City people should pay attention to marrying rural girls

Yes, I'm from the countryside, but I'm not going to scold you. Just like you, I'm afraid that scolding you will cost me pen and ink. Don't you understand? I said, what kind of vision do you have, looking for a girlfriend is actually looking for this.

Really, I'm not wrong at all, right? Putting all the blame on others, it is obvious that he is an irresponsible person, and he is not qualified to say anything about others. I don't deny that there are such girls in the countryside, but it's not all, don't you feel like you're very unqualified to deny us so rashly?

If you don't have enough lucky stars, don't blame others.

You've been fooled, you've married this kind of guy in a daze!

First of all, there are such scheming in rural areas, and the relationship between families is definitely not like what is on TV, and rural people are the biggest competitors, do you understand it, if you buy something, other families will be jealous and red-eyed, and they will buy it.

And falling in love in the city is very different from falling in love in the countryside, you go to her house, and their family treats this marriage from a different perspective than your family, if the village is more traditional and closed. It is more necessary to consider the man's appearance, sweetness, and whether there is money at home (note whether there is money at home, not whether the family environment is good or not).

I don't know if you broke up, but if you marry her, you should regret it. Now the countryside is actually a bad etiquette, the elite have gone out to develop, you take her, and wait to slowly compare with others in the future.

That's just what I want to say to you.

The woman you meet and her family are not synonymous with being rural or not, and there are 800 million peasants in China, and the few people you meet are just a drop in the bucket in such a large group.

Your evaluation of this girl is reasonable, but you have a kind of discrimination against rural people because of this girl, and I think it is very undesirable, in fact, many great people come from the countryside.

In addition, if a girl who grew up in the city has a bad family environment and is not well-educated, I think it is half a pound compared to your girlfriend.

As for it, just for such a woman, you scolded all the rural girls, you deserve to be blind I am a rural person.

Truth be told, it is advisable that you separate from her.

Many of these women are open-minded and like to let the city boys spoil her and satisfy her vanity.

Maybe the one before just couldn't satisfy her vanity, so she broke up.

And it's not very self-respecting, and it starts with a lot of lies about how it will be good to you in the future.

But if you're really good to her, she doesn't care, she thinks it's as it should be, and she doesn't pay much.

One word !!

How to say it, don't kill a boatload of people with a stick I can only say that you haven't met a good one In fact, rural people You can't deny the advantages and disadvantages of the city It's really a halo effect This is over, I see all the shortcomings I think the countryside is very good I am also from the countryside But I never feel anything to be embarrassed about And I don't mean to scold you Everyone is just exchanging and exchanging Everyone's circumstances and concepts are different It can be understood.

There are bad girls and good girls in the countryside in the countryside, and there are bad girls and good girls in the city in the city, you can't generalize everything, what you encounter is just a column, you can't explain what the problem is, there must be worse girls in your city than this, hey, I can only feel sad for you, I was unlucky, I met with bad luck, so I magnified the object of the incident. Show understanding and sympathy.

The landlord, your mood is very understanding, in fact, rural and urban areas are the same, people are always good and bad, you have to keep your eyes open and no longer be deceived.

I am a master's degree graduate working in a foreign company with a monthly salary of 6500 I am looking for a rural girl who opens her mouth and asks me for hundreds of thousands of dollars Her parents still look down on me My parents are engineers Her parents are rural But they just look down on our family Recently I was asked to buy a house in Beijing and was not allowed to buy it in the suburbs I already want to divorce There are many urban girls around me Why am I so blind to find a rural person.

What the buddy said can't be said to be completely wrong, I know that people want to save face, but the people in the village want to have more face, you don't know when you will make a taboo, step by step. Personally, I think that all men, it is best to find the right person if they are capable, and the worldview values are not very far behind. Otherwise, there are too many contradictions, and you may be physically and mentally exhausted in the future.

Rural people are not necessarily like this.

There are also most people in the city, who are the same as you say.

Or the wrong person you're looking for.

It is possible to marry a rural man, but there will be a lot of problems, because the family environment, upbringing, people and social circles of the two people are different, and the economic conditions are different, there will be a lot of contradictions, and there will often be quarrels.

It is possible to marry, but the two people may have some problems with the concept of consumption. If one person spends lavishly, and the other person usually spends money carefully, the probability of two people quarreling is relatively high, if this problem can be solved, there is no big problem to get married!

OK. If an urban woman marries a rural man, she may not be accustomed to the living conditions and traditional customs of the countryside, and she is not very accustomed to the dialect of the rural people, but as long as she really likes it, these problems are not a problem.

OK. However, these women may dislike the living environment in the village, the food in the countryside, and the dirtiness of their mother-in-law.

The number of older single men and women is increasing year by year. Among these older leftover men and women, the leftover women are mainly concentrated in the cities, while the leftover men are mainly concentrated in the rural areas. Someone suggested that wouldn't it solve the problem if the leftover women in the city married the leftover men in the countryside?

Suffice it to say, friend, you're too naïve, it's impossible. Because the leftover women in the city would rather die alone than marry the leftover men in the countryside. As for the reason, I'm going to tell you now.

In fact, marriage is about the right family, and this cannot be said to be a force. If you want to be happy in marriage, you must be the right person, and the right person must be the right person, which includes both material and spiritual aspects. The leftover women in the city are all from better families, and even if they are poor, they at least have a house in the city.

Parents also have pensions and do not have to support their children.

The leftover men in the countryside are different, most of the families are very poor, their parents do not have pensions, and they have to support their children. So the two families are not a good match in terms of material, and then talk about the spiritual aspect, most of the leftover women in the city are highly educated. The leftover men in the rural areas generally have low educational qualifications, and generally go out to work after junior high school.

So the two sides are not very compatible in terms of spirit either.

Of course, the leftover men in the countryside and the leftover women in the cities will definitely not accept this condition, because the two sides are too incompatible. Then I will talk about a kind of rural leftover man with relatively good conditions. These leftover men come from rural areas, but they all have good education, have a good job, and have a good income.

This kind of leftover man is called "phoenix man". So if the leftover women in the city marry this kind of phoenix man, will they be able to reap happiness? The answer is not necessarily, or rather, it is difficult.

If the leftover women in the city and the "phoenix man" in the countryside are combined, the "phoenix man" himself is in good condition, but his original family will seriously drag him down. His parents do not have a pension, and he must contribute to support them after marriage. His parents did not have health insurance, and when they fell ill, they had to take them to the city for treatment, and they had to pay a lot of medical expenses.

His siblings may still be in the countryside or have come to work in the city, but they don't mix well. And the "Phoenix Man" is a successful person in their family, not to mention his immediate family, even distant relatives may come to the city and ask him to help. Asking him to contribute money, effort, and relationships is a lot of trouble.

And if the leftover girl in the city chooses to marry the "Phoenix Man", these are the troubles she needs to face with the "Phoenix Man".

Therefore, even if the leftover women in the city marry the "phoenix man" with relatively good conditions, it is difficult to be happy.

Therefore, in the end, the leftover women in the city would rather never marry than choose to marry the leftover men in the countryside. We all got married to have a better life, and no one would want to help the poor.

The first point is that most of the rural men are very poor and have no money, and the ideas and insights are not the same, because the living environment is different since childhood, the three views will definitely be very different, so it will be difficult to get along and leave, and if the economic conditions of the rural men are not good, they will be very economical in terms of expenses, and the girls in the city will definitely not be able to stand it, because they are used to spending money at will.

Because urban women prefer to stay in the city and start a family, their jobs and circle of friends are here, and of course they are not willing to marry rural men who are not as good as her.

Because these urban women feel that men in the countryside have no future and have no education, they are reluctant to marry in the countryside.

Because these urban women feel that rural men have low educational qualifications, marrying them is too wronged.

Because these women, after seeing the prosperity of the city, do not want to follow such boys back to the countryside to farm and live.

Because the competitiveness of rural men is low, compared to urban men, it is much worse.