There is someone in my heart who doesn t want to bother or forget, what should I do?

I don't know if you also have such a person hidden in your heart, who used to be intimate, often said nothing, felt that there were shortcomings if they didn't contact each other for a day, and they could disturb each other at any time. And now, when I opened the address book, the other party was lying quietly in each other's address book, not deleting it, and from time to time I would open it to see, but no longer contact.

I often pay attention to the dynamics of his circle of friends when I have time, just look at it, never comment and like, I want to know his current situation, speculate about his mood and recent life situation, when I see that he is in a bad mood, a sentence of "Are you okay", always in the dialog box to type and delete, delete and type, but never press the send button.

In the past, it was natural to share the mood with each other, and every day they would understand each other's situation, sometimes there was no match to chat all day, and then they didn't know what to talk about, when you sent him a message, he didn't reply in time, you would feel anxious, that kind of relationship made you feel very down-to-earth, very reassuring. I don't know when it began, but slowly you chatted less and less frequently, until finally you never contacted each other again.

In fact, the relationship between people is sometimes very fragile, even if the relationship was once good; How many sufferings and tears have been suffered together; how many joys and frustrations have been experienced together; Share any little thing with the other person; But after all, they can't resist the precipitation of time, they have less contact with each other, and the relationship is estranged, and they have become silent and unwilling to bother.

Some things and some people are destined to leave us, not that we don't want to, some things the more you want to hold hard, but the result is always unsatisfactory, no matter how hard you try, it won't help, we can only choose to be silent, silently pay attention to each other, but also don't want to bother. In the past, I always felt that people get along with each other, as long as you pay sincerely, you are good to others, and others will definitely be good to you. can slowly find that everyone is different, some people's hearts are destined to be unwarm, and some feelings are destined to be separated from the beginning of the meeting.

In everyone's life, there will always be helpless times, there will always be things that cannot be done, some people you want to see but can't see it, you can't see it, some people you want to love but can't love, and you can't love. In the address book, the list that is so familiar that it can no longer be familiar once said goodnight to each other, but now it looks so strange. each is reluctant to delete; I don't want to bother either; Names that are reluctant to be contacted; are hidden in countless dark nights tossing and turning, but they can't say they care.

There is a saying that "there is a kind of longing called not to disturb, and there is a kind of love called not to contact". It's not that we don't care anymore, it's not that we don't miss it anymore, it's just that some people are destined to be separated and can't be connected again. can only silently hide this person, this name, and this feeling in the corner of my heart.

Because each of us has our own life, it is not a kind of happiness to think about it occasionally, and it is enough for some people to be able to meet them, and forget about it for the rest of their lives.

Then we should bury the other party deep in our hearts, take it out and think about it when we think about it, and put it back when we don't want to, so it's okay.

Then just go with the flow, many times if you are free, you can completely recall this person, there is no need to deliberately forget, you can adjust your mentality.

Go tell him in time. If you have him in your heart, you should tell him, otherwise you will regret it in the future, and you won't have a chance at that time.

Either rot in the stomach or tell him directly; If the man is unmarried, the woman is unmarried, and there are no other problems that are not suitable for being together, then you can tell him, otherwise the fault is a temporary regret, and missing is a lifelong regret.

I feel like you should make your life fuller. Only in this way will you be able to forget this person unconsciously.

If you don't do it indifferently, maybe it's okay.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role6Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day."

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

Find something else to do.

Leave it to time! It's going to fade away! Don't rush.