I m a more introverted guy and I m going to college this year. 5

Oh,In fact, this situation can be changed.,It's only a little late to make up your mind in college.,It's a good opportunity for the landlord to make friends in college.,You can find a lively and cheerful girl to be friends (not to have a girlfriend.,Generally on the line) more contact.,Chat more.,During this period, you can add some dating groups on QQ (the kind that wants to be active and orderly) to communicate more.,So that the ability to express yourself will definitely improve.。

In fact, it is not a bad thing to be annoyed by low-quality actions, do your best, this is your unique character, grasp it well, don't be too biased.

Play with outgoing classmates and try to smile at them first. It may also be that you were protected by your parents when you were a child, and you had less contact, you can go and ask strangers for directions, and I am too outgoing, hehe,

Landlord,I was born to stutter when I was young.,Now I'm very excited when it's still a little.,1,But you must not have a psychological shadow.,If you can't overcome this.,It's useless.,You must say more.,Or when no one reads more.,Contact the outside more.,I'm doing sales now.,No problem with language.。

It's psychological. 2. You say that you have poor expression skills, think twice before you say it, and you must say it after thinking about it, and there should be no obstacles.

3. Reasonable view of society, the reason why people are human lies in communication with the outside world, rather than self-isolation.

As a college graduate and stammering as a child, my advice to you:

First of all, communicate more, the key!

Second, overcome the psyche.

Enjoy the wonderful university, junior.

Start over, make lively friends, and everything will be fine.

Don't keep talking about the past, you can start all over again ...

Sister is also a freshman, and she is also confused. You should make a friend who can play, let him take you with you, and I believe that he will fit in.

Speaking more practice, speaking can be changed, I am, used to be introverted, now cheerful and lively, used to speak sometimes very messy, now speech is very organized, before speaking, can not say what you want to express, now you can, now although sometimes there are wrong words in speech, very funny, but much better than before, speaking is practiced, the more you dare to speak, the more smooth the words will be, talk more and more expressive.

It's like me, I'm also a loner, but I'm a woman, and I haven't changed my behavior since I came out, and I don't want to change myself for anyone. Just let it be.

Participate in more social activities, there are many such opportunities in college, and constantly let yourself overcome yourself. University is a great place to train people, cherish it!

I used to be very introverted, and it was normal for people to like to be quiet and alone.

If you can't find a topic, pay more attention to something, something you're interested in, and when you accumulate a lot over time, you will be able to talk.

Speaking ability, I think that as long as the event is clearly expressed, others can understand it for the purpose, which is used to care too much about these.

Give yourself confidence and enrich yourself more!! When you get to university, you should set your own goals so that you can grow in the future and not waste your time in college.

It's better to be cheerful and sunny, make more cheerful friends, or participate in more group activities, and you will also be influenced by them to become cheerful! There is nothing wrong with poor expression skills, people are not born with poor expression skills, and more communication with others will get better! If you think that some people have low quality and don't want to ignore them, don't care, you can do what you want, why care too much about other people's eyes?

Secondly, you have to go out and walk more and meet more people. Look for opportunities to communicate with people outside. After a long time, it is natural to improve my ability, and at the same time, I am no longer introverted!!

Let's talk about myself first, I have been introverted since I was a child, and I am not good at communicating with people, and then I like to play table tennis, and then I am slowly familiar with the people who play ball, and the communication has become more, so that I am not introverted, I have to have a hobby of my own, and then find a group of like-minded people, then it will slowly get better.

Read more good books and read a lot of books, so that you can talk freely and not be speechless when communicating with people. When interacting with others, you should listen to other people's voices more, try to find topics that interest everyone, look at the reactions of other people's faces, find people with the same hobbies to socialize more, and then expand the scope of communication after finding confidence in communication.

Participate in more cultural and sports and other social activities.

Parents must communicate with their children.

Introversion is not a problem, who is classified as a college student can't be introverted?

Being introverted doesn't mean it's bad. Introverts can also be cheerful, and introverts can also try many things, as long as they want to do what they like. I think you're great right now!

There is a metaphor for personality, where introversion and extroversion are distributed at both ends of the spectrum, and very few people fall in the middle part, both introverted and outward. Even people who fall into the introvert have different degrees of introversion, and they react differently to different things and different environments. I feel like it's a challenge for myself to try more.

It's great to have the courage to challenge yourself.

On the road of growth, the strong man is never alone. For example, if you go to the library, you will find that people who really want to study will come to the library to study by themselves and will not feel lonely.

I'm actually an introvert, but after I recently went to college, I always had an idea in my heart that I wanted to become a little more cheerful and try things that I didn't have enough before, and I encouraged myself to try it.

So why do some introverts force themselves to be like extroverts, why do they think that only extroverts have friends, why do they think that extroverts are better than introverts?

I think introverted college students should make more friends, let themselves have some friends around them, some things to talk to them, but also more interpersonal interactions, when they meet strangers, they must not be afraid, to communicate with them more, so that their introverted personality can become cheerful.

Participate in more group activities, or sports activities with multiple people, so that you can integrate into the group life, dare to express your emotions, express your feelings and be able to show enthusiasm in dealing with others, let others accept yourself, and it is best to go to some places to see tourism or self-driving tours, meet more friends, and see more different worlds, so that we will not become so introverted through communication.

Introversion is not a flaw in your personality, but extroverts may be more comfortable in the face of society, so you should gradually develop your extroverted personality during your college years. I think communication is very important, and being able to participate in more social activities in school clubs and speak more can really change your personality.

Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:

1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.

2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.

3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.

4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.

Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.

Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.

Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.

Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.

Allow yourself to be introverted.

While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.

Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.

If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.

Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.

Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.

Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.

Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.

Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.

Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.

Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.

Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.

2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.

3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.

4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.

5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.

6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.

Communicate and chat with extroverted classmates, participate in various activities organized by the school, improve your language skills, improve your self-confidence, so that you can also meet a lot of new friends, communicate more, and effectively make yourself cheerful!

If your personality is very introverted, then you need to change, usually contact with your classmates more, chat more, go out for a walk with your classmates when you have time, go shopping and eat, and slowly become more social, and you will naturally be extroverted.

The best way is to participate in some university clubs, because there are more people in the clubs, you can meet a lot of new friends, and you can also cultivate a good sense of teamwork, so that people's personalities become cheerful and mature.

Take the initiative to chat with others first, and wait until you find your own friends. But if the process makes you feel very hard, don't do it, focus on studying, socializing in college is important, but studying is the most important thing.

What can be done, the main purpose of our college is to study.

Introversion in personality is actually nothing, many people are introverted when they go to society, and it does not affect.

Some people say that introversion affects socialization, but they are wrong, introversion and low emotional intelligence are two different things.

No matter how ugly you are, you have to fall in love, and when it comes to the world full of love, it's not just a slogan!!

Boys are introverted and do not like to talk, in terms of personality traits, they may be depressed children, they may also be mucous children, and children with different temperament types choose different majors.

If the child is a depressive personality type, it means that they have strong observation skills, and when choosing a major, it is necessary to give full play to the child's strengths and choose a major related to observation. For example, art painting, medicine, designer and other majors.

If the child has a mucous personality trait, it means that they have good concentration, and when choosing a major, it is necessary to choose a major that is suitable for the child according to this characteristic of the child. For example, research majors in biopharmaceuticals, gene technology, artificial intelligence, and other fields.

If a boy is an introvert, try to avoid talking about work.

For example, if you study liberal arts majors, try to avoid marketing, law, Chinese language and literature, languages, education, and diplomacy, which require good communication skills. If you choose, you can choose medicine, finance, economics and other rational analysis, and use your professional knowledge to impress others and customers. For example, investment banking still requires your unique vision, professional analysis ability, and insight into the market.

Not to mention medicine.

Of course, no matter how parents want to help their children, don't make decisions for their children, parents had better be a suggestor, give the choice to the child, only the child makes his own choice, in order to mobilize his subjective enthusiasm for learning, and make more use of the future development.

Personally, I feel that people who don't like to talk tend to be focused, their thoughts are older than ordinary people, and they are better at observing and discovering, and people who generally don't like to talk are actually people who don't like to interact with others, and they have a strong sense of personal protection, self-recognition and self-centeredness.

Therefore, from all angles, people who do not like to talk and socialize, the choice of work is more suitable for engaging in R&D, research, heavy industry, mechanic, Internet and other courses with cutting-edge technology.