Why is the relationship of long distance love so fragile?

The reason is very simple, although love is beautiful, it is simple. But after all, it is immature. Life is a long process, and as you get older, your understanding increases, and the realities that are about to come will become factors for you to consider love.

Now you may feel that you will not be like everyone else, and you will definitely cherish it. That's because there's a lot more that you haven't encountered yet.

Of course, cherishing what you have in front of you is the best way. So let time tell! Connecting more and enjoying love is the best way.

I often don't see him, and I don't be around when I need it.

My first love was a long-distance relationship, and it has been a long-distance relationship since the beginning, but I will soon end the long-distance relationship and enter a new stage.

In a long-distance relationship, there are actually a lot of sad things.

When chatting with the other party, there is no way to accurately perceive the real emotions of the other party, and there is no way to vividly express the emotions and moods of the other party.

Don't dare to lose your temper casually, and the other party will delete yourself when you are angry.

The little tantrum was angry, and the other party didn't notice it at all, but he was sulking. I'm mad at myself.

When I am sick and sad, I often wonder why the other person can't be by my side to take care of and accompany me. I just want the simplest companionship and care, why is it so difficult?

Sometimes I often worry about whether she has met a better and better boy on the other side.

It's really happy to get together for a short time, but it's all the sadness of the century when you part. Every time Brother Lun leaves, he will leave tears of heartache.

Experiencing a long-distance relationship firsthand, a long-distance relationship is really hard, but there is no lack of joy. The most important and fundamental thing is that two people should face it together and solve problems together.

Long-distance relationships are unstable because two people are not together and their feelings cannot be controlled.

In a long-distance relationship, people are not too optimistic, and they feel that in two different places, if the foundation of two people in the early stage is not solid, it is easy to have problems. I have less time together, and it's a different place, I didn't hear that there is still work to do, after work, sometimes I'm very tired, I don't want to do anything, and I have to contact the hall between different places, although it is happy to communicate with my lover, sometimes I want to be quiet, I don't want to talk, I don't want to move.

But in a different place, the other party is not aware that he has some troubles or unhappiness and sometimes does not want to pass on to the other party, but this just leaves a hidden danger, the other party does not know, to chat, the tone is not good, said a few words, which is not good, suddenly the mood is not good, maybe the tone of speech has changed, burying the estrangement.

Regardless of men and women, they all have their own work is not smooth, and all kinds of problems come one after another, you want to be quiet, the other party also wants to be quiet, time is always not drawn together, and the time for daily communication is getting less and less, and you want to find someone to talk to, and you can only complain to each other from a distance, not face-to-face, and you can't feel the help and warmth brought by your face-to-face lover.

Over time, there are many estrangements and contradictions, and if there are other people at the place of work who can talk to you, you will start to doubt yourself, what is the purpose of doing this? What do you get from a long-distance relationship?

The final ending is a breakup, and the sadness experienced by a long-distance relationship can only be known if you have experienced it yourself.

The long-distance relationship is not fragile, as long as both parties love each other in their hearts, it is enough, firm love requires the trust and recognition of both parties, every detail must be appreciated, and it is also necessary to understand it with an early dust heart, understand more and tolerate more, both parties must have enough faith in Lu Zao Zen to let each other be, such a long-distance relationship will last for a long time! Finally, I hope you can be lucky to go on with your lover for a long time and happiness.

With the development of society, the connection between people has become more and more convenient, but the feelings between people have become weaker and weaker. It is precisely because of the current development of science and technology that in ancient times, once two people were separated, it was very likely that they would be separated from each other.

But now, even if the two are separated, it will only take one day, and the two are likely to get together again.

There is a kind of relationship that people particularly hate, but if this kind of love can really stick to it, then it will be a lifetime, and this kind of relationship is a long-distance relationship. People who have never experienced a long-distance relationship will never understand the sadness of a long-distance relationship.

There are many people who always feel that two people in a long-distance relationship are just simply not able to see each other, and it is so painful to say? In fact, just not seeing it is enough to make people feel heartache. And long-distance relationships are often fragile, and they will even easily say that they will break up during these periods, which is understood by those who have experienced it.

I've been in a long-distance relationship for a year, so I feel it deeply, and a lot of things are happening that you can't imagine, but can't avoid.

The first is that two people don't trust each other.

This is the reason why many long-distance relationships break up, because two people are in different cities, and there is less communication, and they have less information about each other, and over time, the two will be suspicious of each other and distrust each other. will wonder if the other party has deceived themselves, whether they have betrayed themselves, and after a long time, the two will quarrel because of this, and because the two are far away, it will be easy to intensify the conflict, leading to a final breakup!

I really want the other person to live in their own city.

Therefore, the long-distance relationship that broke up is the most regrettable, and the two went to the last step, but stopped talking about marriage. Since most of them are only children now, both of them want to let many parties go to their own city to live, and neither of them wants to leave their own city and their parents, neither of them is willing to give in to the end can only end this love with a sentence that we are not suitable!

I don't get the other party's care at all.

Couples not only need affection but also care and care, for example: on a rainy day, other people's boyfriends will take an umbrella to pick up their girlfriends home, and long-distance boyfriends can at most ask if they bring an umbrella, don't get drenched in the rain, and they still have to go home with no practical effect. For example, if you are working overtime in the company, the girlfriends of other colleagues will come to bring food to your boyfriend, but your girlfriend can only call ** to ask if you have eaten, you should be hungry or hungry.

There are countless small events in life like this, and these things slowly accumulate between the two, and they will explode after a long time, why should they fall in love without care and care, which will lead to the breakup of the two!

Lonely. Lonesome.

Humans are social animals, and what we fear most is being alone and having no one to accompany us! Love is to make two people no longer lonely and be able to accompany each other for a long time, but long-distance relationships are just the opposite, long-distance relationships accompany us not people, but the cold mobile phone and the cold font. You must know that nothing can replace people, no matter how many gifts, no amount of sweet words can replace the loneliness of the other party's absence, people live in this loneliness for a while, but after a long time, emotions will appear, and this emotion is a breakup!

You think every day that no one is with you to play. There is ** porridge. The heart is very lost.

Seeing other couples eating together and walking arm in arm. That kind of warmth, a long-distance relationship can't be reached.

The foundation of every emotion is even more important for couples in long-distance relationships. Long-distance couples will spend a lot less time together than the average couple, and their direct time together is often made up of virtual networks or a thick stack of tickets. Not every relationship can achieve the state of "I don't need to say, you will understand me", if you want to reach a level, you need to understand and get along for a long time, and communication is the best nutrient to nourish this state.

Communication can let each other better know each other's thoughts, so that they will not easily make irreversible decisions. When quarreling and contradictory, communication is also 100 times stronger than the "cold violence" way of dealing with it.

Trust. Trust is the bond between two people, and trust in each other can resist the distance gap. Trust is a strong bond that binds the relationship between two people.

Because of trust, it is cherished even more, after all, the cultivation of trust is especially difficult. Trust is also fragile, it is said that trust is a piece of paper, once there are wrinkles, it will always leave traces. If you are habitually suspicious of each other, then the relationship will not last long.

Accompany. There is a saying that "companionship is the most affectionate confession." "The companionship of a long-distance relationship is very special, it is a kind of companionship that spans time and space, you can't see and touch each other every day, only each other's hearts can be together.

When you are alone, your heart is lonely. If you can't feel the warmth of another person, the distance between your hearts will slowly become farther away. When you are alone, your heart will know that there is a Weihe person who cares about you from afar, and you will bring the two hearts closer together.

There are a lot of this situation, as someone who has come to give a few gear sail point suggestions:

The first piece of advice: mutual trust between lovers.

In fact, whether it is a long-distance relationship or not, the most important thing to maintain a good relationship between lovers is mutual trust. For lovers in a long distance, mutual trust is more important. Of course, trust is not something we pay lip service to, but it is accumulated over time, for example, if we deposit money into a bank account, only by depositing money into it from time to time, the account balance will continue to grow, and we can withdraw it if we encounter problems.

Compared with couples who live together every day, a long-distance relationship will be fragile to an ambiguous **, a party message, will be you lie and say that she found out that she was not on a business trip, and you can instantly overdraft all the "balance" that you have worked hard to accumulate before. Therefore, in a long-distance relationship, mutual trust requires that we both do nothing without hiding from each other: someone chases, someone plays ambiguous with you, you have to report to the other party immediately, maybe the other party will feel uncomfortable and uneasy at that time, but after time, he and she will feel the trust between you.

Of course, from my personal values, if you are not ready to replace our boyfriend and girlfriend, then please don't try to play ambiguous, and treat the rotten peach blossom must be solved quickly, because dragging it will only waste your suitor's time, and it will also hurt the person you love the most and the most precious trust between you.

The second piece of advice: don't easily convey negative emotions to the other person.

Compared with the coquettishness and petty temper between local lovers, long-distance relationships really don't do too much. When you encounter difficulties or troubles, you will complain and feel depressed. If the two live together, they can directly help you solve it or give you a hug, but for long-distance relationships, you can generally only face it yourself.

Originally, there was a long distance between the two, and the work, life, and study environments were also very different, and occasionally a ** was full of venting negative emotions and complaining, maybe you just wanted to vent and listen to each other's comfort. However, you may not know that he is far away from the world, not only has to face a poor life, but also constantly reassures you. Over time, he will also get tired and will plan.

In fact, as adults, controlling emotions is the most basic maturity, and what we need is a partner on the road of life growth, not a drag bottle that only complains.