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Yes, definitely, this example.
There are too many, and what is wrong with the countryside now, the countryside is now quite rich, stronger than the city, and now the countryside is no worse than the city, the only point is to pay attention to the dust in your home, such as the city also pounces on the floor tiles, and the countryside also pounces, but the city sweeps once every 3 days, but the countryside sweeps 2 times a day, the main reason is that there is more soil in the countryside, there are no protection measures, and there are fewer buildings, which is no way.
Pay attention to your own home, don't be too dirty, pay attention to hygiene, I feel, to the city, it's no different.
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Many rural boys are also very promising, and urban girls are not all very good, which should be different from person to person, not just one by one, as long as the two get along and have the same aspirations, there will be good results.
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There must be results.
But I don't know if it's a good result or a bad outcome.
It's up to you.
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The first is the relationship between the two parties, and the most important point is the concept of family, if her parents are against it, it depends on what they are against, if it is for the future of the child, then it is easy to deal with, the future can rely on hard work, if it is other aspects, try to win favor.
And then there's the girl's attitude, of course, the parent's blessing is very important, and the marriage needs the parent's blessing, and the blessed marriage is more complete.
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Not necessarily, I don't think most of them will work out.
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It depends on the attitude of the other party's parents. If with a look of contempt. That's over early. Don't fantasize about Cinderella stories. That's only in fairy tales.
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Of course there will be results, just the difference between good and bad, and ask yourself what exactly you want.
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If the two parties love each other to the limit, I think there will be results, and the current parents, in the city, are less concerned about the right family.
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Yes! Unless that city girl will dislike you! Then at least you can be happy that you have lost someone who doesn't love you, and you can have room to chase after the next one who loves you!
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Anything is possible......
Look at the attitude of his family
As long as the condition of your home is not too bad, it is possible.
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There will be results, because love does not distinguish between high and low.
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If you really love each other, you can transcend time and money, and whether there is a result or not depends on how you, a rural man, pay.
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Love doesn't say that there is no result, as long as it is love, you should love it, don't think about whether there is a result or not! As long as you believe in this truth, love it, and don't doubt anything else!
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This is not necessarily ... Looking at her family, some people like the countryside, honest, kind, and able to endure hardships, and there are a few urban MMs around me who like the men here.
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As long as you are consensual, the result will definitely be good, and your parents will not be able to oppose you! Bold love it!
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You still have family reasons, the door is not right, the household is wrong.
As long as the two of you have a good relationship and get along, it's okay, and the two of you will work together in the future.
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I can't say for sure, but it's still possible.
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Me too, but we didn't have results! She's going to find the right person. Some will have results: that girl loves you very much and is willing to give everything! ·
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As long as you love each other, no matter what kind of identity you are.
It is possible to be together.
Target. Your birth is not the point.
Because a career in the future can change a lot of opinions.
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As long as the women don't dislike the men.
And both parents rejoiced.
I think it's okay.
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Then your heart is not firm, is it true that you love your girlfriend deeply, in fact, rural men and urban women are together, it is indeed a little unrealistic, if you marry in the countryside, how to live, go to the field to farm, face real life, how to continue love,
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No way! Why do you think so much, as long as it's true love, if it's true love, what can't you overcome? As long as you have a chance and bring her happiness, it's fine.
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Not necessarily, everything depends on fate.
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Why do you think so?
I'm weird!
Why mind so much now
What about the countryside?
What about the city?
As long as they are all Chinese, it's OK!
As long as you are motivated, you can also give your loved ones life in the city Why care about your life experience?
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The number of older single men and women is increasing year by year. Among these older leftover men and women, the leftover women are mainly concentrated in the cities, while the leftover men are mainly concentrated in the rural areas. Someone suggested that wouldn't it solve the problem if the leftover women in the city married the leftover men in the countryside?
Suffice it to say, friend, you're too naïve, it's impossible. Because the leftover women in the city would rather die alone than marry the leftover men in the countryside. As for the reason, I'm going to tell you now.
In fact, marriage is about the right family, and this cannot be said to be a force. If you want to be happy in marriage, you must be the right person, and the right person must be the right person, which includes both material and spiritual aspects. The leftover women in the city are all from better families, and even if they are poor, they at least have a house in the city.
Parents also have pensions and do not have to support their children.
The leftover men in the countryside are different, most of the families are very poor, their parents do not have pensions, and they have to support their children. So the two families are not a good match in terms of material, and then talk about the spiritual aspect, most of the leftover women in the city are highly educated. The leftover men in the rural areas generally have low educational qualifications, and generally go out to work after junior high school.
So the two sides are not very compatible in terms of spirit either.
Of course, the leftover men in the countryside and the leftover women in the cities will definitely not accept this condition, because the two sides are too incompatible. Then I will talk about a kind of rural leftover man with relatively good conditions. These leftover men come from rural areas, but they all have good education, have a good job, and have a good income.
This kind of leftover man is called "phoenix man". So if the leftover women in the city marry this kind of phoenix man, will they be able to reap happiness? The answer is not necessarily, or rather, it is difficult.
If the leftover women in the city and the "phoenix man" in the countryside are combined, the "phoenix man" himself is in good condition, but his original family will seriously drag him down. His parents do not have a pension, and he must contribute to support them after marriage. His parents did not have health insurance, and when they fell ill, they had to take them to the city for treatment, and they had to pay a lot of medical expenses.
His siblings may still be in the countryside or have come to work in the city, but they don't mix well. And the "Phoenix Man" is a successful person in their family, not to mention his immediate family, even distant relatives may come to the city and ask him to help. Asking him to contribute money, effort, and relationships is a lot of trouble.
And if the leftover girl in the city chooses to marry the "Phoenix Man", these are the troubles she needs to face with the "Phoenix Man".
Therefore, even if the leftover women in the city marry the "phoenix man" with relatively good conditions, it is difficult to be happy.
Therefore, in the end, the leftover women in the city would rather never marry than choose to marry the leftover men in the countryside. We all got married to have a better life, and no one would want to help the poor.
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The first point is that most of the rural men are very poor and have no money, and the ideas and insights are not the same, because the living environment is different since childhood, the three views will definitely be very different, so it will be difficult to get along and leave, and if the economic conditions of the rural men are not good, they will be very economical in terms of expenses, and the girls in the city will definitely not be able to stand it, because they are used to spending money at will.
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Because urban women prefer to stay in the city and start a family, their jobs and circle of friends are here, and of course they are not willing to marry rural men who are not as good as her.
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Because these urban women feel that men in the countryside have no future and have no education, they are reluctant to marry in the countryside.
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Because these urban women feel that rural men have low educational qualifications, marrying them is too wronged.
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Because these women, after seeing the prosperity of the city, do not want to follow such boys back to the countryside to farm and live.
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Because the competitiveness of rural men is low, compared to urban men, it is much worse.
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Whether the combination of urban women and rural men is suitable depends on the person, and the living habits of urban and rural people are still very different
1.The families of urban girls must not be prejudiced against rural people and look down on rural people. Although life in the rural areas is now better, there are still large differences between urban and rural areas, especially in the central and western regions.
Therefore, it is undeniable that there are still a small number of urban people who look down on rural people in their hearts. Otherwise, once the husband and wife have a conflict, it will be difficult to reconcile.
2.Boys are capable, responsible, and responsible.
Being able to earn money to support the family and be recognized by the girl and her family.
3.The two love each other and have a relatively deep foundation of love, so that they can overcome contradictions and difficulties.
4.The two are able to tolerate each other's different living habits and personality shortcomings.
5.It is best to live and work in the city. Because urban girls grow up in cities, relatively speaking, the living environment, transportation, and shopping convenience in cities are better than those in rural areas, and it will be difficult to adapt to living in rural areas.
There are always frictions in life, marriage is not easy, and it is okay and cherished. The last thing I want to express is that in marriage or love, two people must communicate, especially when a man meets such a girlfriend, he must be self-motivated.
Don't think that you will be proud of finding a girlfriend with good family conditions, if you don't work hard, you will inevitably let the woman's family look first, only if you are strong is the focus.
The key is to look at the two of them, if the relationship is good, they still have a good life, even if they are two people who are right, they are both in the city, and if there is no emotional foundation, they will have to break up after two years.
Now there are a lot of girls in the city looking for rural guys are doing well, after getting married, the parents in the city are taking care of them very well, the parents in the countryside have time to come up and live for a few days, the family gets together, there is no need to live together, in the rural parents have a house and land in the countryside, he does not have that time, sometimes you can also send some of the local products you grow to the children, and the children can also go back to the countryside to live a few days of pastoral life when they have time during the holidays, how good!
The key is to have a good relationship between two people, if two people have no feelings, they don't have that feeling of love for each other, no matter where people are, they won't go together.
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No. Two people live in different environments, and even after getting married, there will be a lot of problems, so don't get married.
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No. Because the two people are not in the right household, there will be no topic at all in the future, and such a marriage will not last long.
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Look at the individual, I think it doesn't matter, the background is not so important, two people can talk, they can run in with each other, they can tolerate each other, and make concessions are the most important things in the relationship.
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City boys don't marry a girl from the countryside. Many people always feel that love can make up for the gap in status when they get married, in fact, marriage is just the beginning, in the long years after marriage, the problem that was not a problem at the beginning will become a big problem, and the thing that was a little dirty at the beginning will definitely become a big problem.
Putting aside real estate and other reasons, the imprint of decades of origin family will often accompany him throughout his life, and an unequal marriage is unlikely to be happy.
Welfare, taxes, wages for various types of work, etc., this is actually a question of how to distribute the cake, the older generation is still proud of marrying workers, and no matter how old the common people still want to marry the landlord's family to eat enough. It's just a profit, it's just a moment of standing a little higher in the pyramid than others. This "advantage" is actually very fragile in the face of history!
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Summary. Not necessarily, it may also be due to family considerations, such as family financial difficulties, family members need support, or to improve living conditions, etc.
Not necessarily, it may also be due to family considerations, such as family financial difficulties, family members need support, or to improve living conditions, etc.
You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?
Not necessarily, it could be for financial reasons or for love reasons. Reasons: 1. Economic reasons:
Rural women marry urban men because of their backward economic development and limited employment opportunities for rural women, while urban men have higher income levels and can provide better living conditions. 2. Reasons for love: Rural women and urban men may get married because of love, and they may marry because they love each other, not for economic reasons.
Solution: 1. We should increase investment in rural areas, improve rural infrastructure, improve the level of rural economic development, and provide more employment opportunities for rural women, so as to reduce the phenomenon of rural women marrying urban men. 2. The society should strengthen the education of rural women, so that they can better understand urban men and enhance their economic ability, so as to reduce the phenomenon of rural rock-type women marrying urban men.
Personal experience and scumbag tips: 1. Rural women should be more rational in their marriage choices, not only marrying urban men for economic reasons, but should pay more attention to love in order to make their marriages happier. Liang Shan 2, urban men should also pay more attention to rural women, not only for economic reasons to marry rural women, should pay more attention to love, in order to make marriage happier.
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