When will people really grow up?

It's hard to say when he will grow up, some people are young, but he is sensible early, and people say that this child has grown up. Some people are 18 years old, and people say that they have not grown up because they do not understand anything; Some people worked, and people said that he didn't grow up, because he spent money indiscriminately; Some people get married, and people say he didn't grow up because he didn't care about the family; Some people have children, and people say that he didn't grow up because he wasn't a good father. Therefore, the older ones may not have grown up, and the younger ones have not necessarily grown up.

I hope you grow up soon.

There is no day when people grow up slowly, and when they are a year older, after some things, we will find how ridiculous we are in the past, and once people live and learn, it is just a process, and there is no end.

When you encounter setbacks, you will suddenly grow up a lot, get in touch with society, understand people's hearts, increase interpersonal relationships, and you will grow up!

After some blows and injuries, I grew up.

Does a person become mature and grow up? Some people may not grow up until they are old, and some people are very young and have experienced things that ordinary people can't experience, so they have become very mature...

For us, growth is not just about the presence or absence of red envelopes and the increase of age, but at a certain moment we suddenly realize: there is no time to be quiet, but someone is carrying the weight for you. You come to realize that you are not living for yourself, but that you are in awe and responsible for overcoming the rough road of life.

The real growth of a person begins by accepting that his family members are getting old.

When I went back to my grandmother's house last holiday, I was full of joy, and when I entered the door, I shouted that my grandmother was back, and unexpectedly, my grandmother looked at me in confusion and asked, "Girl, who are you looking for?" ”

When I heard this, my first reaction was to laugh, and I leaned into her ear and whispered, "It's my granddaughter back!" "What I didn't expect was that my grandmother fell into deep thought, and it took about half a minute before it dawned on me.

Looking at my grandmother's small rickety figure wandering around the kitchen, I thought - my grandmother, I can't hear the shouting less than 100 meters away from me, and I can't even remember what I look like, is it because I haven't come home for too long, or is she really a little older?

I think of my parents, and I am afraid that the day they will become like this, I will not be there enough to shelter them from the wind and rain, just like a seedling is afraid that the big tree on which they rely will fall.

Suddenly, I realized that not only was I watching my grandmother grow old, but my parents were slowly watching their parents grow old. They've felt the same way I did, right? However, no matter how uncomfortable they are, they will not tell me this kind of thoughts in their hearts, but will only pretend to be strong and shoulder the burden of the family.

And when will I grow up to be their pillar and share the pressure for them? Growing up at this moment is to begin to accept the fact that your family is slowly aging, and replace your worries with responsibility.

Growing up is to force yourself to mature, realize the importance of the family and the difficulties of your parents, and take the initiative to shoulder the burden of the family; It is also knowing how to change oneself and slowly becoming a better version of oneself; It is also brave to accept, pay attention to every choice of self-blindness, and be kind to the little dreams in my heart. Growing up at this moment is to begin to realize the gap between yourself and others, no longer run away, start to use self-discipline to close these distances, and truly enjoy the process of every effort; I began to realize the disadvantages brought about by my own shortcomings, wanted to get rid of some bad habits and some shortcomings, looked forward to a better self, began to realize the small advantages brought by some of my advantages, and hoped that it would not be stolen by the years.

I remember a few years ago I have been asking adults like this, when will I grow up, day by day, from a yellow hair to grow into a college student, this is also a blink of an eye, the things of the hour are still vivid, as if it happened yesterday, grow up, not good, now I often say to my mother that I really want to be smaller, the pressure of life is ready to attack me before I can be independent, I can only giggle, it is not good to grow up, but also think that people are strange animals, When I was a child, I hope that I will grow up quickly but I hope that I will never grow up, facing the door of society, I can't help but be afraid, can I cope with such a society, or when I was a child, there is something to hide behind my mother, and now there is something to do, I can only solve it myself, my mother can only stand next to me and put forward opinions, and in the future, I will stand in front of my mother, and I will block it, this is the process of human growth, running from back to front, growing up is really bad, what is good about growing up, I want to grow up in the child who can understand the hardships of growing up, fall to get up by yourself, tears to swallow in the stomach, can not show their weakness to others, because it is an adult, to be a role model, injured, can not cry pain, or keep moving forward, even if the feet are worn out, the society does not allow us to stay too much, once we stay, it is backward to be abandoned, it is really bad to grow up, for the sake of life, everything is carried by yourself, tired can not say, can not fall, because there is still a person behind to protect, When I fall, it's the end of a person, and it's not good to grow up, but I still have to keep going. Because I want my future.

If you want to really grow up, you must be able not to rely on and rely on others, be able to correctly judge right and wrong, learn to care for and understand others, have a sense of responsibility, and be brave in the face of difficulties and setbacks.

1. Growing up with others refers to physical growth and psychological growth. Physiological growth means: the body will grow taller, the boy's voice will become thicker, the Adam's apple will grow, and dreams at night will lose sperm; Girls will menstruate, their voices will become thinner, and their breasts will become larger.

Psychological growth means that you will think twice before doing anything, and you will think calmly when encountering things.

When you know what life is, how to enjoy life, how to be filial to your parents, how to make money to support your family, and how to love your relatives. Then you know what it means to grow up

When you know how to calmly analyze and empathize, you will grow up.

Friends learn to be grateful, be a person, and do things, you are an adult. Adults regardless of age.

When you encounter things, you will no longer be as impulsive as before, but sit back and think calmly.