How to let adults know about our post 90s

In the eyes of most adults, the post-90s generation will always be a child who does not know how to be blessed and plays with his temperament. As a post-90s generation, of course, what you have to do is to show that you are no longer a child alone, such as completing the things that are generally required of your parents independently, or talking to your parents about your rational views on something, etc. To the first floor, empathy, you will know what your parents think you are worthy of appreciation (I think the word "appreciation" can show that your parents are unexpectedly optimistic about you).

And "empathy" is also worthy of appreciation. In this way, adults will feel inappropriate for you as a child, and you can think of yourself as a person with your own thoughts. Gradually, adults will have a greater understanding of the post-90s generation's desire to grow up and be understood.

Then try to understand the elders!

Parents and children need to communicate to reduce the generation gap.

Every era and every era are the same, in fact, they are all the same. In the past, society often talked about what the post-80s generation was, and now it is talking about what the post-90s generation is like.

There are many things that we can only understand and understand when we experience them.

Therefore, my advice is: discuss more when encountering problems, and communicate more before doing things. Reflect on what you do.

Calm ......There must be estrangement, and if you don't understand it, you won't understand it......Life, a little self-......

Hello? In my eyes, the children of the post-90s generation have strong receptivity, adaptability, personality, and early maturity, and they love to do what they want, and they don't like to communicate with the elders (especially for their parents, I'm talking about the vast majority of children, and there are not, this mainly depends on the parents' attitude towards their children) and then there is that children in this era are under great pressure (whether social or family).

As a parent and teacher in the 70s, I would like to give you some advice for your reference: you should learn to understand others more, learn to empathize with problems, and don't be impulsive in case of problems Nice to meet you! I wish you happiness and happiness!

1.Respect their views and lifestyles: the post-90s generation has strong independent thinking skills, and pays attention to individuality and freedom. They may hold different views and values than you, so you need to respect their ideas and don't judge them based on your experience or biases.

2.Listen to their stories: The post-90s generation grew up in different social backgrounds, and they have different life experiences and stories. Listening to their stories, accents, and experiences will help you understand them better.

3.Look for common basebands: No matter what age you are, there are always topics that everyone is interested in, such as hobbies, movies, and sports. You can find common ground through these topics and establish a good communication relationship with the post-90s generation.

4.Change the way you communicate: The post-90s generation prefers to communicate through social networking**, text messaging, or instant messaging. You can change the way you communicate and communicate with them in a more convenient and effective way.

5.Enrich yourself: The post-90s generation has experienced a more advanced education system and has a wide range of interests. Therefore, if you want to deal with them better, you may need to enrich yourself, improve your knowledge, and broaden your interests.

People's hearts are mutual, if you play with the eyes of the heart, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you. Get along with people, true auspicious wheel heart, with high confidence.

Relationships are a very important aspect, and if handled well, you will benefit a lifetime!

The most important thing to get along with others is to learn to be a person first and do your own thing.

Here are some tips:

1: Don't forget what you promised others, and take the initiative to tell them when you finish it, which will give people the impression of being responsible and careful.

3: Learn more about the person you want to get along with from other channels, so that you can have more topics to talk about with each other, and make people feel that you care about him.

4: Always smile at people, don't bring your bad emotions to others 5: Don't be too lazy, do more if you can.

6: Take the initiative to care for others.

7: Read more books to increase your knowledge.

8: Learn to appreciate others.

People's hearts are mutual, if you play with your heart's eye, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you, get along with others, be sincere, be attentive.

In the interaction between people, who can be infallible? Therefore, it is said that people are tolerant, inclusive, tolerant and tolerant when they get along with others. To achieve mental compatibility, attention should be paid to increasing the frequency of communication and finding common ground.

Today, some young people do have difficulties in "going to appointments on time". Not only do they release pigeons regularly, but they don't feel any guilt afterwards. <>

Are you coming? It is a forbidden word when inviting young foreigners, which will make it appear that the other party is excluded, and they usually use: "We have a party in the evening, the party is amazing, I sincerely invite you to join as my partner!".”

If you invite someone into your world, make sure your heart is clear.

There are many unspoken social rules for the post-90s, such as "don't comment on others wantonly, even if you are very reasonable", "no matter how good a friend of the opposite sex is, after the other party has a lover, keep a distance, don't joke", "don't post a circle of friends before returning to WeChat", "say thank you to anyone in the service industry" and so on.

If it is a large segment, it is inconvenient to tune the voice to a middle segment for recall. And if it's in a noisy place, the voice can't be heard clearly. If it's in a quiet place like a library, the voice will disturb people again.

The worst thing is that there are some sensitive things that are not suitable for language, especially in public.

Once I was in a meeting, and Fat Xiang sent a message. <>

Have you stopped picking up customers lately?I have an aunt here who just got divorced and can't think about it, or I'll introduce it to you, about 300 yuan an hour, do you think it's okay?”

When I saw the strange look of the teacher next to me, I wanted to strangle the fat man Xiang to death. In fact, when he said "picking up customers", he meant psychological counseling. However, this kind of dedication is too high a word to mislead others.

Ending a conversation with memes is indeed a social habit for many people. When helping some otaku analyze emotional problems, I often find that boys can't read this kind of hint, and after the other party sends an emoji, I think it's time to fight the picture.

In daily life, we often use "I have something to do first, let's talk another day" to end the conversation, when the two people leave, or hang up**, the chat can be terminated.

However, WeChat chat does lack a clear form to indicate that the topic can be over, and WeChat itself can delay replies by default. The conversation seems to be open at any time, which is both its advantage and the problem: how to say I don't want to take up the topic or don't want to talk anymore.

When aborts such as "hehe", "you're a good person", "I'll take a shower", and "talk about something another day" have been interpreted as malicious, the new generation of abort signals are replaced by memes.

In chatting with the post-90s, learning to recognize such signals is also a compulsory course for you.

First of all, don't ask questions that you can just know. For example, I'm afraid to ask, "Teacher, when do you sign up for the graduate school entrance examination?" "Teacher, how do I sign up for a ***? "Teacher, how do you send the articles on Zhihu and Jianshu? ”

I don't want these questions for a reason, whether it's a graduate school entrance examination, a new **, or a writing, it takes a lot of time and energy, and I don't want to collect information on this basic question, I'm afraid that no matter how detailed I am, he can only be "Adou who can't be helped". (In fact, Liu Chan is not stupid, here is a colloquialism).

Second, ask questions that are acceptable to the other person.

For example, people often start with a long paragraph about their marriage, family, career, and academic misfortune, and finally say, what should I do, teacher?

You know, I can't help you decide, even if I know which option is better, and that would deprive you of room for self-growth.

And then the question of "what to do" is too general, considering all factors, maybe it will not be able to say it in a few days, I don't have the time, and I don't know where to start.

It is recommended that when asking someone a question, you can give your own options, and then add some pros and cons to each option. This shows a good attitude: I don't want to waste too much of your time, and the decision is made by myself, and your advice is the right reference and supplement.

Treat each other sincerely, do not harm others and yourself.