The past of her boyfriend and ex girlfriend becomes an eternal pain in my heart

You love him too much, but you care too much about the past. Think, these days that he is with you, does he really love you? Throw yourself in, right?

If he really loves you, why care too much about the past? The better he used to be to her girlfriend, the more he is a person worthy of your life, he was so good to her at that time, she didn't know how to cherish it, it was a gift from God, let him take care of you, you should feel happy, he will be better to you than to his previous object, this does not need to be said by him, he will do that! gave you this opportunity to keep him, why don't you enjoy it and cherish it?

Because he told you about his past, you mind like that? Who has not passed? Even if you are divided, if you find someone else in the future, then the other person will not pass?

Have you ever had the past? Maybe others say that there is no past, and you don't know that he has passed, so is he really not in the past? You say, it's better to know the past or not to know?

If he really loves you, you should accept his past, and then jokingly say your mind, and make him promise that he will be better for you, so that it will be very happy? Why make a mess of yourself......

No matter what happened between them before, no matter what it was, it was in the past, and you didn't start out like in the beginning of his life, between him and before he met you, didn't you allow him to fall in love?

Also, if you have to think like this, I think you will have a hard time winning or losing, because you are comparing a past event that has become a fact in his life and in your life, you live in the present, he lives in the present, and you have to compare your stable present with his ex-girlfriend's past, I don't think it's realistic at all, you can't tell the winner in this way, and it's likely that some of your actions will affect your relationship now.

Maybe all you need is his affirmation of you, and you can tell him tactfully, but you don't have to go against the past anymore, you can't tell the difference between victory and defeat.

You and him will come and go, his next life will belong to you, you can completely let him do without you, it depends on how you do, you can't be the master of his past, you have to be clear about this, you can be the master of your future!

You're in the same situation as I used to be with my girlfriend! It's not that I'm as dependent on her as you are, because I'm a man! I'm talking the same thing, she told me about her boyfriend together!

Sweat! It's better not to tell me! She was like she confessed to me!

Die to me and tell me anything! Just because these things should be secret, like my confession, it has become my heart disease! I became stingy, and I gradually became estranged from her!

Later it was divided! No way! Both women and men have a past and should have their own secrets!

What I'm going to say is: while your boyfriend went down the path of my ex-girlfriend! Makes your heart ache a little!

But everyone has a past! Mind lightened! Let the two of them not be so tired.

I wish you all happiness.

That's in the past, and as long as you don't mention it, she'll walk out of your life.

If you put her among you again and again, she will become your eternal annoyance.

It's entirely up to you, be sensible, that's in the past, you can't change it.

After reading what you wrote, I think these are familiar pictures for many girls. In fact, many people have encountered this kind of problem, and the key depends on how you look at it. I know you are haunted by his past because you love him, but the more you do this, the more uncertain the future between you becomes.

You have to adjust your mentality, tell yourself that these are his past, everyone has a past, as long as he loves you now and treats you well. Let him pass in the past, after all, it is you and not her who are in his arms now. Why do you bother to eat that vinegar, you are sad in the end.

It seems that you are a very serious person about love, sometimes this is a good thing, but sometimes you are stabbed by this seriousness, I don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is, but I want to tell you that if you love, you will tolerate his good and bad, and if he also loves you as you love him, then he will also be touched by this tolerance.

Two people can be together for a long time, not all smooth sailing, more ups and downs, more compromises, more firmness, more touching, and this kind of sincerity of sacrificing for each other is the bond that maintains the relationship.

He said that these are exactly what he wants you to love him more, so that you can be more and more inseparable from him, and he will have a sense of satisfaction! So you need to be open-minded and believe in Him! I wish you all happiness.

People have to dare to look forward. Blindly reminiscent of the past. You will only let yourself live in pain.

Think about the present, think about the future. So what's the point of the past?

If you love him, you shouldn't pay too much attention to his past, you love his present, not his past, it's gone, you should relax, he loves you now.

His past is gone, why are you still holding on to his past, you have to hold on to the present and the future, he's right, it's just that you're too late.

I've had a similar experience to you, and I've almost gotten depressed for three months, but it's happened, and we can't be sad, and the only thing we can do is to be miserable or make him love you more.

Maybe you added pain to yourself, let the past pass. What matters is what you have now.

The past has passed, don't take it to heart!

Girls, many times, the only ones who can save us are us.

Oh. Then you don't want to follow him.

You follow me. I can bring you happiness.

People who love each other if they don't trust each other.

Then love won't last long!

Treat the past. Is there anything you can do?

Your boyfriend too... What are you doing with so much -- it's terrible.

Isn't it good to let go? Hey.