Why forgive someone who chooses to betray emotionally?

Your relationship is hard-won, and trust that the other person can change their ways. So choose to forgive such people.

People will make mistakes sometimes, and sometimes they will make mistakes because they can't control themselves because of the pressure, so we should still give such people a chance, and I believe that they will cherish the lost and regained feelings even more.

Because everyone can make mistakes emotionally, but there are big and small reasons. If we don't forgive each other, maybe the child will lose an intact family.

That's because the person who was betrayed loved his lover very much, so he was willing to choose to believe in each other once, give each other a chance, and let the two of them start over.

If the other party betrays him emotionally, but it is only because of a momentary impulse that causes such a result, and he makes up for it later, and he is very good to himself, I personally think that he should be forgiven.

Just because you love him deeply, in this relationship, you love very humblely, and there is a child between you, you choose to forgive for the sake of the child, and you want to give the child a complete family.

With likes. It is only when you really like someone that you will forgive people who betray their feelings.

Life is so long, if you miss this one, there will be the next one, not to mention that love is not essential in life. And if you're really the kind of person who likes to play, then why bother looking for a boyfriend, you can still play as much as you want. For your object, your betrayal is indeed a hurt to him, you can only apologize, make up for it, if he wants to cut off everything with you, then it can only be broken, not to mention, whether you can really guarantee that there will be no next time, not necessarily, rather than this matter is a hurdle in the hearts of both parties, it is better to look forward.

Cherish everyone around you, cherish yourself, live well, live seriously.

It is very common to encounter betrayal in life, even if it is a lover or even a lover, it is possible to betray each other for some reason, we must face the existence of this kind of problem, and never feel that once you encounter the betrayal of the other party, it feels like the sky is falling, in fact, it is not.

When faced with a breakup in love, one of the first things many people do is to rush to make amends.

This mood is understandable, after all, a love breakup is more or less a psychological injury to people, and some people will even cause depression, or traumatic stress disorder and other mental illnesses, breaking up is not a trivial matter for people in love, so don't take it lightly.

Instead of being loyal to the other person, because even if it's not him, I don't love him, as long as I agree to be together, then I have to do well, what the role I play should do, it's true to my inner principle.

There is no one worthy of me to sell my pride, and no one is worthy of me to act.

If it is true that our love comes to an end, I will make it clear to the other party directly.

The love of mediocrity is controlled by hormones in the receptors, but anyone who is a little more mature understands that love is to pay attention to each other, grow each other, and strive to do their best while expecting the other party to make the same progress.

The reason why you will betray is because people don't take you very seriously. The reason why you can't get out is because you have poured out your heart and lungs for others, in exchange for unequal treatment from others. Since it's not equal, then don't take her too seriously, it's nothing. Experience teaches.

I think this should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, if the person's betrayal is very serious and has touched his bottom line, then it is not worthy of forgiveness. However, if this person is really important to you, and he can forgive the betrayal, then you can choose to forgive.

Hello When people make mistakes, if you still love him, admit your mistakes sincerely. A man who betrays his feelings can choose to forgive, but he also needs to observe later. FYI, I hope it will be helpful to you

Questions. The problem is that he never thinks it's wrong, he says it's just a normal chat, a normal topic, I said, is it normal to chat with a woman in the middle of the night? It's a brain that thinks it's normal.

So did you sneak a look at his chat history with that woman?

Questions. I've seen it! It's all the ambiguous words he wrote to the woman, anyway, it's very unusual to talk to the woman, his heart is already all on the woman's body, and he feels uncomfortable without contact for three days.

That's not good, then he is in constant contact with each other, and his words are ambiguous, then he is wrong.

Questions. The problem is that he still doesn't feel that he is wrong, he has always thought that he is right, so this is also a pain in my heart, I don't want to be okay, and my heart is uncomfortable when I think about it.

I understand, I understand you, and I feel sorry for you.

There is a lack of communication between you, and the environment in which you communicate.

When the time is ripe and the temper is better, the two sides will communicate, and in order to live, don't talk to her. Let's get back to the family.

Questions. So I still don't understand why he did this to me, I was wholeheartedly devoted to him, but why was he so dissatisfied, we also fought and quarreled, but it only made him throw himself into the woman more, so I was really confused, sometimes he would be good and bad for me, and he blamed me for all the mistakes he made, I was really wronged [poor].

The reason is that the more you quarrel with him, the more he feels that the woman outside is good, and the outside will not quarrel with him. Understand him.

Questions. I can't talk to him about this now, and when I talk about it, he will turn his face with you, shake his face, and his temper is still very big, and he will quarrel with you with confidence.

Therefore, you are devoted to him, but he will not repay the kindness, and he will find you annoying. It's up to him.

He really didn't do it right, because they are all people with families and have no sense of responsibility at all. It makes you so sad.

Questions. So you say that in my case, he betrayed my feelings for him, is it worth forgiving?

And based on what you've described, it's not worth it. Because he never recognized his mistakes, and continued to make mistakes.

For this kind of person who betrays his feelings, he really doesn't deserve to be forgiven, with the first time, then there will be a second time, and if you continue to be with him, you will only be ruthlessly hurt.

Of course, it's not worth forgiving, since you can betray your feelings, it means that there is no one like you in his heart at all, even if you are together, you will not be happy.

Personally, I don't think you should forgive, because the other party doesn't pay too much attention to this relationship, and if you have one, you may have two, so you shouldn't forgive each other.

It's not worth it, because such a person has no sense of responsibility, is very selfish, only cares about his feelings, and will not be happy with such a person.

It's not worth it, the moment the other party betrays the relationship, in fact, the relationship between you is over.

I don't think it's worth being forgiven, everyone should spit on such people.

If there is still love, I will choose to forgive, since it has happened, you can forget him, although it may be said that there may be some shadows in your heart, but if you love enough, all this is not important True forgiveness, it is you who still have feelings for a person, and love, but he hurt you, failed you, he admitted his mistake, apologized, repented, at this time, you don't care, forgive the other party, this is forgiveness.

People who truly understand the meaning of forgiveness and can truly complete forgiveness are always premised on the other party's attitude.

In other words, if the other party does not have an attitude, you will not be able to forgive at all, and you don't need to forgive—why forgive, you can't find any reason to convince yourself to forgive the other person.

However, even if the other party admits his mistake, repents, and sincerely apologizes, you may find that you just can't get over this knot, that is, you can't forgive the other party - it's not your fault, but the homework needs you to complete, you can't do it, and even your heart itself is resisting forgiveness, because all forgiveness comes from willingness.

As the saying goes, "the deeper you love, the more you hurt, the deeper you hate", when a person breaks his heart to the core, then he will hate from love. Because the cracks in the relationship, as long as they appear, are basically difficult, or even unhealable, and every time I think about it, I will feel the pain of tearing my heart, if you want to go back to the past, it is really difficult, maybe it will never be possible, even if there is a change, the scar will remain in the bottom of the heart permanently. So, would you choose to forgive for emotional betrayal?

Normally, very few people choose to forgive, unless they really haven't loved, because maybe if they do, it can mean indulgence, and the situation will be even worse. Of course, if it is the betrayal of the other party's feelings caused by their own reasons, and the other party does have the actual action of complete repentance, some people may choose to forgive. The main thing is to look at the action.

I will not forgive anyone who has betrayed me.

A very touching sentence: Not every sentence of sorry can be exchanged for it. There are two lines in "Big Fish and Begonia" that impress me very much, the first sentence, I will tell you what is the saddest:

You meet someone and make a mistake, and you want to make up for it and want to pay it off, only to find out in the end that you have no power to return to heaven, and the sins you have committed can never be remedied. We will never be able to pay off what we have committed....The second sentence, "I want to forget something, but I can't forget it", "If you can't forget it, don't forget, you don't need to work hard to really forget". It's like a man who has betrayed you, you want to forget him, and at the same time forget the injury, but in the end you find that you can't forget it at all, even if the pain at that time is diluted by time, but this kind of injury is still imprinted in the heart, and it will definitely explode suddenly at a certain moment in the future, and then there will be a heart-rending colic.

There are some mistakes that cannot be remedied, because the damage is real. Hunger.

No matter how much I love, as long as he dares to betray me, I will never forgive, and I will let him go bankrupt and leave the house. I don't know why I'm so resolute, but what I do know is that if a person can betray you once, then he can betray you twice, which is equivalent to saying that if he can betray you once, he will betray you ten thousand times. And even if I forgive him, there will be a gap between us, and the relationship will definitely not go back, in this case, it is better to separate directly, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.

A person will not feel that you are generous because of your tolerance, and a person can only collapse the bridge and return to a long memory if he has paid the price for his mistakes!

In a relationship, I will not forgive someone who has betrayed me.

1. That person betrayed me, and I can't forgive him in my heart, because I will often think about what he has done.

Before Hu Bu collapsed and did not betray him, I would trust him wholeheartedly, and I believe that his feelings for me are also wholehearted. But when I found out that he was hiding something from me, having an affair with someone else, and betraying the family, my heart had completely lost trust in him at that moment.

When I am with him, I will think of him having affairs with others, I will think of his various behaviors, and I will think that he is very disgusting. Seeing him is like eating a fly, and I want to swallow but can't swallow it.

The other party betrayed him, and it was very difficult to forgive him. Even if he repeatedly promised that he would not make the same mistake again and would be single-minded with me, I would never trust him again, and if he was single-minded with me, how could he do those things.

My answer is: I don't choose to forgive, because I've been betrayed too.

1, a year after falling in love with my first love, because of a cold war, he chose to betray this relationship, that time I chose to forgive, but in exchange for not loyalty, but betrayal again and again, later, I chose to let go, return him to the sea of people, let him find the happiness he wants.

2, even if they try their best to forgive each other, but because of betrayal, the relationship between the two deteriorates, and there will always be a little pimple in my heart, and I can't go back to the past.

So, I won't forgive.

3. Forgive someone who betrayed you. The other person will not feel that you are generous and forgiving, and will not cherish you because of your forgiveness. On the contrary, they will think that you cannot live without him, emotionally worthless, humble, and wantonly trample on your dignity.

You live in this worry and doubt all day long, and you don't trust each other.

Even if you're together, you're definitely not going to be happy.

In a relationship, betrayal is a shameful and hurtful thing. Even if betrayal happens, we can't allow ourselves to suffer. If we look at betrayal from a different perspective, it is not necessarily a bad thing for us.

Betrayal allows us to see the true colors of a person and keeps us away from scumbags.

Secondly, the betrayal may be okay now, you can leave decisively, which is much better than the betrayal after marriage, and it will be really difficult to solve when the time comes. In addition, betrayal allows us to start a new life and find someone who truly loves and cherishes us.

In short, I will never forgive in the face of betrayal. Betrayal means that there is really something wrong with the two people. Instead of reluctantly, it's better to find one that really suits you.