What to do if you are isolated in the dormitory, what to do if you are isolated in the dormitory

Their problems! I was also isolated, I cried every day at first, but then I got used to it and figured it out, and it was fine! It's inherently troublesome to get along with people!

In the eyes of others, there are always advantages and disadvantages! Whoever doesn't say it behind his back, who doesn't say it behind his back! As long as you do your best!

In the future, if you have the opportunity to clean up, take notes yourself, and don't rely on them! To be a man, you must learn to be self-reliant!

If you are isolated, the first thing you should remember is those who look down on you and use them to motivate you; Secondly, live your own life, don't be disturbed by others, so you are really isolated, remember that your days are your own, the pain is yours, and the happiness is yours.

Your question. One. The dormitory belongs to everyone, so there are 1 4 days for you to clean, you can not clean at home, the family will not say anything, but the roommate does not have to bear your part of the obligation.

Two. It's normal to copy these homework notes occasionally, but it's easy to be despised if you copy them all the time, and only strong people can gain respect.

And if you do what the Blue Butterfly says on the other side, you'll only be more isolated, and there won't be many circles that can accommodate you. The past can't be changed, let's start over!

In fact, they are not very happy, because you live together, and if you isolate you, they will feel embarrassed to see you, and they will feel ...... after a long timeI think you should make small changes first, such as cleaning you have to participate, don't think about their badness, say thank you for using their stuff and so ......onThey're going to change.

Well.. You have to study hard, and if you can help others, you have to work hard to help you, too, but. It's not impossible to redeem it... Do your best!

No matter what. Be happy in the future!!

Your personal problems.

Hygiene is your responsibility.

Copying homework is no small thing, but the dormitory represents your responsibility, and if you don't clean up, you're not qualified to stay.

Hobbies don't go into isolation.

You lack the sense of responsibility you deserve.

You have to adapt to them, otherwise it will be even more difficult to enter the society in the future.

Do your part to help them but don't ask them for self-esteem!

If it's me, I'll isolate you, I don't hate being arrogant, I don't hate not learning, and the most annoying thing is being lazy.

Join them when you can't beat them.

What the hell are they doing? You are you, not God, and you can't control everyone.

Answer hello kiss, should be inexplicably isolated, only possible that you don't know why. It certainly won't be to isolate you together for no reason. It's just that this reason may not have anything to do with you at all, such as you have a misunderstanding, or you don't agree with each other, or they like things differently, or they think you think you have strange ideas, etc.

You may not have done anything wrong at all. But in fact, everyone is an individual, and there is a saying that a university is a university for a person. Life is inherently lonely.

In this case, it is recommended that you study and enrich yourself without leaving time for thinking about them. Usually, go out and communicate with other people and pay more attention to the messages sent in the class, because no one may remind you, but in fact, it is a small thing. You don't have to take it to heart, just do your own thing if you can't get in.

If you don't fit in with other roommates in the dormitory, it's easy to be isolated, and if you are isolated, you need to have a good relationship with your roommates.

In this case, it is best to reflect on whether your words and deeds have offended them, and then reflect, communicate, and deal with the user's life, experience, and friendship.

If you are isolated by this dormitory, it is your own problem, because you must know that there are some places, that is, a dormitory will not isolate you for no reason, because of the isolation of you for no reason, in fact, I think this means that it is your own reason, your own fault. Because in itself, there is always a reason for it, it may be that you have a reason for yourself, a problem for yourself, and then let this dormitory be very bad for you. I think the best way is to first find the cause, find the root cause, solve the problem from the root, change the problem, change it, and then integrate into this dormitory.

Answer: Reflect on yourself. If you are isolated by a dormitory group, then you should not complain about others, then it is time to reflect on yourself, after all, it is impossible for everyone to work together to isolate you for no reason.

Carefully examine whether you are too self-centered, whether you think too much about yourself and don't care about the feelings of others......(This is generally the case with collective isolation)2 2

What kind of hatred can there be between classmates! In this case, don't worry about it, think more about others, sweep the floor more when you have nothing to do, take out the garbage more diligently, and share good things with everyone.

As long as you are sincere enough, your relationship will slowly change.

The second case 1 2

Learn to be tolerant and generous. Everyone comes from different places and has different lifestyles, don't laugh at or look at other people's way of life, and show it on your face, it is difficult to be friends, maybe the other three people in your dormitory are from the same place, and you are not used to seeing their behavior. 2/2

Everyone will have some bad habits to a greater or lesser extent, don't worry about people accidentally touching your water glass, soiling your book or stepping on you, if you are often angry because of some small things, everyone will naturally alienate you.

Third case 1 4

The dormitory does not live with a major with oneself. This is very normal.,Sometimes a professional girl's dormitory is full.,Will split one or several to live in other dormitories.,At this time, the girl who was separated was more or less prone to feel lonely and sad.。。 2/4

When what they say or what they discuss is irrelevant to you and you don't understand, don't force it in, just listen quietly, then they don't care about your feelings, they may be talking about something important.

In this case, it seems a little difficult to get along with your roommates, but it's not very difficult, we have one next door, but the four of us get along very well! As long as you are willing to think about others and be considerate of others, everyone will be willing to be friends with you. 3/4

At this time, it is necessary not only to have a good relationship with the people in the dormitory, but also to have a good relationship with the classmates, after all, a person is likely to miss some important information, and it is a very warm thing if someone can notify you in time. 4/4

There is another kind, no matter how they look at you, they don't like you, they just want to deliberately isolate you, do you still need to befriend them? Of course not! Apply directly to change dormitories, or go home to live, out of sight and out of mind!

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