What it s like to love someone to the point of humbleness

Loving someone to be humble to the dust is really sad and pitiful, carefully prepared dinner for him, he said that he would not eat if he had no appetite, out of love for him you can't tell him that you spent a long time preparing, hoping that he can love you and take care of your feelings, and finally he silently chose to clean up the meal on the table that is obviously very good, but he feels that there is no appetite. is so humble that even if he knows that he is flirting with other little sisters, he has to lie to him in his heart and lie to himself, saying that he is just working...is so humble that when he is sick, he has to take care of his food, clothing and daily life, but he can't get a word of care from him...is so humble that it is obviously his fault, but he apologizes vigorously...is so humble that he doesn't even feel like it's enough to give him hollow out....The first premise of being so humble that you have forgotten to love someone is to learn to love yourself first.

To think that love is an inexplicable liking to the extreme, and to be humble is to completely lose oneself for this liking. As sung in the song, "What about the king's power and wealth, what about the precepts and rules" can not be cared about, you can give up or not, you just want to get what you love, you can realize the embrace of love. Basically, it can be assumed that when lost in this humble and extreme love, then for the sake of the object of love, the person almost becomes a soulless body.

Because this person's soul and thoughts are all entrusted to love, everything else basically does not exist, there is no dignity and there is no distinction between right and wrong, everything except love, other emotions and desires are numb and frozen, and everything exists around love.

People who love to the point of humility will take the happiness of the other party as happiness and the sadness of the other person as sadness, lose their emotions, and think about each other in everything. As long as it is beneficial to the other party, even if it hurts yourself and others, you will not hesitate to do it. If the other party keeps hurting himself and becomes bruised all over his body, and he is unwilling to leave him, he will still guard him.

Love to humility is mostly unilateral wishful thinking, which, like most fruitless wishful thinking, is very likely to lead to a miserable and helpless outcome. The true perfect love should be one that respects each other, is considerate of each other, and does not hurt the dignity of the other person.

In life, most lovers are like this, love is humble, and it hurts so much that it hurts! Love is who loves a little more than whom, and the one who loves more loses! Because of love, a true heart is thrown out like that, and the other party takes it seriously, and if the other party doesn't go away, then he can only cry into tears.

When I was in junior high school and high school, I liked a boy very much, and at that time I could do anything for him, even if he had a girlfriend and came to talk to me, I was immersed in love, and I couldn't see that he just used me as a spare tire. As long as he came over to tell me that he was not good with his girlfriend, I couldn't help but care about him, and then find a way for him to reconcile with his girlfriend, watching the two of them reconcile, I was happy for him and sorry for myself at the same time, now I think about the humility of love, I don't want face or anything, even if I am rejected, I still have no hesitation.

Counting today, I have been with him for 516 days. Since he came to Jinan and had nothing, I accompanied him to find a house and accompany him to find a job. even used himself to accompany him out of the trough of the previous term.

In the middle of his ex, he contacted him, and I didn't choose to break up because I liked him. I went to his house for the Chinese New Year and didn't see the red envelope. There is nothing for a girl to go to the man's house for the first time.

Won't ask how old you are? What to do, **. I asked him to come to my house for the Chinese New Year this year.

It turned out to be a big argument with me. When we were apart for sixteen days, I didn't call once. I'll call him again.

Later, I gave him another **, and he hated me for two ** and I did the same thing. Now 26 days apart, once**. None of them called me.

I once met a person who was a lively and cheerful person who was genuine. She's so good to her object, so good that she can be a mother to a man! She can take good care of the man, help her buy breakfast or something, once they quarreled, and the man said in front of such a person, she was ashamed!

After saying that, the man walked away, ignoring her at all!

1. Always feel aggrieved.

True love should give each other the feeling of equality, and it will not let either party always feel wronged, nor will it let either party always be on top. In love, two people should be considerate of each other, understand each other, and be on the same level in order to be truly happy.

2. Can't let go of yourself.

In front of their lovers, women are usually more willful. Because most people only lose their temper with people who they feel trusted and safe, within that level of safety, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you, so you mess around, which is actually a sign of dependence.

3. Always afraid of losing each other.

In true love, each other needs each other, two people cherish each other, believe in each other, and never feel that the other party will leave them, because they clearly know in their hearts that they need each other. So I won't suffer from gains and losses, I won't always doubt each other's feelings, because I love each other, so I can always give each other a little more trust.

4. Always compromising and accommodating.

Accommodating love is never an equal relationship, and there will always be one party who will love very tired and humble. True love should be mutually considerate, take care of, and support each other, so that the relationship will last for a long time. 5. Feeling exhausted.

True love will only make people intoxicated, happy, or moved, but not exhausted. Although love is never free, happy and joyful, two people who really love each other will feel happy even with tears.

What does it feel like to be humble and like someone? Qianqian told you.

Too humble, but also the beginning of unhappiness. The reason you are now is because you don't love enough. If you don't love enough, you don't love. Stop trying to prove your feelings.

If you don't love love, there is no need to deliberately forget. Deliberately forgetting about it will only seem more painful. What you can't let go of is not the sadness of the past, not the beauty, but the person you can't let go.

Many people, after losing a relationship that is not loving enough, often use many reasons to redeem or forget.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with forgetting, as long as you are willing to really face the past. If you can't really love someone, you don't want to really forget. In fact, there is nothing wrong with forgetting, as long as you can really face the person in the moment.

You can't let go of people who don't love you, probably because you don't love enough. When he doesn't love you, you miss him, you miss him, you miss him, you want to have him, and you can't bear to let go.

will be afraid of losing each other, will suffer from gains and losses, the humility of love will be difficult to feel loved, and the other party will take your kindness to him for granted, will not cherish it at all, and will look down on you in his heart. Unreciprocated love is that your passion is nothing more than wishful thinking, and it is advisable to let go as soon as possible.

Humble love is not to silently like someone, not to just give without asking for anything in return, but to lose oneself and lose one's dignity for love, isn't a person without dignity and self humble? Humble love is that you have always regarded yourself as high and gave up your last dignity for him, humble love is crying and begging him not to leave when you break up, humble love is for him to keep hurting himself and losing himself, humble love is in your heart you always look up at him.

If I humbly love someone, I feel that she has no freedom in this relationship, no self-esteem, he still has grievances, and he is very painful. Maybe such a person is crazy for love.

There is no lower limit and no bottom line for the other party, and he has lost himself, and he already feels very bad, but he still consciously wants to do something for him.

I think that the humble love of someone is that he will take your kindness for granted, and then he may hurt you unscrupulously, because people are afraid to cherish what they can easily get.

Humble love for a person will make you lose your way, without self, without happiness, it is a fire that slowly consumes and the fire will be extinguished eventually.

Humble love for someone, feel like you are inferior, you always put others first in your heart, and there is no you in their hearts at all.

The feeling of being humble in loving someone, that is, no matter what you do? That person can't grab it, and he looks down on you, and he never does anything for you? And what are you doing for him that you don't appreciate?

A humble person who loves someone may feel afraid of everything, the other person is angry, afraid that he will leave him, and does not want to make excessive demands.

It's very uncomfortable, every day I carefully suffer from gains and losses, accommodate others, hide my emotions, and be unhappy.