As the saying goes, There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no fate to meet o

"Thousands of miles are destined to meet, and the opposite side is not destined to meet" These two poems are familiar to everyone, saying that if they are destined for each other, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can eventually meet or meet.

Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a member of the family, a wealthy family, only one daughter, born beautiful, when he reached the marriageable age, he wanted to find a son-in-law for his daughter. Notices are posted one by one: There is a little girl in the family, 28 years old, the competition recruits relatives, and the elderly who have a skill can participate in the competition.

On the day of the competition, the staff said to the four people: Today's competition takes the sunset as the node. The four of them began to be nervously busy, slaughtering cattle and sharpening knives, playing slingshots and throwing bullets, riding fast horses and whips, only this one wrote, Miss was grinding by his side, he looked left, and then looked, chatting with Miss from time to time.

In a blink of an eye, the sunset came, so the scholar was helpless and wrote a poem on the paper: Playing the leaves is thin and scattered, the mouth is not fishy, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, and there is no chance to meet on the other side.

Legend has it that in ancient times, there was a poor scholar who lived a life without food every day. But he was hardworking, talented, and handsome.

One day, he went to the mountains to chop wood, and saw a big ape lying on the ground dying, and when he was about to pass, a beautiful fairy-like woman came to the opposite side, so the two rescued the ape together, and both returned home.

It turned out that this woman's name was Bai He, and she was also alone, and the same life experience made the two fall in love with each other and become husband and wife.

It's strange to say, since the white lotus and the ape came, his family's life has become more and more prosperous, and soon he will be rich. The strangest thing is that the big ape, who is not fair to speak human words, but also takes care of housework, and is very good before and after, and the husband and wife respect it very much and treat it as an old man.

With the improvement of the first place in society, the scholar became more and more unaccustomed to the ape, and thought that he left a handle for others before and after, and had to take care of everything, and finally one day, he drove the old ape out secretly behind his wife's back. In the deep mountains and old forests, he threw down the sick and weak old ape.

When I returned home, my wife was nowhere to be found. After a few years, his family property fell into ruin, and he had to go to the mountains to cut wood to survive. On this day, while chopping wood, he suddenly saw two people walking in the distance, very familiar.

As of the previous year, it was his wife Bai He and the old ape. He was overjoyed. However, one person and one animal talked and laughed, dressed brightly, and his face was ruddy.

and walked before him, but did not know him. He was in a hurry, chasing after Mrs. Bai He. The woman and the ape stopped, turned around, and said only one word:

There are apes who come thousands of miles to meet, and there are no apes who don't know each other." I don't know where to go.

Since then, the phrase has been handed down. But it has evolved into "there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side".

As the saying goes, it means that people with fate will get together even if they are thousands of miles apart, and people without fate will not get together even if they walk face to face.

Fate: Fate. People who are destined will get together even if they are thousands of miles apart. People who have no fate will not get together even if they walk face to face.

If we are destined for each other, we can meet even if we are thousands of miles apart; If the two sides are not related, although they are close at hand, they will not meet and get acquainted.

[Example] Ming Shi Nai'an's "Water Margin" Chapter 35: "Song Jiang was overjoyed when he heard this, and dragged forward and said: 'There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side'!" I'm the only one who is Hei Saburo Song Jiang. ”

Yuan, also known as karma, is a Buddhist language. "Translation of the Twelve Branches of Interpretation" contains: "(Monk) Zhao said that the front edge is born together, and it is also because; Now help each other, fate also.

Refers to the immediate cause of the result and the conditions that contribute to the result. Buddhism holds that everything is in a causal connection, the former passes away, the latter arises, cause and effect, and there is no interruption between cause and effect. These two sentences are derived from the belief that the chances of the separation of human branches have their own immutable antecedents.

Hello, if someone in the Danju says to you, "There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side", you can do this: 1Agree:

You can express your agreement with this sentence and let the other person feel your belief and opinion on fate. 2.Encourage each other:

You can encourage the other person and tell him not to give up, because fate is magical and maybe at some point she will reunite with herself. 3.Make a suggestion:

If the other person is confused and troubled, you can also make suggestions to help him get out of the situation and make him more firm in his faith. No matter how much you try to be genuine, you need to be sincere and kind so that the other person feels that you care and help. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect the other person's feelings and decisions, and give them enough space and time to deal with the problem.

If I remember correctly, it seems to be from "Water Margin", which is also very easy to understand, that is, if there is fate between you, you can see each other even if you are thousands of miles apart; But if you don't have fate, even if you are neighbors, you probably won't meet each other. In general, it is a mystery of the word "edge"! If you still find it difficult to understand, I will tell you some small things from my personal experience to tell you what to say!

If you have to explain the reality of "not meeting each other without chance", I think you can understand it this way, now many people in many places will choose to buy commercial housing, live in the community, no longer live in self-built houses, and visit with neighbors. One of the amazing things that many people will find is that you rarely meet other owners on your floor. I've been living in the community for more than 2 years, but I never knew what kind of person lived across from me, and occasionally a group of people who chatted enthusiastically in some of the owner groups, but in real life living in the same building, we have met only a handful of times.

Some people will say that because your commuting time and schedule are different, you won't encounter them. But I don't think so, because generally speaking, many people's commuting times are very close, but maybe it's just a little bit of fate, maybe it's just like that.

Fate seems to many people to be unattainable, and its mystery is not something we can explain clearly in a sentence or two. Let's cherish the fate!

This fate is wonderful, to put it bluntly, it depends on luck, luck comes, everything is smooth, and bad luck is not smooth.

If you have a fate with another person, you will have the opportunity to meet even if you are thousands of miles apart;

If you don't have fate, you won't be able to see each other even if you walk across the street.

That is, fate is destined.