Relationship problems, urgent help! Should I get back together with my girlfriend?

Updated on culture 2024-02-26
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whether you love her or not, whether he loves you or not, you can't maintain the status quo.

    I think she should be completely disappointed in you, what you have to do now is to reinvent yourself, improve your work and life, the important thing is not what you say, but what your actions prove.

    Even if she doesn't return to your arms in the end, I believe that she can see your changes, in fact, the biggest beneficiary is yourself, isn't it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love, originally had to go through wind and rain to reflect its perfection and steadfastness.

    Just 2 sentences: If you are a man who is willing to correct her shortcomings and thinks she is a good woman, then cherish it.

    If she's willing to turn back, then live a good life, after all, you've been through so much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Remember the song "There is a love called letting go" sung by Amu! For her good!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, everyone has a different approach, this depends on whether you can accept it, if you can accept this matter from the heart, then if you disagree in the future, you must not appear some topics about what she has done wrong. Otherwise, you will have a hard time in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should make a list of your past and your worries about her, and then tell her that you recognize your mistakes, will correct them and work hard for the future, hoping to give each other a chance, after all, how many four years?

    If you still love her, do it. If she still loves you, she will know what to do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You know that you have a problem with yourself, so use practical actions to influence her There should be no problem, after all, you said that she still loves you. Be sure to let him see the difference in you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    And well! After all, you love her very much, and her physical problems are also because of your carelessness. You should take your responsibility to her, and as long as you care more about her and give her the love she needs, you can still be the same as before!

    Maybe she can't forget that man, after all, that person is also good to her, it's impossible to forget, people won't be good and have amnesia, she is honest with you, which means that she still believes in you. I hope you will be reconciled and lovers will eventually become married!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Friend, the key is you, do you still love her! She cut off one of her fallopian tubes for you, love and guilt are two different things! You have to distinguish, do you feel that she has you in her heart now?

    Do you still love you? After all, the two of you are not married, and it is not a big problem for both parties to have a problem of principle! The key is whether she can love you and your family as consistently after marriage.

    It's up to you to think about it! You have to remember that love and guilt are two different things! If you both still have feelings, I propose that you continue.

    Love is the giving of both parties. Think about it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It seems that you are a responsible man, and it is really rare to be able to think about the people you once loved. First, you have to figure out if you can accept her anymore. Secondly, you have to find out if people still have you in their hearts.

    These two points are crucial. Don't mess with yourself beforehand. I hope you can solve the problem well, don't hurt her, and don't wronged yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you still have her in your heart, you really want to be good for her. Just talk to her and see how she feels. If you still have feelings for each other, then cherish them. If she doesn't want to, I think forget it, and if you love her, please respect her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's really tricky, but you know it's because of you, then you should make amends, even if she can't forget it, it's because of your mistakes and mistakes, you should tolerate her. If you decide to be together, make sure she doesn't get along with someone else.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Clause.

    1. What can you give her? I ask you?

    If you are reconciled and together, will you be able to provide for her and your children to eat and drink?

    Clause. Second, if you want to be responsible for her because of the fallopian tube that you caused her to remove, then you are wrong.

    Clause. 3. You ask her, does the man she is now know about her past? Does she think he would love her if he knew?

    Clause. 4. Are you a man? If it's a man, you have to go out to work, and a man has to stand up to the sky, understand?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Who can say clearly about the feelings, the key is you, you have to ask yourself if you can accept it, forget that it doesn't matter, wouldn't it be good if you don't meet and don't contact in the future? Haven't you liked someone before?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You've asked a question before, right?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    MS is promising.

    Actually, it is necessary to observe.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I originally wanted to make a move, but because I was a student, I had to retire! It's not that I don't want to help, it's just that my identity is special! There are not many classmates who fall in love and end up together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I hope you come on, your business I have fully experienced! You're just looking for an opportunity to get in touch with her and tell her I can't live without you! I hope we can get through this hurdle (kan) our love test this time and return to my arms!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't be cheesy, especially if it's romantic, don't want those, just be realistic, ordinary is the most moving.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She'll also write all this internet diary of people.

    It shows that she cares about this one thing very much.

    If it's really as cold and expressionless as it seems.

    That just proves she's angry.

    The only thing that can surprise her in this case.

    It's your response.

    She had already written her questions on the top of her diary.

    Just the beginning of the story.

    The process is up to you.

    An online diary is no better than a usual diary.

    It's because I can communicate that I am loved by so many people.

    So if you do it, write a reply of a few thousand words and apologize.

    It's not that you have to do it wrong.

    It's just that your methods may not work for her.

    She promised you a chance, not to let you be the same as usual.

    It's about wanting to see you change.

    A lot of people are obsessed with the consequences.

    Thought there was this last time.

    There will be a next time.

    If you think of this as a real last chance.

    Then you will naturally know what you have to do.

    When you can't change her, have you ever thought about changing yourself to adapt?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First, you can't talk nonsense when you drink too much, and that's what women are most afraid of.

    Second, don't say that you only love one person in your life or something, I can see that you are still young, and when you reach a certain age, you will understand, love, you can't tell the truth.

    Third, try hard, it's really not good, people don't forgive you, forget it, but I think she still called you this morning, it's not a big problem, after all, angry is angry, forgive is forgive, she is so angry, it is impossible to forgive you at once. Apologize seriously and trust her to forgive you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Find an opportunity, communicate with her sincerely, tell her how you felt then and now, and emphasize that you love her very much, and then use actions to prove that you love each other very much, both parties should understand each other, but it is not right to say cruel words to your girlfriend, you should sincerely review and seriously change, time will prove everything, true feelings will move everything, I believe you will get back together in a short time, bless you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Find an opportunity to communicate with her, tell her how you felt at the time, and use a sincere attitude and actions to prove that you love her, if you love each other very much, your girlfriend will understand you, but you broke your girlfriend's heart, it is your fault, you should apologize to him, ask for her forgiveness, seriously review and promise him to make serious changes, I hope you can get back together in a short time, and wish you to be sincere and happy in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't worry, there will be no problem, a rose every day, an apology every day, and good things sooner or later, have a face to endure it!

    We'll talk about it later!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Immediately go buy a flower for her and say to her, 'I'm sorry, I was drunk that day, it's all my fault, I love you.' Then explain what happened that day. If she forgives you, give her a kiss. Come on, man.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I obviously love her very much, so why do you still say such things, if it were me, I wouldn't forgive you!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's okay, it's okay, haha! You can rest assured. Since she will still call you to work, then no problem.

    It's normal to give you a little look, do you still expect people to smile and grin after they are injured?

    Little brother, apologize a few more times, ......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Wine is a poison that wears the intestines, drink less

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Find a chance to talk to her about it, and explain that the day was about the same.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Something must have happened to your girlfriend!

    Girls sometimes love you if they really love you. I don't want to break up with you.

    And she was crying so sadly at that time, there must have been something unavoidable.

    Maybe you should understand the reason, in short, there are no regrets, and there are no regrets.

    Sometimes, when a girl forces herself to make this kind of decision, it can be really sad and sad.

    But there's really no way. Maybe it's because I feel that with you, there is no good outcome. If a girl loves, she will want it for a lifetime, not for a momentary happiness, but for a lifetime. Can you give?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The only way is to forget. Don't say it's difficult, then how do you forget about the unpleasantness with your classmates. Don't always live in memory, believe that you can find a better one. She doesn't want you to be her loss, but it's your honor, because you know that she is not worthy of your love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Something is going to happen to her.

    Or maybe she's reconciled with your friend.

    Listening to your girlfriend's tone, she is very resolute, and she doesn't seem to want to reconcile with you at all and continue to be together.

    I think to what extent you have reached now, you also have a mental number.

    I suggest you let it go, you go to her 3 times 5 times, and she is so unkind to you that you don't even have to be friends, let alone get back together.

    A relationship needs 2 people to run together, and if there is only 1 left, then it is not a complete love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    See if there is anything wrong with him, for fear of affecting you and not with you. Or if you have some secret to let him know that he has broken his soft intestines.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you want to enter a woman's heart, it is not enough to have love and love, you must understand her: you must understand her weakness in her recklessness and give her spiritual support; We must understand the sorrow in her happiness and give her spiritual care; to understand her arrogance and unreasonableness, and accurately respond to the expectations in her eyes; You must understand where her heart is going, and walk with her through thick and thin. She doesn't really ask for much, she just wants to find a lover who understands her completely.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everyone has a different view of love

    Time will tell.

    If she does change her mind; `

    No matter how much you keep it, it's superfluous

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Maybe she has changed her mind, or she doesn't like you, for various reasons, since you are like this, she still refuses, which is enough to prove some problems.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Do you know the address of her home? Send a New Year's gift and a handwritten love letter to her for the New Year. There is also ** and text messages to control the frequency so as not to affect her normal life.

    In addition, you should still be a student, and you should put your studies first, so as not to affect her learning or your own learning.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Loving her should be paid for her, and the effort to get is not the embodiment of love, and what troubles people is desire, not love.

    1. If your life is gloomy, you should retract your broken wings and return it to the blue sky you love;

    2. If you firmly think that you can give her happiness, please work hard, no matter the result, the process of hard work is a kind of self-salvation.

    Happiness is always idealistic, falling in love may be the love of one person, but leaving is the pain of two people.

    Cheer up as soon as possible, for the dream in your heart, for love.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You must not give up, you must impress her with sincerity, continue to fight, continue to send text messages, ask her out to play from time to time, and surprise him from time to time! You can also write a letter to him in a few days, the content can be all kinds of happy and funny things, plus some of your memories, one day he will be moved, and finally I wish you success!!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you really love her, try to redeem it. Choose a peaceful dining room or garden, settle down with each other, have a good talk, give each other one last chance, show each other's hearts, and if she really doesn't love you anymore, then you just let it go.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Need to give up, her heart is dead! Strong melons are not sweet!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you don't mind, you can get back together with your girlfriend. But how is it possible for you to raise, one, you are a big man, go to work every day, and take care of the children when you come. Second, it is inconvenient for you to bring a child to form a family in the future.

    Third, even if you raise this child, you will have your own children in the future, how do you deal with the relationship between the children. Fourth, why doesn't your ex-girlfriend raise it herself, that's her flesh and blood. Fifth, since you don't want to raise it, why did you give birth to this child?

    It's not good, don't mind.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you think about your future life, then just refuse, you can help him appropriately, but help him to raise him, your life will be completely changed, one day, you will have your own child, be sensible.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't go against your conscience. Do what your heart desires.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you love her, raise her children!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Your girlfriend is really asking for herself, you must know how good it is to choose you. It might be a good thing if you get back together, but can you guarantee that your ex-girlfriend won't change her mind again?

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