An introverted boy. How do you pursue a girl?

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, don't make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Come to think of it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), and goodwill needs to be achieved with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity you want to develop further.

Think about it from the perspective of a girl: If you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure. If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you?

So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you're basically going to be stuffed back right away.

2. Start with a low profile.

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", originally an "ordinary friend", you want to be a "good friend", and if you have taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - how can you refuse you if you don't chase her?!

This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don't be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be open, don't pester people all day long, whoever treats you like this, you will also get tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words - hot and cold, want to catch and indulge" (this is the crystallization of many years of hard work by my classmates).

You pester people all day long and naturally don't think you're good, if you are properly cold for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits you are in.

Also, don't come up with the ambition of "you don't marry", it's too cheap, and sometimes you can play some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you're chasing someone else", and you need to get a chance to get close to girls, and that's when it's up to you to be creative.

You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait for the rabbit into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place, and if you really can't do it, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don't be careful: It's rude to give gifts to others.

Some people chase girls and like to often buy things to give away, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "no merit is not punished", if you give something to someone like this, you are exerting pressure, and people will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back, and if they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play with or something, girls can naturally see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together instead of becoming something to take home.

It's good to be bold.

Introverted boys need to do the following things when chasing girls.

The first thing is that introverts give the impression of being honest and muna. And this is precisely the taboo of chasing girls, do you look at the girls around you who are flamboyant? An honest person's heart is hot, and a person is good, but if you can't express it, how can others know what you want?

Take a blind date as an example, when they first met, the introvert said a few words, and then he didn't know what to say. If you want to chase girls, you have to do what you like, usually go out more, don't stay at home after work, go out to see the outside world, smell the flowers, listen to the birds, blow the breeze, and cheer yourself up! Try to expand your social circle and contact with people more, so that your mood will gradually open up, and the person who hugs you will come.

The second aspect of things, if your own conditions are average, and you like the other person, you need to take the initiative to pursue. I'm an introvert who used to watch the girls I liked stay away from me because I couldn't chase and don't chase. We must understand that if we want to catch her, we must break through ourselves and change ourselves.

It's not easy to listen to what others say.

The third aspect is to make sure that she doesn't hate you, give her gifts every day, find a little girl to send her flowers every day, then write a message card, persist every day, and then say good morning and good night to her every day, after a long time, she will have a little good impression of you, and then step by step, perseverance, and it will be done.

The fourth aspect of things, people's personalities are different, introverted personality is actually sometimes easy to make girls have a good impression, mainly depends on your introverted personality, whether you have a clean and neat appearance! Your demeanor can bring out your connotation! That way, even if you don't speak much, the girl will give you extra points!

People with an introverted personality strive to improve their connotation! After all, rhetoric can only deceive for a while!

The fifth aspect of the thing, all things are habits become natural, you don't dare to talk to girls, that is you rarely chat with them, you are not used to it, if you want to change this habit, you can change it slowly first, just like **, to take your time, slowly persevere, you may not adapt to it at first, that is normal, don't give up.

You can buy some gifts for girls, you can often accompany girls, you can also create some surprises, and you can also create more opportunities.

Then you should be good to this girl, and you should also work hard to pursue each other, and you should go on more dates, watch more movies, and do some romantic things, so that you can be better together.

You can buy some gifts for each other secretly, and you should also care about each other's every move in life, and you can often go out to play with each other.

Introverted boys should be brave enough to take the first step, but also to understand what the girl likes, but also to understand the girl's interests and hobbies, and should communicate more with the girl.

I think introverted boys should boldly break through their limitations and bravely confess to the girls they like.

You can talk to this girl more, you can give gifts to this girl, you can go out on a date with this girl, and then you can understand what this girl's interests and hobbies are, and then you can pursue this girl.

You should directly pursue the girl you like, be sure to expand your circle of friends, choose a good goal, and make a plan.