In junior high school, learning is more important than interpersonal relationships

In fact, the two complement each other, they are neither contradictory nor conflicting, which is to try to do both character and learning

However, since our current education system is dominated by exam-oriented education, the focus of secondary school students should be on their studies, and it will be much easier for them to build good interpersonal relationships when their grades go up.

Your parents are right, my daughter more than ten years ago and you also have the same rebellious mentality, because she is studying in the mine school, the learning atmosphere and environment are not very good, and then I only told her, knowledge determines destiny knowledge changes fate, this sentence is a thousand true and unchanging truth, fate is in your own hands, if you want to have a good job in the future, only study hard, otherwise, parents can not worry about you for a lifetime.

Later, through her efforts, she was admitted to a second college (the enrollment had not been expanded at that time)...After working for two years, she got married, and now she has already bought a house and a car, and now she sometimes has to ridicule her parents for not earning as much as she alone. If it weren't for our hard work back then, would she be where she is today?

Learning and interpersonal relationships can be improved, which is equivalent to human intelligence and emotional intelligence, are both very important, and if there is one more important, I think it is interpersonal relationships.

If you feel that you are very responsible, study hard. If it's the wild kind, make more friends.

It is important that the two do not conflict.

It is indeed troublesome for parents to communicate without being open-minded.

But they're right, it's more important to study at your age.

As I said, studying in order to improve one's own quality, for example, if you are admitted to a university, you are all rotten boys who don't study.

And you have good grades and are admitted to a school where all of them are high-achieving students (although grades can't determine everything), at least good grades are smart, and you have the ability to learn, so at this stage, you should study hard first.

When communicating with parents, don't talk too impulsively, sometimes you can choose to chat when they are in a better mood.

Relationships are also important in junior high school.

First, if the interpersonal relationship is good, you are also in a good mood, which is conducive to you having a good mood to study. It's helpful for learning.

Second, interpersonal skills are a must-have for a person. You should be training from junior high school. Junior high school is also a period of formation and stabilization of many important human abilities, and I recommend that you start developing interpersonal skills from junior high school.

Third, people should develop in an all-round way, and many college entrance examination champions not only study well, but also have some hobbies after class. As long as you manage your time reasonably, you can balance your studies and interpersonal relationships, which is good for your growth.

So it's important for you to value and nurture good relationships in junior high school.

If you are new to junior high school, don't have too strong utilitarianism. Interactions with classmates are based on sincerity and affection, rather than consideration of whether it is useful.

At this stage, the most important task is to study, and try to do as little as possible anything that affects learning. In fact, when you go to college and find a job, you will have very little interaction with your junior high school classmates.

I feel that you are a girl, quieter than your friends, and you have your friends in terms of appearance and temperament. But she should be better looking. It's understandable that your friend's popularity causes you to have a sense of crisis or imbalance in your relationship with your surroundings.

Please forgive me if it is not right. It is recommended that you open your mind, generally speaking, girls who are a little more extroverted are indeed more likely to attract other people, not only the opposite sex. This is one.

The second is to be calm, everyone has their own strengths, and you should deal with the relationship between the two of you with an appreciative attitude. As for where she has strengths, you can also learn from them. Slightly more generous than the character.

Third, everyone has their own strengths, and she must have feelings of envy and jealousy for you, but maybe you don't feel it.

Fourth, focus on what you should be focusing on at the moment, with a focus on learning. After this age, you will find that the learning era is nostalgic, but the good or bad grades can affect the future for ordinary people. Moreover, whether you are rich in knowledge or not will have an impact on people's mental outlook and temperament.

Generally speaking, even IQ and EQ need to be developed reasonably, and it is very important to deal with the interpersonal relationships around you not only now but also in the future. You might as well be more generous, a person's change should not just be for others, make yourself! Let's experience it again if you can't say it, and I wish you a smoother study and life!

First of all, from her side, her cheerful and frank personality is inherently attractive.

Then she as your friend, what you should have is neither envy nor jealousy, friendship is based on what two people have in common, let go of things other than her, be good friends, no jealousy, no envy, you can learn from her.

Of course, I was envious and jealous, and I was thinking, why pinch? I can't figure it out.

My interpersonal relationship is also not good, probably because she is very arrogant, open-minded, and says everything, so that others feel more real.

You also said that she has a big personality, this kind of personality is easy to make friends and cheerful, and it is easy to integrate into other people's circles

Nothing to be jealous of.

What's bad about it, I'm happy every day, and others are happy to look at it, so I want to make friends with you.

Personally, I think girls should also have the reserve of girls, of course, it doesn't mean that you don't talk to others. It's very useful to greet people with a smile or something, so that the first impression is good. It's better not to stick it up....In this way, although others will play with you, they may not value you in private

In fact, everyone can be like this, suicide is not willing to take that step. You can too. Don't always envy and envy others, you yourself will definitely be better than others.

You have to speak first, take the initiative to speak with people you don't know, and most importantly, have confidence.

Oh, beautiful women are attractive.

Well, when I was in junior high school, I was once imagined as a dark past.

Learning difficulties or not accepting new courses, feeling distancing from getting along with junior high school classmates.

You are enthusiastic, talk to the people around you, ask this and ask that, maybe you think this is not suitable for you, but the most indispensable thing between people is communication.

It's normal to have different topics, just get to know each other, you first accept their ideas, see what they like, what they hate, you don't have to rush to express so that others can understand you so quickly, you understand them first, they will want to understand you, understand?

Generally, after dealing with interpersonal relationships, learning difficulties are generally not difficult, even when I was in junior high school, my interpersonal relationships were super bad, so my grades were super bad, and now my interpersonal relationships in high school are quite good, and my grades are also good.

Therefore, don't just think that if you read the textbook well, you will learn a good level, that is not an excellent student.

Relax, let go, and devote yourself a little more to your studies, you have too many concerns.

If you are studying, you must listen carefully and take notes carefully in class.

No matter how hard you work after class, you must listen in class, and the teacher will sometimes talk about the key points of the exam.

When it comes to accommodation, take the initiative yourself, don't always talk to you, and you only talk a few words.

Sometimes it's important to go out and buy food by yourself, bring a little bit for your roommates, and get closer to each other.

I usually watch more funny TV, popular TV, and so on.

Improve your humor and also have common topics with friends.

Laugh more, be kind to others, stop talking about others behind your back, don't put on a face to people you don't like, do your own thing, don't use your own standards to measure others, and learn to be tolerant.

You've also seen some people who are annoyed by you, so it's best to keep your distance from them.

It's not always better to get closer to the crowd, and sometimes it's better to keep a little distance.

The first condition is to have a cheerful personality, talk more sincerely with people, and help others more, absolutely yes, I am the best in this area, I wish you a happy life!

Be smiling, helpful, help each other, be proactive, and don't form small groups.