A 19 year old boy is very confused about society, does not know where to go, and how to work hard 30

At 19 years old, it's time to go to college. If you go to university, study hard and have fun in college. If you don't go to university and go to social work, then study on the job and develop the ability you are good at.

Find something to do, and you'll know what to do as you do it!

I also came from high school, and I was very confused when I filled in the college entrance examination, and the people at home asked me to study medicine and become a teacher, saying that it was so conservative that it would be easy to find a job, but I didn't agree. I applied casually in the major I was interested in.

I'm also confused now, we're all the same, but I know what I like, do what I love, and feel happy for this opportunity. Everyone will have ideals, and you should be the same, don't feel that the ideal is too far away, and don't be arrogant, or empty-sighted, and it is okay to pursue what you want for a confused person.

Once you get what you want, think about the next thing you want to pursue, so that you don't feel so lost.

Think about what you want!

It's not enough to just think and not act!

You can first try to contact the society, find some simpler working environment, and slowly adapt, people always have to suffer a little loss to have a longer memory, don't think too smoothly, no matter how confused there will always be the support of friends and family, communicate more, and always find your goal.

If so, think about what job you are suitable for, your own points and shortcomings, such as being introverted and outgoing, suitable for the service industry or business, or technology, draw a plan for yourself, and do it as soon as you decide, procrastination will only make you lazy.

You must understand in your heart that the only one who can urge you to struggle is yourself, and ask yourself what kind of life you want in your heart to have your next goal; Then think for yourself what you are good at, and preferably do what you are good at in order to reach your goals as soon as possible and get the life you want.

Go with the flow. Learn more about society. Adapt to society. You can go and read a copy of Liu Tong's Whose Youth is Not Confused, I hope it can help you.

Develop to the projects or specialties he likes, such as experiencing white-collar workers first, understanding the company, etc.

You can talk to your teacher and set yourself a goal that can be achieved but requires your own efforts, and finally move towards your goal.

Be firm in your goals and believe in yourself. You can also seek help from your parents or close friends.

Finding a stable job for a year or two will help him understand society well!

Go to the army first, and start from the grassroots level after retiring from the army, there must be a future!

One is to find a spiritual support for yourself, such as what to do for something, and then work hard to live for this support.

Go ahead, rush forward, work hard.

Striving to improve one's strength is the right way.

Watch inspirational movies, books to find new directions.

Rely on your own ability to go in the direction you want step by step.

Starting from the grassroots level, we can only make a big show after we can settle down and make a living.

Follow your heart and do your best.

Only persistence. I believe that the road ahead will not be far.

If you live a few more years, you won't be confused, life is a circle.

Or work part-time or start a business or go to school.

Start by learning on your own.

It is necessary to have ideals, lay a good foundation, and continue to work hard.

It's better to learn technology and work well in the future.

Just find the right direction of the target.

The helplessness of life, fighting for yourself.

Study hard and make progress every day.

Why be confused?

Your experience in school is similar to mine.

From what you have said, you can see that you are versatile and ingenious. Moreover, the IQ is definitely adequate.

However, you will be defeated because you have no perseverance.

CNC, it is true that the salary at the beginning is very small, but as long as you grit your teeth and persevere, continue to learn and enrich yourself. I think it's easy to be a technical supervisor or a small leader. By that time, 1500? I don't know if I'm going to flip it over.

It's like learning to smelt. For novices who have just entered the steel mill, it will be capped in one month. But what if you mix in the front of the first furnace? Tens of thousands of monthly salaries! As long as you have perseverance and success, you are only one step away.

Eh, I'm going to pour cold water on you: you said a lot about your strengths and your shining points. You can read between the lines that you are proud and ambitious.

Money! That's why there is such a sentence as laughing at the poor and not laughing at prostitutes. You have a lot of strengths, you have to find the path that suits your strengths, and turn your own advantages into wealth!!

At this time, coupled with the perseverance I mentioned earlier, success is in the palm of your hand.

I hope that your big piece of gold will bloom with your glory as soon as possible!!

Earn money on your own I am a post-90s generation I plan to earn money by working my own.

Friend, don't worry so much.

If you want to give your girlfriend happiness, you have to struggle.

See what you're good at.

Now everything is a road.

It's really not good, see if there are any relatives and friends who can introduce you to a stable job, good luck!

Brother, I'm also from the countryside, I'm twenty-two years old this year, and the conditions are very bad, so you're like this emotionally!! It shouldn't be, my mom died suddenly a few months ago......Now is the right time,,, you should think about your parents,,, are you still in school??? Going for a small deal?

Where are you?,I'll take you with me.32941 I'm 3327 in Shijiazhuang.

Hello; You can see that you are excellent. Believe that you can do it, give her happiness, a person must first have self-confidence, will have courage, will have goals, will achieve what you want, you are a talent, the most lacking in the 21st century is talent; Hehe; In this society, it is not a high degree to have a bright future, as long as you make unremitting efforts, a happy life must belong to you! Come on; My friend!

I'm worse than your experience family, and now I'm living very well, remember that youth is money, don't give up if you find a job with a high salary, single-mindedness can succeed, study while working, and happiness is fought for by 2 people, the more difficult it is, the more you test your feelings, the happier you can be in the future, if everything is going well, the kind of happiness is not as good as the happiness of suffering, don't compare with the good, only with the poor, and have the opportunity to have the capital to do some small business in the future, and the small couple is together every day that is called happiness.

Life is like a game, the sweetest laugh at the end, success or failure is often converted in an instant.

Life needs to have a systematic planning, need to lay a solid foundation first, first learn to survive and then seek development, and gradually realize ideals and goals.

If you really want to become a successful person and be invincible, you must not care about the gains and losses of the moment, you must have a long-term plan, and you can win a thousand miles by strategizing, and if you want to succeed, you need to have the following basic conditions: 1. A higher level of knowledge; 2. Solid material foundation; 3. Good personal quality; 4. Good interpersonal relationship; 5. Timely opportunities; 6. Have a series of long-term plans and short-term goals; 7. Good economic operation environment in the surrounding area; 8. Stable and harmonious family; 9. Indifferent mood, optimistic interest in life, open-mindedness, gratitude and other excellent qualities.

Then get a job and step into the world as soon as possible.

Choose a career you like and work hard to do it.