Ever since I was sensible, I knew that my grandmother only lived with us, and my uncle s family came

Since you have an agreement, you have to follow it, regardless of whether they make money or lose money on your grandmother's funeral. It's the same with the house, half of it is given to your uncle's house, and that's how it is in the countryside. Affectionately, they are dehumanized.

However, the law is not sentimental, only evidence. If your grandmother has not left a written and notadial will, you are not allowed to keep her estate alone. As for whether your grandmother's responsible land has the right to be distributed to them, you can go to the village committee for consultation, and each place has its own village rules and regulations.

However, the land contract law is based on households, your grandmother's household registration is in your family, she died, your household is still there, you have the right to continue the contract, and your uncle's son has no right to inherit. Because the land is not your grandmother's private property, it is a collective nature, and it is only contracted for your grandmother.

Those who fail to fulfill their maintenance obligations and abuse the elderly may not inherit the estate. Just indict, find a few uninterested third parties in the village to testify.

Well, I don't know the law, but I got a little angry after reading it, and I did it like this for the Son of Man, alas!

If the grandmother doesn't leave a special will for you, then even if they don't serve the old man for a day, as the son of the old man, they are entitled to inherit the property, but you can reduce their share of the inheritance by providing strong evidence that they don't support the old man.

If your uncle did not fulfill his obligation to support your grandmother during her lifetime, it is not possible to divide so much land, and it is best to consult a lawyer in detail.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. I think that for this kind of family dispute that often occurs in the countryside, it is best for you to persuade your parents and ask them to find a living family senior, a respected old-timer who is highly respected, and it may be helpful to come out and speak. Otherwise, you can also go to the neighborhood committee to report the situation

It can be resolved by legal means, generally those who make a will act according to the will, and those who do not have a will will distribute the property according to kinship. For those who do not support the elderly and still have to divide the property, the law will not support it, please consult a lawyer for details.

You should consult a lawyer who will give you a more accurate answer, and the consultation is not costly.

Your uncle is also too much, he doesn't treat the old man well, and he also has old times, what to do when he gets old.

Hehe, this can only be solved by everyone working together.

Go to a lawyer and ask me, I think you can win.

Rural people are like this, there are so many. For such people, only hit 110

How can there be such unfilial people!

Does your grandmother have no other children?

It's useless, you're losing.

The old man is getting older.

A fixed way of thinking has been formed.

I once weakly asked my grandmother.

Are we treating you badly.

We don't really care who she prefers.

It's just that sometimes it's compared a lot.

I'm not comfortable doing anything.

But I'm obviously not wrong.

From your narrative, it can be seen that your mother is a good daughter-in-law, and your uncle is also a very good person. He loves your mother, and your mother loves your uncle. Mom avoided it at first, not because she didn't like her uncle, maybe she couldn't adapt at first, or because she had some concerns.

From your mother's later performance, you can also see that they are indeed very affectionate.

I understand your feelings. You wouldn't object to them being together, but it was unacceptable all of a sudden, and it felt particularly twisty, would it?

Think about it, how many families are mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are at odds and brothers who are enemies?

Like your family, grandma is reluctant to let her mother leave, how many uncles and sisters-in-law get along harmoniously? You also don't want your mother to marry into someone else's family and get angry and quarrel; I can't bear to watch my mother suffer from middle-aged widowhood and be lonely until she gets old?

Accept it, kid! Now, there are no outsiders in your family, all of them are in the same class, living in harmony. Such an outcome will be good for everyone in your family. You have to slowly learn to adapt and accept yourself, right? Believe that you will feel happy!

Your mood is understandable. But, you also have to think about your mother, she is still young and can't do without men, as long as your uncle is good to your mother and good to you, then accept them. You are still young, life is not easy, you grow up, you understand.

Study hard now and let your mom worry less. Believe that the result is good, and bless your whole family.

In fact, we as children are really helpless when we encounter such a thing, so helpless that we don't know what to do. Selfishly thinking about their own happiness and wishing that their parents were still that parents, but what can we do when we don't follow others' wishes? Parents are also human beings who want their own happiness, so I often feel that the two of them are fighting.

In fact, you are simpler than me, your father is gone, and it is not something you can imagine that your mother has to survive alone, and who do you tell about loneliness and pain? The crux of the matter is do you like your uncle? If he is really good to your mother and loves you, you might as well try to acquiesce first, and then accept it little by little with your mother's thoughts, of course, the process will be very painful and difficult, I hope you can be happy!

？？？This one... It's a mess!

But you better study hard!! Maybe you'll be able to leave this home when you're older. To be honest, the old people in your family are too vulgar, too traditional, and too messy.

It's true! It's easy to influence you! No matter what things are, you have to keep your own mindset and then calm down and study without any thoughts.

You know? Don't go the wrong way. Remember!

Hey, helpless, God is not equal to everyone, your mother is still young, you can't be widowed for your father for the rest of your life, rather than looking for someone else, maybe your uncle is more suitable It's a little psychologically difficult for you to accept The pressure outside, you can bear it for the time being, don't hurt your mother, she is more stressed than you.

I think that's a good result; It is good for both your mother and your son; Bless them! I hope you're not a story!

Congratulations: you're about to be upgraded to be an older brother.

Listen to grandma, children can only listen to adults, very helpless, but this can only be the case.

This is normal, I hope your family is happy!

Your grandmother agrees with this, but you still don't care.

Well, that's very good, in fact, life still has to go on, I think it's very good.

Hopefully it's not the landlord who is writing the story.

Stand... I sympathize with you.

Think about your mother, and you'll understand when you're older.

Since I was sensible, my grandmother brought me up, my mother has been caring about me since I was a child, and now I have been arguing with my grandmother during the New Year, because of what should I do about my work, my mother divorced my father since I was a child, and I quarreled with my grandmother during the Chinese New Year this year, what should I do, the first two years gave me more than 1,000 yuan, and gave me a lot of money, as if it made people in both villages know, and now from time to time. Since I was a child, my grandmother brought me up, my mother has always cared about me since I was a child, and now I have been arguing with my grandmother during the New Year, because of what should I do about my work, my mother divorced my father since I was a child, and I quarreled with my grandmother during the New Year this year, what should I do, the first two years gave me more than 1,000 yuan, and gave me a lot of money, so that people in both villages know, and now I mention it from time to time.

In fact, I took the initiative to spend the Chinese New Year with my mother this year, because my parents divorced when I was 5 years old, and my parents separated when I was 1 year old. There is a mother but no father. I'm used to the days of my father and my mother, and I'm used to it.

I don't bother to care about the grievances and grievances of their elders.

What does it mean to be indifferent? It's not that you turn a blind eye, but you don't care when you see it.

My mom and grandma don't have a good relationship either, hey. Say it's an enemy, if you meet, you love to greet. In fact, it is a good person when you meet, and a bad person when you don't see it. It is too normal for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be discordant. We juniors, it doesn't matter.

Since you can't change others, change yourself. Happy, happy.

Tell everyone that "love" is willing to spend the New Year with her. And tell everyone"Daddy, I miss you! ”

You can say to your mom, "Mom, I love dad as much as I love you." Mom, I miss my grandmother just like I miss my father. I don't understand your grievances, and I don't need to care about them, but I hope you understand my feelings and my thoughts, and I need you to care about them. ”

No matter what attitude my mother makes, I don't let it go on the occasion of the New Year.

See or not, love is there.

To read or not to read, love is always the same.

Reunion or no reunion, the family affection that blood is thicker than water always flows.

Happy New Year to you.

The so-called New Year is a year of saying goodbye and ushering in a new year. Why do you have to get along with the past? So set off a firecracker and tell yourself, "Firecrackers, firecrackers, being watched by you, it's too short!" Don't look at me as good-looking, it's a long time. ”

The same is true of family affection, no matter how long the beauty of the encounter can be gorgeous and how long the memories can be. As long as there is love, you can't see its splendor, and you can hear his voice "Bang Bang Bang" It is the sound of firecrackers, and it is also the sound of heartbeat. What about the front and back buildings?

Isn't it true that if our mother doesn't let us meet, can we have no family affection? Look at what you have, how many of them are not grabbed by others, and make a list. Cherish it slowly, save it little by little like the bank, and finally pay interest first!

It's been more than 10 years! It's not something that can be solved all at once if you want to! Don't expect to be able to make a decision with one move, it's impossible!

The so-called freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and if you want to completely solve such a relationship, you have to take your time! First of all, you need to know what your mother and your grandmother hate each other and can't tolerate each other, and then judge whether this contradiction can be resolved and eliminated, (for example, if your grandmother has an opinion about your mother from the beginning before she got married......Then such a contradiction is not easy to solve) Only by knowing how the contradiction arises, can you find a way to solve it! Because I don't know the situation in your family at all, all I can help can be to tell you the method, the specific ......Weak!!

Also, I firmly believe that the human heart is a ...... made of meatNo matter how much contradiction there is, it slowly ......As long as you have the heart to do it, the contradiction will be eliminated!!

Here's a good morning, I wish you good health and all your wishes come true!

My dad is gone, my mom is doing this, is it wrong, my mom and my grandma, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have accumulated conflicts for decades, and they never eat together during the Chinese New Year, is this too much, I don't like this kind of family atmosphere. I really don't know how to solve such a problem, right.