Girlfriend is too proactive, okay? Is it a good thing that a girlfriend is too proactive? Can you el

Nothing bad

It's normal, it's not the feudal society of the past, okay, it's dizzy, do you like your woman like a wooden man? All I can say is that you don't understand the amorous nerd women take the initiative, and most of the reason is that men are too passive. She likes you, but you don't have any reaction, if the woman doesn't take the initiative again, you're afraid you'll let other women chase after you

Catching up is not buying and selling......

Hehe, I think she's still a little afraid of losing you!

Cherish her! It is a blessing to be loved.

In short, cherish the people in front of you, bless you!

What's wrong, it's not that you take the initiative to treat others like that first, you all have needs, can't people have them, does it mean that it's not good? Do you have to pretend? It is in response to that sentence that it is not a good thing to be afraid if it is too easy to obtain, in fact, observing a person should not be too one-sided

She's either going to take the initiative, she's going to tell you to take the initiative. For less than 1 year, I don't think you even dare to kiss her on the mouth.

I said brother, it's a good thing, you're stupid!! This is the most basic thing to fall in love, you should study hard!! She's good.

My point of view I like girls who take the initiative, unless you're the kind of guy who is very feudal.

Obey you, is it a man, what kind of society, if she doesn't like you, I won't look at you more than I want to see ......(You just have fun).

Take the initiative to show that she trusts you very much, don't let her down!

Different people will have different personalities, some are shy, some are proactive. There's no better or worse than that, it's just a matter of whether you like it or not.

Girls taking the initiative is now a trend. As long as you don't get too angry and take the initiative with everyone, it's fine.

It's nothing. Do you like wood.

I think she should be this psychology again... It was she who was introduced by her parents. It feels like it's going to work, so there's nothing to do

If you like a clingy girlfriend and like the feeling of being envied, then for you, this is a sign that your girlfriend doesn't love you enough, if you don't like girls who are too hypocritical, too clingy, and like you to have your own personal space, then such a girlfriend is very suitable for you, and it is a good thing for you.

It's a very good thing, which shows that the other party is a particularly enthusiastic person, and the brigade is also a very direct person, without any bad intentions, and it's very happy to get along with such a person.

This is actually a personal personality problem for every servant.,Some people are slow to heat up and some people are naturally more enthusiastic.,He takes the initiative to be an old sock because he likes you.,If he really doesn't take the initiative.,Ignore the good omen, in fact, this is the existence of the crisis.。

Yes, being too proactive often seems cheap, and if you want to have a good relationship, you have to maintain a certain mystery, just like Eason sings in the song, "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what is favored is fearless".

When you meet someone you like to take the initiative, it is a good thing, but you have to take the initiative in your own hands, rather than leaving it to others to make decisions, once you don't grasp this scale, it will make men feel very "cheap" Of course, girls take the initiative not to be upside down, they need to have their own skills. For example, take the initiative to release a new number of love to a man, intentionally or unintentionally mentioning that you are now single, hoping to find a boy like him; Or if you can have him as a boyfriend on time, you will be so happy that you can wake up laughing when you fall asleep. In short, don't be too obvious, give him a signal to experience it for himself.

Let him realize that you are interesting to him, but not because he has to. If he takes the initiative to pursue you, there will be a story between you. But if he doesn't take the initiative, I'm sorry, then he'll miss out on a great girlfriend like you!

Learn to be comfortable in your relationships, these behaviors will make you look cheap, stop doing it.

1. Take the initiative to beg a man to love himself and not leave.

Love is never begging, which will only make your beloved him more disgusted. Even if you can move him one day, being together is not what you want, the so-called love!

2. Take the initiative to invite men to travel (and the like) in order to get along.

Being alone is a good time to let the relationship warm up and develop, but if you go out for a long trip before you have established a relationship, then it is easy for men to think that you are frivolous, and don't let men think that you are a very casual person.

3. Circling around him twenty-four hours a day, listening to his arrangement.

Don't go around a man every day, he will be annoyed with you, and he will feel that your time is worthless, that you have lost heart to him, and that he will feel bored with you. Don't listen to his arrangement in everything, have your own thoughts, learn to refuse, and have your own principles.

If you want to not be cheap in the relationship, you have to give him a little response in a timely manner, but you must have your own principles, your own independent space to do something to improve yourself, only excellent women are more attractive to men, because they know how to be self-disciplined.

Learn to improve yourself, make yourself radiant, and don't be a yellow-faced resentful woman who is grinded by life.

You must learn to invest in yourself and improve your inner self, only in this way will men cherish it more, get along with you every time, increase the degree of love for you, and love can be stronger.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, it is not good for either party to take the initiative.

Hello, I think in a relationship, if one party is too active, it will often make the other party look down on it, if it is a boy, it will make the girl feel too mother-in-law and mother-in-law, without a little manhood. A girl's words will also be felt too wordy by the other party, like having an extra mother in her life.

First, a certain degree should be maintained in a romantic relationship. No matter what it is, pay attention to timing and moderation, and standardize your words and deeds within the scope of a dull leak. I have personal experience in this regard, because I have been with a person before, and I feel that he cares about me a little too much, and I can't bear it.

For example, he will always pay attention to your movements, and will often ask you what you are doing, I don't worry. In this case, you will feel like you are being watched, and there is no room for any freedom.

Second, being too proactive can be annoying. For example, in a relationship, the other partner may be special to the other party, so they show special concern for the other party. will care about what time she goes to bed, what time she gets up, or what she ate today, for fear that the other party will be cold and hungry.

As everyone knows, everyone is an adult, no longer a child. Such excessive concern and excessive booing will be annoying, and there will be a sense of boredom after a long time.

Third, being too proactive can make people want to escape. Don't say it's in love, even if it's in our family life. When a child grows up and wants to get rid of the discipline of his parents, it is the same as being too active in love and wanting the other party to escape.

Because everyone has their own thoughts and their own ideas, and being too active is equivalent to imposing some of their own wishes on the other party, so that the other party has a feeling that they can't resist, and they can't wait to escape from the shackles of searching for rotten seeds for a while.

Therefore, in a relationship, even if you particularly like the other person, you should maintain a certain amount of reserve. Don't overdo it. We should be good at grasping the degree of interaction between two people, caring for each other in moderation, and taking care of each other in moderation.

Be respectful of what the other person thinks and how they feel. In this way, the relationship between the two people will be more comfortable and there will be no sense of depression. will make this relationship go on smoothly.

I wish you a good mood every day.

First of all, gentle initiative is goodFirst of all, we should make it clear that gentle initiative is good. In a relationship, normal positive communication and interaction can increase mutual understanding and intimacy, and at the same time, it can also deepen the feelings of both parties. If the other party also really likes us, then the appropriate initiative to express their emotions and love will not only not make the other party feel pressure, but will enhance the relationship between each other!

Secondly, being overly proactive is bad, however, as with anything, being overly proactive is bad. Common manifestations include: too frequent **, text messages and WeChat, unconsciously listening to everything about the other party; Take the initiative to think about the other person and solve the problem, but the other person is used to your dependence; Excessive sacrifice and dedication make the other party become too relieved and don't care about you.

Such behavior is not only easy to make people feel tired and constrained, but can also lead to emotional exhaustion and withdrawal.

Therefore, to find more balance disadvantages, we should find the balance between ourselves and the other party's feelings. Take the initiative to express your emotions and love appropriately, let the other party know your sincere hopes and desires, but don't chase and force the other party's response. At the same time, you should also learn to maintain yourself in the relationship, learn to control your emotions and needs, and not rely too much on the attention and kindness of the other person.

In short, Bu Hongzhi, in a relationship, being too active will not make the other party not cherish himself. Moderate proactive expression can increase the relationship between the two parties, but being too proactive can lead to emotional stress and burnout. Therefore, we should find a balance between ourselves and each other, maintain a good relationship and attitude towards life, and make ourselves and the other person feel happy and satisfied.

1. Too proactive performance.

1.Frequently take the initiative to contact each other, take the initiative to chat, and offer to meet or go on a date.

2.Showing too much enthusiasm in the relationship, caring too much about the other person's life and work, and even taking the initiative to solve problems for the other person.

3.Demanding too much from the other person, or putting too much pressure and burden on the other person, making the other person feel uncomfortable.

Second, the impact of too much initiative.

1.The other person may feel stressed and burdened, and feel that they cannot handle too much attention and pressure.

2.The other person may feel passive and unfree, feeling that they do not have enough space and freedom.

3.The other party may feel unappreciated and feel that their efforts are not valued and recognized by the other party.

3. How to avoid being too proactive.

1.Learn to let go: In a relationship, don't be too proactive, learn to let go, and give the other person a certain amount of space and freedom.

2.Adhere to principles: Adhere to your own principles and bottom line, do not compromise and accommodate each other too much, and maintain a certain degree of independence and self.

3.Give in moderation: In a relationship, give in moderation, don't over-invest, and maintain a certain balance and stability.

Fourth, too proactive approach.

1.Communicate honestly: If you find yourself being too proactive in your relationship, you can take the initiative to express your thoughts and feelings openly to the other person and seek their understanding and support.

2.Keep a distance: If you find that the other party pays too much attention and dedication to you, you can appropriately maintain a certain distance and alienation to give the other party some freedom and space.

3.Adjust your attitude: If you find that your attitude and behavior are causing discomfort and stress to the other person, you can adjust your attitude and behavior to make the other person feel more comfortable and comfortable.

Don't take the initiative too much, because Qi Yu will never know what kind of man the other party is, so it is not worth taking the initiative too much.