the sublimation of the passing years, and the artistic conception is fragrant. Your life will get better and better.

As a person with a fragile heart, it is easy to lose confidence in life by some small things in life, and sometimes you don't even know when the same days will pass, so you become more and more numb and boring.

When we don't know how to continue life, or when we feel that life is particularly boring every day, there are actually many ways to make us enthusiastic again, you can try something new, for example, if you are a student party, don't stay in the dormitory to catch up on dramas and play games because you have no classes or homework, such days are long, not only no fun, but also make your whole person change dramatically, you can learn a musical instrument on the weekend, not only one more craft, And you can also cultivate your own sentiments, the best of both worlds, you must try.

But if you are a 9-to-5 office worker, you can do something that interests you, such as going to a yoga studio after work to relax your body, you can not only exercise your body, but also sweat and detoxify, or learn the art of flower arrangement during the weekend holiday, meet more sisters, and usually meet together to chat and play cards.

In short, the happiness of life is created by yourself, if you lose hope in life, then get back on your own, to find fun, don't sit still day by day, that will not only become more and more lazy and degenerate, the mentality will become more and more negative, what brings others is full of negative energy, after a long time, everyone will stay away.

Therefore, although life is not easy, we should still maintain a positive heart and spend every day in front of us, because only by cherishing the present can we have the future.

It is advisable to think about it first, what exactly do you want? And what were your dreams? At the very least, give yourself the courage to move on.

If you don't know how to live this kind of life, most of you have encountered difficulties in life, and some difficulties that you can't solve at present. What should I do in this case? Below I have also introduced a few aspects to you.

Think about your future goals.

First of all, we need to calm down and think, what are our dreams and goals in the future? Because when we think of our dreams, we realize that we are so far away from our dreams, so we can only get closer and closer to our dreams by constantly working hard.

Break down your dreams.

Can dreams come true all at once? Some can and some can't. Therefore, we must learn to break down our dreams, that is, to implement our dreams in n steps, and when we complete one piece, we encourage ourselves to continue to the next one, so that we will slowly get closer and closer to our dreams, so as to achieve our dreams.

Change yourself. If we have no hope in life, then why not try to change ourselves? For example, in the past, we were always used to getting off work alone and eating alone.

So, why, why not go find some friends to have dinner with? Or even join some of the groups you are interested in to change yourself? At the very least, it will also inspire hope in our lives.

In fact, the most important thing for you to encounter this situation at present is to change yourself, let yourself out of the closed self world, and meet the beauty of this world, you will find how important it is to run hard, because only then can you get closer and closer to your dreams.

Sometimes it is really confused, and I don't know how I should go on with this day after day, saying that I don't know how to live, the most common thing is that the money is not enough to support my life, and there is a bottleneck period in my life and work, because at a stage I suddenly don't know how to go on, at this time, we need to calm down and think about it, and then decide the path we face this reality according to their actual situation. Choose the best solution for you.

Money is indispensable for us, we can't lose it for a moment, it may seem very vulgar, every day the need for money in the mouth, when we complain about this aspect, we will feel that this is indeed reality, no money to do you after simply not survive, so if you can't live because of money, then we should do practical things, is to survive.

Second, and to work hard, only hard work will have a harvest, because of the pay, so there will be income so that you can live a healthy life without hunger.

There is also a bottleneck period that I think we have encountered in our lives, and this period will be encountered in a certain state of our different ages and life and work, when we encounter this situation, I hope we do not doubt our ability, when we are confused, our work and study ability is not efficient, but also do not think about non-positive things, you can go out for a walk, relax, give yourself time to think about how to live and work to do your best. Everything is a choice of our own and hopefully we can all have a good time.