Why are women s friendships so fragile?

Money is the sense of security of most women, with money, women can be financially independent, can buy and buy at will, so women try not to have economic entanglements between them, such as women especially like group activities, these are best in the form of AA or courtesy consumption can maintain the friendship between women, maybe there is a woman who is richer, but it is best to be a little more restrained, because maybe her bold behavior will cause other women to have an inferiority complex, thus generating resentment or jealousy, you are not wrong with having moneyBut splurging in front of your girlfriend is a problem, and you can play as you like in private, so you have to remember that if your girlfriend doesn't have such concentration herself, you still have to pay attention to your words and deeds, otherwise the boat of your friendship will capsize.

Women are more emotional, and jealousy is the nature of women, so sometimes women as long as they get into the tip of their horns, it is easy to have all kinds of entanglements and conflicts, friendship is dispensable for sensual women, because at that time they only have their own feelings in their hearts The most important, and the others are floating clouds. Therefore, if women want to maintain the boat of their friendship and not easily capsize, then only by guarding the boundaries between themselves and each other can the tree of friendship between you be evergreen.

The friendship between girls is more based on a temporary "partner" relationship, because girls are more afraid of being alone, so most of the time it is to find a partner, and once the two are separated, there is not so much common language, and the friendship naturally fades. Boys, on the other hand, have friendships based on shared hobbies, and even if they are not in the same space, they will have a common language because of the same hobbies such as games. Friendships between girls are mostly just general friendships, and it is normal that they are difficult to maintain.

So, you have to learn to distinguish between true friends and general friends.

Friendships between girls are indeed fragile, because girls are more delicate and sensitive than boys. A little bit of a little thing can escalate to a matter of principle after making up for it, and it's better to break up in two. Of course, this is not a simple matter of glass hearts, but the innate characteristics of such creatures as girls.

In fact, a good friendship will be more sincere for girls than for boys. When you become best friends, most of them are like sisters. It's just that once you meet a time when one side is better than the other. It will cause the girl's petty family anger.

Girls may also be more likely to have a psychology of contrast, jealousy of this kind of thing mostly starts from comparison, and there are many places where girls are easy to contrast, such as clothing, appearance, boyfriend, family background, etc., jealousy sometimes often destroys a friendship.

Most of the careful eyes describe women, and there is a reason for this! Therefore, friendship for girls, it is best to be separated from each other more harmoniously than those in the same place! Two girls who can get along every day and know everything about each other every day are more likely to have a friendship crisis.

Girls pay more attention to their own feelings, and are willing to express and share, which is the easiest to present in love, many boys will feel that girls are very difficult to understand, always very "nagging" to talk about a lot of their own things, boys want to give them some solutions to solve problems, and are considered intimate.

Friendships between girls are fragile, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason is that many women are jealous and compared. There are some women who come to you not necessarily because they are attracted to you, but because you attract her to the same opposite sex as you like, and by following you can know why you attract others, and what qualities she does not have compared to her, so that you can adjust and adapt accordingly. She'll take your words about the boy you like, so wake up and keep an eye on it, don't be disturbed by others.

There is also same-sex jealousy, knowing your characteristics, she will work hard to regain the high ground and control the whole situation.

The second reason is that women are relatively more emotional, so the so-called friendship between them is indeed not particularly optimistic, and the friendship between women is relatively fragile, which is a fact, but it is not that all women are like this, they will also have the same feelings between male brothers, or the same emotions will have the kind of unswerving loyalty.

The third reason is that the friendship between women is not only fragile, but also cannot be deeply acquainted. If you have a deep friendship with your so-called secret, it is not a secret that the girlfriends on the TV series are so good, they are all fake, and there are several girlfriends in reality.

Can it be done? It's the same woman, you are better than her, she is unbalanced in her heart, you are not as good as her, she will show off in front of you I think the friendship with women should not be too intimate, the way to get along, keep a certain distance regardless of boyfriend and girlfriend, keep a certain distance, or better, don't be too intimate, say everything, good like a person, and then break up. It's not interesting, so the relationship between women and women is fragile, and the same is true between men and men.

In my personal opinion, I don't have the best girlfriend, I'm better with everyone, it's almost the same! It's about the same as everyone I know, not far away. Women themselves are emotional creatures and sensitive!

After a long time, there is always a little contradiction, and there are many rights and wrongs.

The friendship between girls is indeed fragile, and it may be that just because of a small thing, the friendship between two people can collapse in an instant.

Everyone says that the friendship between girls is very fragile, in fact, this is a phenomenon for some girls, some girls don't have to be sincere in making friends, and it is easy to deceive others.

It's true, because girls are more emotional, they will rely on their feelings to determine whether the other person is good or bad for them, so this kind of friendship is the weakest.

Friendships between women are fragile.

Just graduated the year, a good relationship of a friend suddenly came to Beijing to find me, when I just paid the mortgage to pay three rent, there was no money left, so I invited her to eat two pots of spicy shabu shabu mao mao opposite the community, after the meal, I took her to the square dance to see a group of lively aunts jumping happily, and said very hypocritically, I hope we can be neighbors when we are old, and become an old lady who dances square dance together.

My friend suddenly sneered, come on, I've come all the way to play with you, so you can invite me to eat some shabu belly, pick and search, who still wants to be a neighbor with you. I was stunned for a moment, and subconsciously felt that she must be joking, so I quickly smiled and said, then if you don't have enough, I'll ask you to masquerade for supper later, right? My friend said, hey, don't waste it, you have the money to eat skewers, why don't you lend me it?

I'm almost going to change my phone, and now this phone is stuck.

As soon as he heard about borrowing money, the air was as cold as if he had been lit by Bai Zhantang. I quickly recalled the balance of less than 400 yuan on my card, and said hesitantly, can I borrow 200 from you first? My friend suddenly turned cold and said, I'm joking.

Well, it was the last thing she ever said to me.

Before she left, I went to the ATM opposite my house to withdraw some money, helped her buy a train ticket back, and then asked the company for leave, all the way to the subway, and bought a box of wife cakes from Wei Duomei that I was not very willing to eat on weekdays and stuffed it into her backpack. Before parting, there was obviously talking and laughing, and obviously they hugged together. As a result, the sentence "I'm joking" became the last sentence she said to me in the 8 years after she left.

At the beginning, I was also awkward, repeatedly thinking that I was not doing well, and even regretted not gritting my teeth to borrow some money from my colleague and lending it to her, and when I grew up, I realized that friendship was really fragile, not that I was not good enough, it was her request, I couldn't do it.

The feelings of girls, the friendship of girls, the reason why it is so much because of me, is nothing more than that they are easy to change hexagrams, or they feel that there is no such thing as a friend anyway, this friend will not have much loss for me, and it is not like us men, we men are more of a rational thinking and rational treatment, but women are more emotional, so if they feel a little awkward, he will not apologize.

Girls' hearts are relatively small, and they think a lot and are very sensitive, so there are a lot of misunderstandings and contradictions between girls, if you don't make it clear, it is likely that this misunderstanding will spread more and more, and in the end it will be out of control. It is easy for girls to lose face, for example, if two people have a conflict, it is difficult for one party to bow his head and admit his mistake and take the initiative to apologize. It's not like boys sometimes, even if they get into a fight, they turn back and they're brothers, so that's the difference between boys and girls.

I think it may be that girls' nerves are more sensitive and their minds are more delicate, so they can't be arrogant about the past in some things, and when the contradiction is big, the friendship will collapse. Boys generally live roughly, they don't care about some details, and often have conflicts that are solved by drinking a drink or fighting, but girls don't have these, they are all hidden in their hearts.

In fact, sometimes the friendship between some girls is so fragile, mainly because they don't care too much about such a friendship, not like us boys sometimes even if we get it right, we will be more rational about some problems, but some women are often more emotional, so they don't take this relationship too seriously.

Because most girls are more sensitive, girls are more subjective and delicate in handling things, unlike boys, girls are often more likely to hold grudges, and boys often don't have to worry about offending each other when they have anything to say, but girls are different, a few tone words can affect our emotions and trigger our infinite reverie.

A woman's heart is a needle, maybe a girl is not as potty as a boy, right? In general, it is more calculating, so it is easier to be unfamiliar with friendship, if you can understand each other in trouble, each step back is the sea and the sky. Then the tree of friendship will grow green.

Because many girls are actually very emotional, very afraid of being betrayed, they will pay wholeheartedly when they are with others, once they are betrayed or treated indifferently, they will immediately withdraw from this relationship, they may show themselves very cool, but this is really a manifestation of insecurity, this kind of girl needs friends more, this is a normal psychological need.

It's not that friendships between girls are fragile, it's that it's always easy for girls to look like friendships exist.

It's hard for me to understand the friendship between girls, sometimes they become best friends after just a few days of acquaintance, and sometimes they go to the toilet together a few times, even if they are good friends. This kind of friendship that has neither been precipitated by time nor tested by reality, and to say that it is fragile is to overestimate the relationship.

The two of them are actually strangers who are slightly more familiar, and they can't talk about friends at all.

Because girls are very sensitive. Friendship comes and goes quickly. Sometimes it can just be because you like the same thing, and then you become a hot, talkative person.

Sometimes it can be a simple sentence, and you tear your face with him. A girl is a creature that turns her face faster than a book, and her vulnerability lies in the fact that she comes quickly, so she will be very shallow.

Because girls like to compare with each other. Compare looks, compare boyfriends, compare clothes, compare cosmetics of all kinds. Even if you are a good girlfriend, if he is superior to you in one particular aspect, the girl will feel very unhappy.

In contrast, boys are more aggressive and don't care so much. So the kind of meeting between boys is relatively more stable.

Women are social animals, and they often stage a big drama of love and hatred with each other. For example, three girls who originally had a good relationship will easily break the balance, which is more complicated than a love triangle with a different surname.

Believe me, sometimes the same sex is no less jealous than male and female lovers. You will be sad, you will be jealous, you will feel lonely because you are isolated. These are all normal.

For the friendship and love when you were young, you have to relax, don't let people think that you are biting someone else's little tail, and you can't shake it off. In the friendship of three people, there are often two people who join forces temporarily, and they want to hide it from the other one, leave her alone, and make an appointment to play alone. Some girls are going to die or live because of this, and even go to the Internet to ask questions about the reward, wondering why.

Actually, the reason is very simple. 1. They have little secrets that you don't know. 2, one of them competes with you for favor in friendship, deliberately plays for you, and is angry with you, but the other is afraid that you will be angry and want to hide it.

If you want to hide it, you should be passive in this "conspiracy", or a soft-hearted friend. 3. The show they play feels that it is not suitable to bring you, and they are willing to be more private and simple.

What to do? I advise this girl not to ask too much, not to beg, not to kneel and lick, not to pester. Should be independent and have their own extra circle of friends.

In case you don't have one, arrange your own time, read, listen to **, catch up on dramas, go shopping, exercise ......Find ways to be full, happy, and strong.

After all, the friends who are attracted by their charm are more valuable and can stand the test than the friends they have been chasing hard.

This big drama between girls and children, the men don't understand.