What do you think about your sister in law getting into a fight?

My sister-in-law is relatively tough, and I don't think it's strange that she fights, but she is not without reason, if anyone scolds her or something, she will definitely go back.

I think it's very irrational for my sister-in-law to fight, it's not a good way to communicate, and we shouldn't use violence to solve problems.

will feel that she is more rude, there are many people who don't do it now, not to mention that she is still a woman. Maybe the cultural quality is not very high, so let your brother persuade more and try not to fight with others, the impact is not good.

In any case, it is not good for a gentleman to use his mouth or not to fight, not to mention that she is still a woman. And the fight to outsiders seems to be just a sign of the sister-in-law's bad tutoring, so let your brother persuade your sister-in-law more.

This still depends on the situation. If it is the other party's fault and the offended sister-in-law, then I will support my sister-in-law and help her, and if it is my sister-in-law who is unreasonable, I will not interfere too much, but more to do ideological work.

If the sister-in-law is wronged and bullied, then she is forced to protect herself. If the sister-in-law is very domineering and she provokes trouble for no reason, it may also be a sign of immaturity when she was a child. Anyway, as long as my brother likes it.

Depending on the situation, after all, things have happened, I can only feel that my temper is so hot, now all gentlemen don't do anything, is it a situation of last resort, anyway, it's not the right thing, it's not the right person, if there is a mistake, it will be corrected, and if there is none, it will be encouraged, or persuade, there are many times when it can't be solved.

First of all, analyze the impact aspect: 1. Harm the child's soul, for young children, when they see their parents fighting with strangers, their first reaction is to be afraid. If you have experienced a fight between a parent and a stranger, your child will worry that he will not know when his parents will be in the same situation, so he is easily afraid, depressed, and anxious.

It is precisely because of anxiety that children are prone to anxiety about their parents, which leads to sleep troubles, difficulty falling asleep, nightmares, and even sleepwalking.

2. Children may imitate, parents are the first teachers of children, and every word and deed of parents will affect the child's personality and psychology and become a role model for children to learn. Children who grow up in this environment are also more impulsive and short-tempered when they grow up, and when they encounter something that doesn't go well or someone who is against him, they will solve the problem by fighting.

And parents fight with strangers in front of their children, leading children to think that only violence can solve problems. Therefore, when a child has a conflict with other children in kindergarten, he will also adopt the method of "countering violence with violence" to treat other children.

From a legal point of view: because this is a civil dispute, especially a fight between relatives, the public security organs mainly carry out mediation, if the mediation fails, all the perpetrators can be punished, there are three ways to deal with it, 1. The two parties negotiate on their own, or through the mediation of relatives and friends to resolve the dispute. 2. The local village committee or, the people's mediation organization, and the judicial office shall organize the parties to mediate.

3. Filing a lawsuit with the court in accordance with the law and resolving the dispute through court litigation.

Undoubtedly, negotiation between the two parties is the best way to deal with it, because in life, conflicts are inevitable. When people are angry, they will hurt when they speak, and they say something nasty because they are angry, even though they don't think like this in their hearts. Even when some quarrels, because of excessive anger, they lose their minds, throw things around, and finally the conflict escalates, contributing to the occurrence of domestic violence.

I feel that I don't think much about solving problems, and it's a very bad way to be rude, and it's not very rational and rational to solve problems, and it's too impulsive.

I think it's very wrong to fight. We should choose a more civilized way to solve the problem.

If my relationship is close to him, I will still tell him to stay calm, don't do anything, fighting will not solve anything.

I don't think my sister-in-law will say anything about you, and she won't care much about this matter, at most let you pay attention next time.

My sister-in-law, for the matter of my fight, he will first ask the reason for the fight, and then make up his mind.

When she found out about my fight, she was disappointed in me, because she always thought that I was studying hard at school, and she was stunned.

My sister-in-law won't agree to me fighting. After all, it's definitely not good to fight, and if there are any contradictions, you can sit down and talk slowly, and there's nothing that can't be discussed.

I don't agree with going to fight, we are all adults, we have something to say, there is no need to fight at every turn, it's not good for each other, adults should still be mature.

My sister-in-law thinks it's a very bad thing for me to fight, because my sister-in-law is a gentle and virtuous person, so she doesn't like to fight and fight, and she doesn't like these things to happen to me.

I think that in any situation, we should be calm, it is not advisable to fight, and we should solve problems in a civilized way.

He will think that I shouldn't fight, I should use theory to solve it, and I should make it clear to others.

My sister-in-law probably won't care too much about me because he's not my sister or brother, and he might be verbose.

Aunt Chen is 63 years old this year and has three children, the eldest son Xiuqiang, the second daughter Xiumei, and the younger daughter Lingxiu. Aunt Chen has been living with Xiuqiang. Although Xiuqiang and his wife usually have occasional conflicts, they were resolved in a day or two.

But two days ago, Aunt Chen and her daughter-in-law had a conflict, which alarmed the whole village and the police station. This was originally a contradiction between Aunt Chen and her daughter-in-law, as well as between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Why can't I get along with her two sisters in the end?

The second daughter, Xiumei, said that things have developed to this point because she has done one thing. It turned out that Xiumei had just returned to her mother's house that day and was going to see her mother. As a result, as soon as she walked to the entrance of the hospital, she heard her mother crying.

She immediately screamed and rushed into the house, only to see her mother's face covered in blood, her arms bruised and purple, and her sister-in-law kept yelling at her. Xiumei didn't say a word, pushed her sister-in-law and told her to get out. Maybe it was because of Xiumei's anger, the sister-in-law turned around and went out.

Xiumei now looks at her mother's injury, in addition to the blood on her face, she has been scratched in dozens of places. Xiumei looked more and more distressed. She cried and hit her brother **.

After a while, Xiuqiang returned. As soon as he entered the room, he saw his mother's face bruised, and he was stunned for a moment. Before he could ask what was going on, Aunt Chen's words made him instantly angry, and Aunt Chen asked him to change his wife quickly.

Xiuqiang immediately retorted: "Why don't you kill one?" This is not a good thing.

Then he turned and went out.

Seeing her brother say such things, she still had this attitude. Xiumei immediately posted her mother's injured ** to the circle of friends, and attached various insults to her brother and sister-in-law. Xiumei here is sending **, and Xiuqiang there is asking her daughter-in-law what caused her to beat her mother.

It turned out that Xiuqiang's two-year-old daughter had a fever for seven days. Just had a fever on the first day. As a result, Aunt Chen gave the child ice cream.

When the daughter-in-law accused Aunt Chen, Aunt Chen explained that it was just a cone for the child to eat, not cold. As a result, the daughter-in-law thought it was her mother-in-law, and she was arguing and denying it, so the two quickly quarreled and then started moving.

Xiuqiang knows what kind of person his daughter-in-law is, and he also knows that it is difficult to get along with her. Therefore, he is persuading his wife to apologize to her mother and resolve this conflict. As a result, early the next morning, Xiuqiang was on his way to work when he met a neighbor and greeted him.

He turned around and went home and called his two older sisters **. What he meant was that he didn't know his two older sisters in the future. He didn't expect them to do something like this that would disgrace him.

He didn't have a sister in the future, and Xiumei and Lingxiu were not allowed to enter his house again. Later, Xiumei and Lingxiu finally passed the mediation of the police station and were able to enter the door to see their mother.

Even if the sister does something wrong, the sister-in-law can't do anything to the parents-in-law, respect the elderly, filial piety to parents, that is the traditional virtue of our Chinese, the contradiction between the sister-in-law and the sister-in-law, one yard to one yard, why hit the parents, how can it be said!

My brother should know how to do it and doesn't need your help.

There must be something wrong. There can be no violence between husband and wife, not to mention that you are just an outsider. Although you can't get used to seeing your sister-in-law quarrel with your mother, they only quarrel and don't do anything, even if you do, you can only persuade them, not start directly.

In your sister-in-law's opinion, you are bullying her. If she really divorced your brother, it would be forgivable. All you have to do is apologize and make amends, instead of questioning whether you are wrong.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a younger brother and sister, try not to infiltrate, you can persuade her, not beat her. Each has you, and your sister-in-law will definitely divorce your brother, doesn't this make your brother embarrassed? Go and apologize, and it seems that there is reconciliation.

It's not your turn to fight, it's your brother or your mother to fight. You did something wrong, and you should take the initiative to apologize to your sister-in-law. It's quality.