A guy liked you before, and then he left you for a year, but will he like it again when he comes bac

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, if someone who has liked you for a long time gives up on you, you will suddenly feel very lost, because you have become accustomed to his love and dedication to you.

    Secondly, you have a feeling of relief in your heart, and you will also feel relieved. Because you don't like him, if you like him too, how can he give up if he likes you for so long? Because you don't like him accordingly, he gradually loses hope, so he is disappointed, and finally despairs, and thus gives up on you.

    You'll feel a little lighter, too.

    Secondly, you will feel a little guilty and worried about him, because he has liked you for a long time, and now he has given up because you don't like him and let go, so worry about him nothing. Telling you not to worry about him is also a clear conscience for him. When you like it, you keep chasing it, and when you have the answer in your heart, you choose to let it go, which is a very wise choice.

    So he's going to adjust his mentality well. You don't have to feel guilty, because you can't force your feelings, and if you keep interrupting, you will suffer from it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What does it feel like to be a guy who has been deeply in love with you for a long time and gives up on you? It's like losing something, losing something you like, and then you don't come back until early, but you still want to try it, look for it, and then what do you say? Anyway, everything, a little bit, even a little bit of something, I keep it in my heart, oops, there is no way, if you lose it, you lose it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't like the other person, even if the other party likes you again, he gives up on you, there shouldn't be much feeling, after all, you don't like the other person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be very disappointed, at this time it is time to find out what is wrong with you, why I like you so much and give up on you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's hard to say because everyone has their own ideas. Some people, it doesn't matter; Some people care a lot.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A person who likes you will definitely contact you, and those who don't like it are not liked enough. But I can understand, I like you, you don't give back or he doesn't want to pursue it, so it's not strange to give up, don't have a princess mentality, I feel that people like it and suddenly don't like it, and I'm not reconciled. You know very well that the other person has feelings for you, and you know that he has been talking to you for a while, but I don't know what type of girl you are in your question.

    If you are an introverted girl, it may be because you are not active, in the process of emotional contact between the two, both parties have to be in a progressive relationship, so that both parties can get an emotional response.

    If you are an extroverted girl and are the active party in this relationship, then the man will most likely come to talk to you with a playful attitude (or in a lonely period), and once this situation passes, he will not come to talk to you again. A man who "loves you very much" leaves you suddenly, there must be a reason for him to make up his mind to leave you. First, and it is also universal, he can no longer bear the fruitless efforts of your love long-distance running route, or he has given so much that you are still "vexatious" and make him heartbroken.

    Second, he loves you to the extreme. I must have encountered some major difficulties, and I don't want to drag you down. It's not non-existent, after all, machismo in this society still exists, even if he knows that you are willing to pay for him, but he can't pass the level in his heart so he leaves.

    The man who likes you very much will not leave suddenly, all departures are premeditated, you can't wake up the person who pretends to be asleep, and you can't keep the person who wants to leave. Don't dwell on why those who left you left so suddenly! If you leave, you're a stranger, and what he thinks has nothing to do with you!

    Thinking about how to live your life well in the future is the key! There are many reasons to leave: either you are heartbroken, you have enough disappointments, you are exhausted, you are increasingly unable to see the future, you have lost your common goals, you feel that you are not capable of giving you the life you want, or you have a new love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because in the process of pursuing you or getting along with you, the guy finds that you are not the right person, or thinks that there is a certain problem with the two of you getting along, so he slowly becomes no longer like you, has no freshness to you, and finally chooses to give up on you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because the two people have been together for too long, they found that they are not so good, and after getting along, they feel that the personalities of the two people do not get along, and they do not cherish it after getting it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because the boy has already given you all his likes, in his opinion, it is impossible for him to catch up with you, so he will slowly choose to let go and give up on you, if you are together, it is also possible that you did not give him enough freshness and security.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because in the process of getting along slowly, he feels that you are not suitable, and he thinks that you don't like him, there are too many men around you, and his sense of presence is not very strong.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How it feels, only.

    You can say you don't understand.

    Cherish each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you once liked a guy, you were super super like him at the time, and you expressed your love for him openly and secretly, but he didn't have any response, and then he disappeared into your world without any news.

    And then after a long time, you have accepted the reality that he is no longer in your world, and after a year or two or more, you have a boyfriend, and even you are married and have children.

    But suddenly one day, the old boy runs up to you, he is more handsome than before, and more manly, he looks like a successful man.

    At this time, if he tells you that he rejected you at that time, he has unspeakable bitterness, he has now solved all the problems, and he just wants to marry and have children with you.

    What do you do at this time? Will he tell him bluntly that everything with him is already in the past tense, and then decisively refuse?

    Or do you hide the fact that you already have a boyfriend or are married and have children, and choose to be with him? I believe everyone will encounter such a problem, a man who has been out of contact for a long time and suddenly comes to you, which will make many girls think more and even fall into contemplation, is he still interesting to me?

    Of course, if you want to believe that you know this answer better than anyone else, you just don't want to admit it, in fact, a man can not contact you for a long time to show that he loves you deeply enough, and he is just playing with you.

    If you really love someone, how can you resist not contacting them?

    Even if you don't talk about actions and tell you the answer, only people who don't love you will choose to snub you, because you may be worthless in his heart, or even indifferent, many men are still complacent when they hang a woman like this, and they will feel very satisfied in their hearts.

    Many men can't resist contacting you, and suddenly one day they take the initiative to contact you, which is nothing more than these 3 reasons.

    Many people say that it is a fortunate thing to be lost and regained, but not all lost and regained are good things, and many times we all know such a truth, and it is good to not eat back grass, because in my opinion, belated affection is worthless after all.

    Those who you really loved, and finally choose not to love you anymore, those who disappear for a long time and suddenly come back to you, in fact, they may not really miss you in their hearts, but they themselves have needs.

    We don't need to care about the person who can't resist not contacting you, we don't need to care when he comes back to you, this kind of man can go and come when he wants to come without considering the feelings of a woman at all, this kind of person is often selfish.

    So a person who has disappeared from your world should be considered to have disappeared completely.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you're gone, why bother looking back, this time he ran into a problem and turned back, you forgive him, then next time, there will be one and two, since you can't go on firmly, why waste each other's time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Texting rejection means sending the wrong person, this method is very good, good luck, I am sincere and sincere, I hope to get your affirmation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not impossible, but it's unlikely. Even if he comes back, will you accept him? Although you say that you love him very much, if he does come back after a while, you may not be able to accept him at that time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since he left you, why did he come back, do you think he deserves to be loved by you? Is it worth it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Probably not. Because people nowadays change their minds very quickly.

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