What is it like to like someone who is afraid to confess?

If you like someone and don't dare to confess, it's not that you're afraid that you won't be able to be together, but that you don't even have the opportunity to be friends. That's what makes those of us who like it but don't confess it, and suffer from it. There is also because we are full of illusions in his hearts, and what we want but can't get will often leave a deep impression in people's hearts, otherwise there will be any cinnabar moles and bright moonlight, and it is not because we have not gotten it will be full of illusions, and the gap between facts and imagination will always surprise you.

So this is a process that wants to confess but is full of entanglement, and is stuck in a loop of death and is overwhelmed, and even stupidly thinks that it will continue like this. Until one day he has a significant other, he will break this dream, and even make people feel at a loss. But is there anything wrong with this method of playing dead to escape?

No, because this is a personal choice, there will be people who are brave enough to confess, and there are people who are timid and cowardly, so there is no one who looks down on whom.

So let's think about why we are afraid of failure? Is it because you don't have strong self-confidence? Or is it because the gap between the conditions of the two sides is too great?

Or is it because of subconscious self-denial? I think no matter what the cause is, we have to try it, there is a solution to the problem, but if we don't try, it will never work. I know that success may not be so easy, but we always have to fall in love, the world is so big, if this person is not right, we will replace the next person, and we can always find it, it is just a matter of time and patience.

Isn't the failure of confession just a good way to examine yourself? Let yourself correct your shortcomings and become better, and there will be infinite possibilities. Of course, these are just my subjective assumptions, and I need to do it myself, but I only know that if I keep going, I will only fail.

I believe that many people have such a situation in their relationship, that is, they like someone but dare not confess, which can also be called the so-called "secret love". So, why don't you dare to confess? Let me tell you what you think. <>

In the same environment, there will always be some people who are attracted to each other, maybe they don't have outstanding appearance, they don't have very special talents, they are not very good, but there is always something inexplicable in their bodies, attracted by some people. Looking at him from afar, there is an inexplicable sense of satisfaction, I think this is the so-called liking! However, he just watched from afar, fell in love with him, but didn't dare to take the first step forward, why was this happening?

The first case is a manifestation of low self-esteem. You don't dare to take the first step because you don't feel like you're good enough, you don't think you're worthy of him, you think he's exceptionally good, you think he's maybe a better fit for someone better. Then you are thinking wrong.

In the world of feelings, there is no one who is worthy of whom, only suitability. Whether shoes are suitable or not only the feet know, feelings are a matter of two people, and other people have nothing to do with it.

There is also a situation where the reason you are afraid to confess is because you are afraid of rejection. You're afraid that you'll be rejected when you confess to him, and you're afraid that he doesn't like you. If the other party refuses, then you may not even be able to be friends.

In fact, it is not for you to confess abruptly, but in daily life, greet each other, care bit by bit, slowly deepen the impression of each other, so that you have a good expectation of each other, so that to confess, the success of the confession is naturally a matter of course! <>

If you like someone, be sure to say it boldly. Maybe the person you like is also silently watching you and liking you. Many feelings are because they didn't say it in time, so they left regrets in their lives.

If you like it, you have to say it boldly, and I wish everyone who confesses can reap their own happiness!

It may be that you think that you are not good enough, and subconsciously you are not worthy of the person you like, and subconsciously will reveal inferiority, in fact, all of us will have such emotions in front of the person we like.

Because it's more cowardly, and it's possible that after confessing and being rejected by the lion, he won't even be able to do it as a friend.

likes a person, but doesn't dare to confess, in the final analysis, it's because I'm too unconfident, I'm afraid of delaying that person, and I don't like it enough at all.

Either the degree of liking is not deep, or they dare not confess, afraid that the other party will refuse, so that's why it's like this, after all, liking is a matter of two people.

Because these people are relatively inferior and not very confident, he likes to be alone and dare not confess, afraid of losing.

Because I'm afraid that I won't be able to do it even as an ordinary friend after confessing, that's why it's like this. In fact, many times you don't need to be bold enough to confess, you just need to be sincere to impress the other party.

In this case, most of them are because they are embarrassed, they may be waiting for the relationship to be clearer, and then confess, or they don't have a good time, so they don't dare to confess.

I think it's because they're afraid of being rejected by the other party, and they're the kind of people who want to avoid failure, so they don't dare.

Because these people are relatively inferior, they feel that they are not worthy of that person, so they just silently like that person in their hearts.

He must have his own ideas, and now he is timid and introverted, afraid of the east and the west. There were too many difficulties he had set for himself.

First of all, if you like someone, you don't dare to confess, to put it bluntly, you are still afraid of being rejected, you are not sure if the other party likes you, and you are afraid that confession will not be fruitful.

Secondly, there are many reasons why you dare not confess, if you dare not confess because of low self-esteem, then work hard to improve yourself, excellent enough to attract him (her).

He didn't dare to confess, maybe he was timid and introverted, or maybe he had his own considerations and ideas.

In fact, the reason is very simple, fear of rejection, fear of being hurt, fear of even the right to like will be deprived. Unrequited love is both painful and happy for the individual. The painful thing is that this love can only be hidden in one's own heart and cannot be reciprocated, and the happy thing is that there is such a person who can let himself love.

So is it really good if you like someone not to confess? The answer is definitely no. Because any relationship should have an understanding, the deeper you fall, the more you will only make yourself more painful after the failure to confess.

There is a good saying that a long pain is better than a short pain. When facing love, we want to know the other party's state towards ourselves, we should be brave to confess, only when we confess bravely, then we will know what position we occupy in the other party's heart.

If the other party likes you, then you can walk with the other person openly, without being afraid of the east and west all the time, so that your spirit is always in a state of high tension and is not conducive to your own life. If a love is reciprocated, I think everyone will feel happy in their hearts.

But if the other party doesn't like you at all, then the relationship will have to end after all, because then you can die, although it may be a little painful at the beginning, and you will fall into non-pain and can't extricate yourself, and you will feel that the sky is about to fall. But the sky will not fall, after the pain, our hearts will gradually tend to calm down, so that we can better think about our future path, know that the person we like is not our own dish, and we can find the happiness that truly belongs to us.

So the crush is just wishful thinking, the crush will only make you stand up, like someone no matter what the ending is, only by confessing can you know how to go next. Instead of guarding a love that you don't know at all to kill your time, let your mood fall into pain and can't extricate yourself.

Because I am worried about being rejected by the other party, once the other party refuses, then I will be hurt a lot, just because I care too much about the other party.

Because I am afraid that the other party will not like me, I will become very timid, and I don't want to tell the other party what I really think, because I am afraid that the other party will refuse.

That's because I like this person very much, and I'm afraid that if the other party doesn't agree, I may not even be able to be a friend, so I generally don't dare to express it easily.

Like a person, dare not confess, and their own personality is also related, some people have been introverted since childhood, not good at words, afraid of dealing with people, meet the person they like, even if they look at each other, they will look twisted, feel at a loss, do not know how to speak, this is the performance of really liking a person. And for those who are outgoing and lively, they will work hard and be proactive when they meet someone they like. When people meet love, it seems that everyone will become a poet, some people are buried in the bottom of their hearts, and some people are bold to express.

The author still encourages everyone to pluck up the courage to chase if you really meet someone who makes your heart move, and don't let yourself have regrets.

I've been to many places in the world, but the one I want to go to the most is your heart. Some love is just difficult to understand, and there are many opportunities to confess, but you want to stop talking. But the longer a relationship is hidden, the more afraid it will be, for fear that the sky will fall apart if it is touched.

If a short-term crush is considered romantic, then a long-term unrequited love is time-consuming and painful, and the whole world does not know about it, hiding in a dark corner and secretly wiping away tears. You're not ready. This is the first time you like someone, which makes you nervous, even a little panicked, you don't know how to deal with it, and you don't know how to express it.

It's not that I don't like it enough, but sometimes some people feel that the time has not yet come, and they always feel that there is something missing between two people, and they always think about waiting, and when the time comes, some people may be thin-faced, sorry, afraid that others will reject you, and even friends will not be able to do it at that time. There are also people who just want to silently protect him and her, and ask nothing else, only to ask him and her to live happily and better. I always think about what to do if that person doesn't like me, if he is rejected, will he not even be able to be an ordinary friend.

In short, the inner activity is very tangled, and because it is the person you like, you will panic. Now that life is fast-paced, you will be afraid that you will not be able to give her the life she wants and choose to give up, burying this love in the bottom of your heart. Reality and dreams seem to be one step away, but many times they are far away.

The same is true of emotional matters.

When I like someone too much, I don't dare to confess, the main reason is because I care too much about the place, for fear that if something goes wrong, people will leave me and never have the opportunity to be with him again.

I like a person too much, but I don't dare to confess, the specific reason is because I am afraid that after the confession fails, I won't even do it with my friends, and then I won't be able to care about him silently.

Because you like it too much, so you are afraid of losing the other party, afraid of confessing and finding out that the other party does not like you, if you don't confess, then you can also keep convincing yourself that maybe the other party likes you.

Under normal circumstances, when we like someone very much, we will be very inferior in our hearts, so this is why we dare not be brave enough to express our like.

If this phenomenon occurs, it shows that you are afraid in your heart, you don't dare, and you are afraid of losing such a relationship.

Because sometimes when you love too much, you will cherish it very much, so you will cherish the time with each other, and you are afraid that everything will be lost when you confess.

This is indeed the case, when I like a person too much, I don't dare to confess bravely, because I am afraid of being rejected, afraid of losing, and afraid of breaking the current state, because if I am rejected after confession, there is still a possibility that the other party will not even be reasonable, but will not be reasonable, reasonable, and their own.

When I like a person too much, I don't dare to confess The specific reason is because I am afraid of being rejected, but also because I am not confident enough, I am afraid of being rejected I don't even have a chance to be a friend in the future, in fact, it is not right for you to do this You still have to take the initiative to fight for it, at least let the other party know your love for him.

Because you like him so much, you will care a lot, so sometimes he will care a lot about what he thinks of you. And you don't know what he thinks. So sometimes it's easier for you to be afraid to confess.

The specific reason is because you feel that this person will not accept you, or you like this person very much, and it is just your own personal business, so you don't want to disturb the other person, so you are not willing to confess.

The specific reason is that because I like this person too much, I am afraid of losing this person, and I am also afraid that the relationship with this person will become worse after confessing, so I dare not confess in my heart.

Because there will be a feeling of looking up, you will feel that he or she is too perfect, and you will feel ashamed of yourself. In addition, I am also afraid that the hope in my heart will be shattered if the defendant refuses. must not confess, but also let there be a trace of fantasy in the heart.

When you like someone too much, you don't dare to confess, for fear that your confession will be rejected, for fear that you will be embarrassed if you meet each other again, and that it will be easier to lose each other. I think. Two people must be about the same together.