My feelings, my hesitation, why I always hesitate about feelings

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It can be seen that you really like her, since your relationship is very good now, although he rejected you, it doesn't mean that he really doesn't have you in his heart, maybe she is now confused and confused, and has not sorted out her feelings, if you really can't give up, then wait, be patient, accompany him by his side, love her, and care about him. The girl's heart is very soft, you have been paying for him like this, he will know, he will be moved now, maybe he will fall in love with you in the future, don't worry, as long as you keep not giving up and work hard, I believe you will be able to be with him

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She said. Say you're good. Fear of feelings. It will hurt you. Say I can't give you happiness. SO CAN'T ACCEPT YOU ...

    That is, she can't give enough affection to you at the moment. It's just that I don't love you enough. She's a responsible person.

    Know that you are not responsible for you if you accept it now ... She is still in touch with you, which means that you still have a chance... It's just that the relationship hasn't reached that level yet.

    All you have to do now is keep in touch with her. Restraining one's emotions ... Be friends with her first.

    Slowly cultivating feelings ... Don't be so impulsive. It's not good to be so impulsive all the time.

    After a long time, you can't tell whether you love her or satisfy your possessiveness. In a word... The outlook is positive.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's the first time I've read such a long story, and I'm really moved, and now it's really rare for a man like you to be there. I really hope you can find happiness! Now your question, actually, seriously, it's the first time I've seen a question like yours, it's really difficult, first of all, do you know if she has a new boyfriend now?

    If you have, then you don't have much hope, and if you haven't, then you still have a chance! Secondly, have you carefully analyzed whether she rejected your words? Some girls are like this, they are afraid of feelings after being hurt by love.

    You have to analyze whether she sincerely rejects you, or is it because she is afraid of your future harm, or because of the girl's reserve? Finally, I think if she doesn't have a boyfriend yet, then you need to show her that you love her. That's all I can think of, it's up to you if I can help you, I really wish you happiness!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.Give yourself some self-confidence. Don't be afraid that she is someone else suddenly, and don't rush to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with her.

    2.Stick to the end, care about her like a friend, and master the scale.

    3.Or stay the course, if you love him.

    4.Give her the feeling that you can rely on and stay the course.

    Bless you all!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think she should like you, but I don't think it will be too long with you, so I don't want to. Or keep this relationship for a long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe she doesn't associate with you, or thinks about the previous boyfriend, she doesn't dare to accept you, and that's right, she's afraid that she will hurt you, and even friends can't be a friend, and she is willing to contact you, which means that she doesn't hate you, and she should have a good feeling.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hehe, are there fewer men like this? I'm afraid many people I know, including myself, are like this, first of all, remind you, it's not that the girl says everything to you and just likes you, it's just that she has this desire to talk, and you're not too young, what if you're not in the same city? You're all too young, so let's have a plan for the future first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take out Leo's enthusiasm, the important thing is that you fight now and don't give up! Don't leave regrets!! In addition to the beauty of love, it is necessary to persist in the beauty of eternity!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's enough to send this ** to her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Frightened Bird, you can heal her first.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you are hesitant about feelings, because you think about it a lot, at least this time it means that you are serious and you are taking the time to think about it. The second is that you don't have enough courage to stand in front of your lover and say that I only love you alone in my life. Third, you don't love enough of you.

    Because you don't know if the person in front of you is your favorite, will you meet a partner who is more suitable for you than her after you are together. That's why you're hesitant. I think every relationship is valuable and we all have to take it seriously.

    It's good to have a lot of worries, but if you think about it for a long time, you may also lose someone who loves you and someone you love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Freedom and love are neither contradictory nor conflicting. Love does not necessarily restrain yourself, and of course you have to restrain yourself on all special occasions. If you think that love will bind you, then I think you have to make trade-offs.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. My feelings for you are genuine, but I also have my own considerations, such as our future, whether our relationship can be long-lasting, whether we have common goals, whether we can develop our relationship to a deeper level, etc.

    My feelings for you are sincere, but I also have my own considerations, whether our relationship can last long, whether we have a common goal, whether we can develop our relationship to a deeper level such as Wang, etc.

    I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

    The reason for hesitation may be because you are not completely sure about our feelings, or because you are worried that your decision will affect our relationship. Workaround:1

    Try to relax and write down your thoughts and feelings so that you can better clear your mind. 2.Try talking to a friend or family member and ask them to help you analyze the problem so you can better clear your mind.

    3.Try to talk to us and let's ** the problem together to better clear your mind. 4.

    Try to do some self-reflection and think about your thoughts and feelings to better clear your mind. Personal Tips:1

    If you don't know how to think about your hesitation, you should see it as a shortcoming, but rather as an opportunity to think about your thoughts and feelings in order to better clear your thoughts. 2.Try to put your thoughts and feelings together so that you can better clear your thoughts and be able to understand your thoughts and feelings better.

    3.Try to put your own thoughts and feelings together with those of others so that you can better sort out your thoughts and be able to better understand the thoughts and feelings of others. 4.

    Try to put your thoughts and feelings together with objective facts in order to better clear your mind and be able to understand objective facts better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's how life is, no matter what your choice is in the end, I believe you will mature.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have such concerns, it means that you are still very good, but why do you live together if you didn't love her in the first place? This situation has lasted for two years, and the only difference between this and married couples is a piece of paper, so she is dependent on you, treats you as a husband, and it is understandable to turn over your privacy, because she loves you too much, and she will not be able to stand it if you leave her. I want you to think clearly, what is love?

    Sometimes life is like this, there will always be a big gap with your ideals, from now on, you will blame all the problems on your fault, and soon you will be relieved, and you will not feel that she is unreasonable, etc., and you will also find that she has a lot of things to affirm, this is empathy, you try. I hope you can think about each other very well, man, it's okay to take on a little more responsibility.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now that you have understood her personality, either change her, or change you to adapt to her, if it really doesn't work, just disperse, after all, there will be many problems after marriage, not only her personality, rather than the unpleasantness at that time, it is better to break off with her now.

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